November 2008 Archives

-The Annual Toys For Tots Drive Started Last Week, Let’s Keep It Rocking On! Friday, November 21st- Warm Up@ The Silver Minx Baby its cold outside! It may be cold outside but you can keep warm in our indoor hot tub ! Then if you want to turn the heat up a notch cum... read more

soft sm

11-14-2008 by VINTAGE2011

Can anybody define for me soft sm and is anybody aware of parties on this theme? thanks Barbara... read more

Things to know...

11-06-2008 by BLONDONBLOND

Things to Know:If you yelled for 8 years, 7 months and 6 days you would have produced enough sound energy to heat one cup of coffee.(Hardly seems worth it.)If you farted consistently for 6 years and 9 months, enough gas is produced to create the energy of an atomic bomb.(Now that's more like it!)The... read more

Visiting NY on december

11-05-2008 by ANNAMARCO

We'll visiting new york on dec 15th. Italian couple, 46-44, open minded :) Some suggestion to spend some funny horny time there ? thanks ! ... read more

intercourse etiquette and decency

11-02-2008 by BLONDONBLOND

Intercourse Etiquette and Decency 1) NOT KISSING FIRST. Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you're paying by the hour and trying to get your money's worth by cutting out nonessentials. A proper passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay (BUT BY NO... read more

DO LOOK AT {COMFORT LEVEL} BEFORE YOU MEET?

11-28-2008 by BLACKTROY1

HI FOLKS. I DON'T KNOW IF I AM THE ONLY GUY ON THIS LEAGUE. I LIKE TO SEE COMFORT LEVEL FIRST. BEFORE I MEET. ARE YOU ON THE SAME LEAGUE WITH ME? OR I AM JUST TOO KINKY HEHEHEHEHE... read more

shoes

11-26-2008 by CPL4FUN19

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I have always wanted to know, when having sex, why do most all women wear those god-ugly shoes? ... read more

Buenas noches

11-25-2008 by JUNTOSSIEMPRE

Buenas noches Queremos reservar una semana en febrero del 2009 desde el 1 hasta el 7 en Desiree Cancun. Esperamos respuesta Carlos y Dori... read more

THE GOOD NEWS BLOG

11-25-2008 by NIPPY6781

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With all the negativity around the globe at the moment,I thought it might be a nice idea for a blog that only has good news to report. In any given day,theres always something good that happens,however trivial, but it lifts the spirit of others around them. Tell us something good that happened to yo... read more

older mature ladies

11-24-2008 by ELECTRICLOVERS

gosh I love those sexy older gals, I really think they are the most valueable and sexual things on earth. those hubby's of these ladies need to share those world wonders with us guys dont have that, Maybe even 2 at once would balance the world budget. Really they are shockingly hot. And I am waiting... read more

Really uncertain

11-24-2008 by DNM

Recently, I have met or heard of at least three women who have a desire to use a strap on or a vibrator on their man. I guess my question, is this normal? Is the stigma attached as having gay tendencies if one was to let it happen. Any dangers? Now my girl has expressed the same interest ... read more

Lady or Slut?

11-24-2008 by TEXAN

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I see some women in the lifestyle who proudly proclaim that they are sluts. I see others who are offended at the mere suggestion of such a term. I assume that they are assigning different meanings or connotations to the same term. Do you consider yourself a lady? a slut? both? neither?... read more

consejos...

11-23-2008 by SDC Member

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hola!! quisiera saber que consejos utiles me podrian dar para practicar sexo anal sin dolor y disfrutando el placer??... read more

Honesty

11-23-2008 by BLOSSOMSCHERRY

Hi I've been seeing a guy for 7 months who prides himself on his honesty & has been in the lifestyle since '91;i told him I don't care if he plays;per our original agreement,as long as he is honest;& I agreed to do the same with him,I kept my end of the agreement & he has decieved me up ... read more

Burning Question

11-20-2008 by BLOSSOMSCHERRY

I'm troubled...I started seeing someone & although we made an agreement that we'd be HONEST with eachother & confide in eachother when we'd played or wanted to with someone new; he told me anything & everything But;which I resent & don't comprehend...even upon new validations he'd ma... read more

is it normal

11-20-2008 by DNM

Recently, i have heard from at least three women that they have a desire to use a strap on or a vibrator on their man. Now my own woman seems interested. I am a bit afraid about this but I do want to let her live out her fatasies. Is it a gay thing for me to let her? Any dangers involved... read more

Hedonism Club Preferences

11-19-2008 by SDC Member

When we go to Hedonism, we usually stay in the nude section. I like to alk around nude, and like to check out everyone with no clothing to get in the way. My question is, do the guys like it if the woman approaches them if they are interested? Or should I just keep myself out there... read more

Let's talk about sex, baby....

11-19-2008 by GMAN13

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I am prepared for the flaming that I am going to get for this but it is just my humble opinion that a swingers' site is no place to discuss religion nor politics. There are many more appropriate places to have such discourse and it is likely to be much more informed. Do we really need to know some... read more

how to do it

11-18-2008 by ELECTRICLOVERS

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how do you get your wife to start swinging when she appears to not be interested? she is hot, loves sex, very beautiful, loves to play games and seems like the type but dont know. ... read more

There's a world outside your window

11-17-2008 by ROSIE188

Bearing in mind that the democratic vote was mainly the young voters and the thinking middle classes, why would you want to swing with a republican.... read more

Blog without mentioning the "A" Word

11-17-2008 by ROSIE188

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just thought it might be nice to have a blog that doesn't mention the "A" word special bonus points for talking on a international swinging site about anything other than bloody America-----... read more

swingers clubs

11-17-2008 by SEXYCOUPLES

cpls going to sydney australia , must visit lotus lounge , its a paradise for swingers... read more

The Dream Of Manchester

11-16-2008 by HOTEROTICA

.....IS CUMMMING!!! Soooooo...Be A Rum Turkey ... read more

Hedo II or Desire Cancun: That is the Question

11-16-2008 by MUFFANDJEFF

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We have not been to Desire in Cancun yet, but heard that it is very nice. We have been to Hedo II in Jamaica and enjoyed it so much we went back 6 weeks later! If you go to Hedo II we recommend the rooms facing the the beach with the outdoor hot tubs on the nude side ("au naturel&q... read more

Sexo tantrico

11-16-2008 by NAUTAE

Deseariamos iniciarnos en el sexo tantrico, como nos recomienda que lo hagamos. ¿Habra alguna pareja de socios en nuestra zona que nos pueda ayudar?... read more

Room and board for Inauguration DC

11-14-2008 by SJU787

Ive been getting requests from lots of random people on myspace and facebook to stay at my place so they can come see the inauguration on Jan 20th. I thought it would be a good idea to offer people on here the chance to stay at my place is they were planning to come to the area. I live in Alexandria... read more

I think I pee'd just a little from laughing so hard.

11-14-2008 by SDC Member

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http://www.leenks.com/link133196.html Until you've been stung by one of these you just can't fully appreciate the moment. ... read more

The G-20’s Secret Debt Solution... Oh this could be scary!!

11-13-2008 by SDC Member

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The G-20’s Secret Debt Solution by Larry Edelson 11-13-08 If you think this weekend’s G-20 meetings in Washington are only about designing short-term fixes to the financial system and regulatory reforms for banks, h... read more

SW PARTY IN PANAMA....!!!!

11-12-2008 by PAREJAHOT31

SW PARTY EN PANAMA, SERIA UNA EXCELENTE IDEA. SERA QUE ALGUN DIA VARIOS NOS PODEMOS PONER DE ACUERDO Y ORGANIZAR ALGO BICURIOSO Y CON MUCHO EROTISMO, Y HACER TRAVESURAS. MMMMM ... read more

SW PARTY EN PANAMA!!!!

11-12-2008 by PAREJAHOT31

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SW PARTY EN PANAMA, SERIA UNA EXCELENTE IDEA. SERA QUE ALGUN DIA VARIOS NOS PODEMOS PONER DE ACUERDO Y ORGANIZAR ALGO BICURIOSO Y CON MUCHO EROTISMO, Y HACER TRAVESURAS. MMMMM ... read more

SOULS MEET PARTY FEEDBACK Nov 7th

11-12-2008 by ESTELLE

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Hi, We'd just like to say a BIG THANK YOU!! To everyone that attended the Souls meet Party in Birmingham on Nov 7th. We're now looking for feedback from those who attended... Judging from the response on the night, it seems that the guests we asked REALLY enjoyed the evening BUT we all know it... read more

North East Swingers

11-11-2008 by SJU787

It seems this site isnt as popular up here in the North East (Wash DC, New York etc) as it is in Miami and south america. Is there another site which is stronger in this area? I just moved here from Puerto Rico and its kind of disheartening. ... read more

Barter, Render, Inform, ....

11-11-2008 by HEDOCPL4U3

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With economic instability on the rise, and being in a service industry (Beauty) I often wonder if there is more that we can do to help each other save a little. So instead of arguing politics, and more often than not bickering, in other blogs, this is my offering...Can you?... B... read more

Respect

11-11-2008 by BLOSSOMSCHERRY

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Respect for yourself, your partner & all prospective playmates is an integral part of the lifestyle,I believe. With consideration, discretion & mutual respect,there need be no drama, or hardly any... Unlike conventional relationships,we are living "outside the box" & have the... read more

Que estas dispuesto a hacer por una Validacion?

11-11-2008 by SELECCION

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Somo pareja con algo de tiempo en el ambiente, tiempo que no es precisamente proporcional en teoria a las experiencias que hemos tenido, en el caso nuestro la mayoria reflejadas en nuestras validaciones o certificaciones, pero; que tanto estan las parejas, solos o solas dispuestos a hacer por una va... read more

Pineapple juice's effect on ejaculate taste

11-11-2008 by SDC Member

I have heard that pineapple juice can enhance the flavor of a man's ejaculate. Is this true and if so, how much, how often, and how long before oral sex does it take to work? Tell me everything I need to know. On the contrary, what foods should a man and/or female stay away from before ... read more

MASSAGE FOR WIFE

11-11-2008 by JEMA

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HELLO LOVE TO SEE MY WIFE HAVING A NUDE MASSAGE BY A MAN IN A SPA HOTEL.SEE HIM PUT HIS HANDS ON HER BODY AND HER PUSSY .SHE WOULD LOVE THAT TOO ANYBODY SAME INTEREST,?ANY EXPERIENCES ?WHERE CAN WE FOUND SOMETHING LIKE THAT KISSES ... read more

any volunteers???

11-10-2008 by TEAMOFWILD

i am a dirty dirty girl..... but...this is a good thing right...? i am looking to live out one of my longest lived fantasies that we have not yet accomplished...... and i need a few willing volunteers.... we will host at our house....we have a nice private bar complete with dance floor/stripper ... read more

swingers who ride motorcycles

11-10-2008 by FASTIE401

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Who would be interested in having a bunch of swingers who enjoy cruising bikes get together at a buddies motorcycle dealer. We all can just meet and greet and go on runs, any suggestions lets make it happen. The dealer in Miami florida ... read more

Orgasm during Swing

11-09-2008 by SDC Member

Normally when I am with my wife, I can hold my orgasm, but when we try with another coaple and with another man, I was so clazy to see my wife with another man and the other girl with me that in 2 minutes i had an orgasm. I tried diferent stuffs to hold but now I am thinking to take a VIAGRA and le... read more

Recovery Center Run by Two Good Friends

11-08-2008 by SFLACPL2C

HI, I am sending this to all those on our "party list". I wish I could invite everyone to a party, but as some of you know, my daughters have grown old enough that having a get together would not allow for the discretion we need. Kathy and I (Joel) miss all the fun we ... read more

Halloween Ball

11-08-2008 by THECHURCH

Just a quickie to thank everyone who came along to the Halloween Masked Ball - some fantastic, sexy outfits which obviously took some time to make!! It was great to see everyone getting into the mood and the place was certainly buzzing. Can't wait to do it all again soon and we'll be holding a... read more

My Blog--Ramblings, Thoughts, Questions

11-03-2008 by SANTA2

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I have actually considered doing this for some time -- just putting up a blog wherethere is no specific topic but that all kinds of things can be discussed.... read more

Italian Cork Soakers

11-03-2008 by US2INFLA4FUN

Let's all take a brake and laugh a min. http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x3fuia_italiancorksoakers_fun ... read more

My other half broke the rules

11-02-2008 by EULESSCOUPLE

Hello, I am writing because my other half broke the rules and now I dont know what to do. We have an open relationship, and it has been that way from day one. Recently I have been forced with my job to be overseas for months at a time. So we decided that if eiter one of us wants to play while we ... read more

Kissing

11-01-2008 by SDC Member

Comments 73

We have been asked a bunch of times "Do you allow kissing?" Are there really people who swing but don't kiss? What would the issue be - fuck each other but don;t dare kiss her?... read more

No more politics after Tuesday - hooray!!!

11-01-2008 by SDC Member

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This is a swinger site - yet everytime you talk in the chatroom its football or sports; and almost every blog on here is hate in politics. Can we change the discussions back to sex - it is what we joined for - to have sex with people!! If I wanted to talk sports, I would be on ESPN.com and I can ge... read more

SNUBBISH ATTITUDE AND VERY CLASS-CONSCIOUS

11-01-2008 by BLACKTROY1