October 2018 Archives

Swingers Blog Archives from October 2018.

how to tell someone is on

How can you tell that someone is online?... read more

Amused Me

Just seen a speed date where a couple were looking for :"VWE white or mixed race or black but nothing else"Just amused by the nothing else - how about 8/10 Asian 1/10 White and 1/10 black - does that count :-)... read more

Erotic Music

We want to share our erotic playlist with you. Search on Hansvg123 in Spotify. Then select playlist Erotic Loungh. Enjoy 😉... read more

Spice it up with a video or photos

I am available to shoot videos or photos of you, in my area. Check out my profile and message me to chat. I work in marketing during the day. I certainly would be discreet and open to your ideas. Thanks.... read more

Lessons learned from this past Saturday - S1 E16

Yesterday started like an epic disaster. We planned a date with a great looking couple from out of town. Initially it's drinks after dinner. Then it turns into an invitation for dinner with a local sports celebrity in the mix - they bought a very expensive package to go see a game. We don't know who... read more

Pro Tip: Gag reflex

Forgive me if this has been covered, but we stumbled onto a way to suppress the gag reflex during a blowjob (or anything else for that matter) and it is very easy.   Simply place your left thumb under your fingers and squeeze like you are making a fist.   Squeeze firmly, but not ... read more

First Gumbo

We have been anxiously waiting for the weather to turn cool because that marks the beginning of the fall gumbo season. The first cool day is here and I wasnt going to miss the opportunity. So while my lovely lady is showering, I am in the kitchen getting the gumbo started. One must always rememb... read more

portland oregon

looking for any recomendations for portland oregon clubs or resorts. i will be in portland area for a week later next year for business and sightseeing and looking for any swingers clubs or clothing optional swingers resorts/hotels. i frequent rooftop resort in florida and mon chalet in denver. i ha... read more

Picture collectors

During the past couple of months I have had a huge increase of couples asking me for additional photos and then radio silence. Even when its a one for one exchange, same nonsense. I now have decided to decline photo request until after we meet. My question is what is the thrill of erotic photos of... read more

Hot Wife loves to dance

What A awsome night as I went out on the Dance floor feeling good.. Yes I love to dance, moving across the dance floor feeling like I own the floor!! As his Wife admires my Move in her pink mini skirt and sexy legs!! Placing my eyes straight up n down thinking Wow she is So Beautiful n Sexy, Thinkin... read more

Any Cap d` Agde rentals 2019

We are looking a Apartment or studio to rent in Cap Naturist Village for two people next year from around the Saturday 13th July 2019  for a week or maybe ten nights. Please get in touch with the full cost & any pictures.... read more


Hello: We have been a member here for sometime. Why do member on here, do not put there right age in. When you do a search for a age & you get 20's 30's & you are looking for 50's..60's. They  put in 69..80.. or what ever age number & you look at there picture...ya right....lol ... read more

Miami NYE 2019

Our first time in Miami, we arrive on 30th December 2018, can anyone suggest a Club or private party for New Years Eve 2019.  X... read more

Lessons learned from this past Sunday - S1 E15

Wife realized on Friday she had the Monday off, and felt like playing on Sunday night. Can you please get friends together real quick? Just say it’s to watch the Cowboys game. Lesson #1: Don’t tell your husband he is going to soon have sex with friends when he is driving, his mind will wander o... read more

BBC in Berlin

Hi all, I will be in Berlin in 25 October. I want to make a BBC suprise to my wife. It has always been her dream to be fucked by a black male. If anyone interested let me know. Thank in advance ... read more

2/10 - 7/1018: Post Ibiza Week Partying

2/10 Woke after 8 to find I had no internet and so spent 30 mins trying to report it and resigned myself to not having it for the day. Instead watched a recording of the Russian F1 and then unpacked the suitcases. By then then the internet was back and started work. Sky came and installed a new ... read more

Toronto - wanting to swing sun eve & mon eve

Hi, We are in Toronto on Sunday 2 December and Monday 3 December - where should we go to swing? We have seen several clubs which are only open Friday’s and Saturdays - but no clues for Sunday evenings and Monday evenings. Does anyone have any advice for clubs or even contact websites / apps ... read more

Sexual appetite

What are natural methods to increase libido?... read more

My Friend`s Halloween Party

My female friend is having a swinger house party after 7pm on Saturday October 20th 2018. It will be located in near Winston, Georgia, she is looking for only couples and single females that will be interested of coming to her party. I do know her in person and I have permission from her to invit... read more

Honolulu and Waikiki

We are going on vacation in early November and wanted to see if anyone had suggestions or recommendations of things to do while we are there.... read more

Super Sexperience Dive Team

Hi, Any Sexy Divers for the next Sexperience 2019? Please join us... read more

Disney Cruise - October 19 2018 New York

Yes, it's a Disney cruise for the kiddies. However, we were hoping to meet other like-minded adults on the cruise to chat and hang out with (not in a sexual way). Lifestyle couples are always fun to get to know. ... read more

why hasn`t the SDC Cuba cruise sold out?

so I sold my cabin on the Bliss cruise, earlier this year and switched to the SDC cruise. but there seems to be much more demand for the Bliss cruise. am I missing something?... read more

New Interface

Am I alone in thinking the new interface is clunky and almost impossible to use on a mobile device?... read more

Looking for `Bliss Cruise` Cancellations for the Nov. 11-17, 2018 `Independence of the Seas`

We are wanting to attend the November 11-17, 2018 Bliss Cruise. We are looking for anyone who needs to cancel their existing reservation. We are looking for a balcony, window or interior cabin. Respond here or KIK magicandcrystal   Thanks in advance.... read more

BDSM In Paris

Will be arriving in Paris next week and wondering what clubs might be worth checking out that mix the lifestyle and BDSM? Any suggestions.... my first visit to Paris : ) Thanks in advance!... read more

“Old SDC” is now an option!

On my phone and tablet, I’ve been suffering with the new beta version of this site for the past week. There is a new menu option (old SDC) which allows us to use the old, tried and true version. Woohoo! Thank you SDC!... read more


Hello all, I will be in Munich with a partner and was trying to explore the club scene there. Can anyone recommend a good one? The ones online seem to admit single men every day and I am always leery that those are not genuine clubs. Thanks so much... read more

Halloween Party, (Need a sexy server suggestion)

We are hosting a sexy halloween costume party this year, it's a vanilla party ( a few lifestyle couples will attend but mainly vanilla) however all will be a bunch of sexy cool people. The theme is sexy, risque kind of party with a truth/dare wheel as a trick or treat theme. There will be some wild ... read more

Fantasy Fest Kinky Couples Party

Hi We will be at Duval Gardens Thursday thru Sunday of Fantasy Fest. Is anyone planning to go to the Kinky Couples Party Friday, Saturday, or both? Advance tickets are $500 per couple both nights...any ideas?... read more

Where are all the hot wives, QOS and single females at?

Lots of talk (endless emails) but no action? I guess no one believes I truly love to watch my hot man pleasure other women. Oh well their loss. ). ... read more

Le Boudoir London

Anyone have feedback on the club that they can share? What to expect? Thoughts? Any tips? And is anyone going to the kink event tomorrow October 4th?!?!?!? First time visiting London : ) ... read more

Have you ever..

Have you ever found your old partner (in this case ex girlfriend) here on SDC? I introduced her to the lifestyle but after the separation she wasn't in the lifestyle anymore what i knew. I know she found herself a new partner and im glad she did :) But now a couple of weeks ago i was going thro... read more

What a day..

Our profile states we are a bi couple. It is who we are and what we like, it is not hidden. So.. when people message, it is rightly or wrongly assumed on our part that people have read that and seen our orientation.  Doesn't always go that way! Chatting to someone today and it comes r... read more

24/9 to 1/10/18: Party time in Ibiza!!

24/9 Woke at 9.30 is and we slowly rose. Had some me tea and toast and between some work calls got packed for our week in Ibiza. We got a taxi after 1pm to Victoria and then hopped on the Gatwick Express to Gatwick. Whole journey was an hour door to door. Checked in quickly and then went to the ... read more

Fotos en Publico

Saludos a todos, Primero les contamos que nos encanta ser vistos y jugar un tanto en lugares publicos. Ahora bien, le pedimos que ideas nos podrian dar para tomarnos fotos en lugares publicos. que lugares les resurtan eroticos? para tomarnos fotos sensuales llenas de erotismo y morbo. Tambien nos gu... read more

Key West

Hi,Is there anything lifestyle related on Key West? Can't seem to find anything, or even any swingers in that area. We're heading there next week, and are open for some adult fun.The same applies for Miami Beach area. Any venues, clubs where to meet nice, like minded couples?... read more

How to have a good time at our club

Lately, we have seen so many new members at the Club,often new to the Lifestyle, that it's time again to talk aboutwhat the Club is about, what to expect, but mostly:"How to have a good time at the Club"First of all,Club Hedonism is NOT like the usual night spot wheremost patrons keep to themselves ... read more


Wife and I going to be in Nashville on a Thursday night.  Wondering if there are any local/downtown regular bars were swingers go.  We have been to the clubs in Nashville and had a great time but would like to see if we can get something going naturally with flirting and such.  Any ad... read more

We want erotic pics taken

We would like to have some really sexy and erotic pictures taken of the 2 of us.Suggestions on who to handle this for us? Would like outdoor pics and just alot more of just her.Thanks for your time.... read more

Erotic Music

We want to share our erotic playlist with you. Search on Hansvg123 in Spotify. Then select playlist Erotic Loungh. Enjoy 😉... read more