November 2017 Archives

Swingers Blog Archives from November 2017.

Searching For New Friendship

I am 69 years old and I can travel or hosthostDrop me a line ifanyone is interested in meeting me or wants more information.   I am 69 years old and I hope to meet new friends.... read more

Little discussed profile feature

I`ve not seen a post where the details of our profiles: Comfort level, What you like, and Fetishes are discussed. We are interested in feedback on whether or not this info is even relevant. How carefully do people select what to include. And, do you read other`s selections. Thanks.... read more


EROTIKA - Ultimate Fetisha warm waters and the magic celebration. Almost sold out 5 rooms still available for overnight magic! Lifestyles groups hot HOT! - It`s the fetisha events from mild to wild - The only club where you can indulge in the fetisha you wish - Either chill in pa... read more

Busy work week!: 20/11 to 26/11/17

20/11 I love Monday! Anyway full work day and Rita was out most of the afternoon doing stuff at her youngest’s flat and did some shopping. Evening we watched TV and later a little M. Then bed and we made love before we eventually fell asleep.21/11 Woke at 7.30 and started work after reading Times... read more


Hi we will be in Tenerife over Christmas 14th to 28th and would love to have some fun while we`re out there. We love meeting both singles and couples, love going to clubs and nudist beaches and open to any suggestions.     ... read more

Alaska Bound

Going on Alaska Cruise (vanilla) on Celebrity Millenium &nbspfor 7 days with an additional land portion to Fairbanks, Denali and Seward from &nbspMay 28 to June 1 , 2018...JOIN US FOR FUN ...Luv to have Swing mates ..Already one is going with us ......Any age and race &nbspwelcome ....Wa... read more

Idea for a swinging app

I have had an idea for an app could deal with the age old problem of not being able to easily identify other swinging couples when in the vanilla world, I am sure we have all been sat in a bar somewhere and played the `are they - aren`t they` game.So heres how i seeing it working a swinging couple w... read more

Reflections on cuckolds and their hot wives

Cuckold : Definition…[]The husband of an adulteress, often regarded as an object of ridicule.I recently had an interesting chat with a cuckold and his wife. The overall conversation was excellent and provided me with an opportunity for more in-depth reflection ... read more

The Tease.

The glans gently parts the lips as I hold onto her white pear shaped hipsAs my frenulum feels her pussy. Pleasure shutters but I keep controlShe pushes back to get more but my hands hold her in place. I tease herMy hips move backward, only the tip of my glands are against her lips.Knowing that the f... read more

Sweet Dreams are made of these experiences

I believe that dreams can provide a view into the future via a small distorted keyhole. I recently experienced an unusual dream that stirred some overwhelming emotions. I penned a quick note to my friend as soon as I got up. The letter that I wrote is belowI dreamt of you last night. I went to some ... read more

Field Notes..

Heels make noise on the wooden entryway. He waits for a moment at the barShe is all in black. The cream and milky skin augment her lovely smile. Her body is unrealA gentle embrace results in an assurance of comfort. Relief.Lunch is light and the topics start with the Tudors in the court and the Fren... read more

Vegas Suggestions

Headed to Vegas in December to celebrate birthdays and meet Britney : ) Would like to incorporate some fun and visit some of the clubs there but not sure which ones or where to go. Been to Vegas before and know my way around the casinos but not the kinky and lifestyle part...Any suggestions?Thanks ... read more

What would you do

I`ve &nbspbeen &nbspconversing with the male half of a couples profile.. He seems to &nbspknow all the &nbspright things to say to entice you.   Educated ,experience and well &nbspspoken. &nbspSo we have been chatting and exchange pics. . He &nbspsends a pic of himself .... read more

SUGAR! Princess Parties

If you have ever made it the LAS VEGAS ONE LOVE SMI OR THE PALM SPRINGS ALL NEW Sea Mountain Spa you will find that it`s one of the sexiest weeks and weekend for all the Sea Mountain Princesses. We have some guests coming for the 7th year in a row as one of the most welcoming and e... read more

hey everyone

we are acpect people unit 8pm for my birthday guest list ... read more

Is it worth to start?

Would be pleasure to hear swinging experience. Is it worth to start? Interesting to know couple experience who been doing this for longer time. Ist it destroying or opsit for relationship after a while.Where is best place to start swinging experience?... read more

Pending `Approval` Validations

Two very interesting things have happened to us in the past few days relating to this subject....1. A profile tried to give us a validation that we had not even chatted with...much less met.2. Was viewed by another profile and when we went to view their validations it showed an `approval` pending va... read more

Swinging in the 1790`s?

In a recent episode of Poldark (Season 3, episode 8) on PBS, the lead female character discussed what I would consider to be swinging with her husband it was phrased as a `What if`... something like, `I wish that I could be with someone else, for only one day, and then return to the man I love`. A y... read more

What to expect at a hotel takeover?

Being new, being a girl, or just wanting to be prepared. Does anyone have any advice on what to expect at a hotel takeover? We booked a room for New Years and it is a whole hotel takeover, but on the party FAQ they basically said in public areas you have to act accordingly. Just curious... help a ne... read more

Supposed to have been a party weekend! 13/11 to 19/11/17

13/11 Monday morning but didn’t wake up till 8.30! Woke Rita gone 10 who got up as she was planning to go out from midday for most of the day. Reminded her that she had an eye test tomorrow and so she said she’d have to rearrange meeting MrsE. The cleaner arrived at 11.30 just before Rita left a... read more

Why don`t we men do better?

In light of the ongoing discussions involving sexual abuse and illicit sexual behavior going on in Hollywood, Washington DC and numerous other places throughout the country, I am often left wondering, why? Maybe I`m older than most on this site, and was raised in a two parent household with a heavy ... read more

Feeling discouraged

We are new to swinging. We decided back in January to indulge ourselves. We both were super excited at the possibilities. We both decided soft swap only, and only with couples that both were bi. We quickly discovered that soft swap dropped the potential playing field down considerably. Add in the r... read more

Need suggestions on lubrication

We love the life style and always practice safe sex.  During intercourse the condom does not cause discomfort for me but by the next day I am always very irritated.  I have tried several brands to no avail.  Looking for suggestions.  The guys that have great stamina are my favorite, until the ne... read more

What`s everyone up to

Hey pretty new to this lifestyle style just wondering if anyone wants to chat or get together.... pretty bored right now if any one is up for a chat send me msg ... read more


Is it just a more LS attitude that we see in our lives with human contact or is it right to accuse some one 30 years later of Groping. Totally believe in saying something if you feel uncomfortable about contact or give them a punch in the gut. File a police report.....But 30 years later come on. ... read more

All sexy people in UK .... need your recommendation

calling all sexy people in UK , coming for the first time to this amazing city. would like to know the best swingers clubs in town will appreciate recommendations and tips )Kisses... read more

Hot wife cpl on a cruise in a few weeks, need advice

We`re somewhat new to hot wife LS, less than a year, but fantastic so far. We`re on a 7-day cruise in December and wondering about the best way for her to meet men on the ship.She has a hot wife t-shirt and ankle bracelet and is very smiley and friendly and such, so making eye contact, being invitin... read more


Got into a `discussion` on another blog with a couple where both the male and the female are bisexual. The blog was by a gentleman who has issues with the honesty of a potentially bisexual male during a play situation and surprises. A comment was made by a bi couple that bi sexual males are prevalen... read more

hot shopping

Hi there, Where do you buy hot lingerie or sex toys from? Which online shops do you prefer and why.what is your best advice on online sex toy shopping.... read more

Vegas tips - to play or not to play?

I (Christopher) will be in Las Vegas for a very dull conference the first week in December and am seeking advice as to play potential for straight single males out there.With my better half’s approval, I’m wondering what are the best options:1) Try and find a private party through a speed date2)... read more

Fun night with friends: 6/11 to 12/11/17

6/11 Monday and this is the day Rita’s youngest is now planning to move into his new flat. Sighs of relief all round. Spent the day working while Rita helped her son pack. Delivery guy turned up at 3pm and I left for the gym after a visit to the GP. Rita got home early evening and we thoroughly en... read more

Finding another woman to join us?

For my birthday my husband &nbspsurprised me with a three some with him another guy. I really enjoyed it and wanted to return the favor to him on his birthday. but unfortunately it’s been impossible to find a single women on here that would be interested in joining a. &nbspWhat’s the sec... read more

One or two photos

let`s see what I get as a single man obviously I look more for unicorns profiles to see if I find some kind of match but, I have noticed from most of them is that there are only 1 or 2 photos or some not even question (s) &nbspis are they too shy? fake? or just being discrete... read more

After Thanksgiving party at Secrets

 We will be celebrating our 5th anniversary at Secrets (just south of Orlando) on Nov 24-25 :) cum and celebrate with us :)  we will have a meet n greet in our room (#157) on Saturday night at 6pm. My special Rum Runners, and finger foods will be furnished, just bring your willings bodies ... read more

Secrets after Thanksgiving

We will be celebrating our 5th anniversary on Nov 24-25 at Secrets, in Kissimmee (just south of Orlando) cum and celebrate with us--we`ll have a meet n greet at our room (#157) that Saturday night, at 6pm--my special blend of Rum Runners are furnished, along with some finger foods :)  all you need ... read more

Desire Cancun question

What is the difference between desire resort and desire Pearl resort ? Which one is more recommended ?We plan to be there at the end of Jan 2018… ... read more

luis birthday

we are accpect people unit 7pm so if any couple nd singles ladies wnt to join the party are welcome ... read more

Undisclosed Sexual Preferences

As a single male whose been privileged enough to travel and have fun with different types of people, one issue always seems to show it`s ugly head. Countless times I`ve come across a profile, read it in detail (to verify a possible connection), contacted the couple, exchanged pleasantries, met, and ... read more

I have a fantasy

I have a fantasy. I met a man online. He was experienced in things I wanted to try. He seemed confident but not cocky. He had that smoothie personality and you knew he was a leader type. He could navigate me through my fantasey. He was polite and knew his way around the life style crowd. He knew... read more

GroupSex at a Farm House

&nbspAs we had tasted the joy of swinging, we began to experiment more. We found an older couple in Pune, who loved hosting parties. They had a very palatial house with a pool. This is a story of one the first fun party we went to.&nbspWe arrived one afternoon and they were at least 20 peopl... read more

Shopping and swinging UK

We want to go to UK before xmas and want to shop gifts and also want to have fun in the evening, private meets or clubs. We been many times to London and love it but would love to try another city this time. Any advise?... read more

Male/Male interaction

In reading profiles we see `no&nbspbi play but not homophobic`   Can someone explain the difference?... read more

Lifestyle club in Dallas, Texas

We’re interested in traveling to Dallas, and wanted to attend a lifestyle club or nice lifestyle friendly club. Can anyone give us some suggestions about Dallas?... read more

Hot Bodies and Hot Minds Only :-)

How often have we seen that phrase - `hot bodies and hot minds only` or `gym fit only`. As if a hot body really means anything.  Sex, seduction and attraction is not really physical. What we usually find on this site, are a lot of wannabe`s who are looking to find that elusive element `sexual chemi... read more

What Was That Very First Full Swap Experience Like?

Hello Everyone,I couldn’t sleep so I decided to write this blog for some insight. I’m inquiring as the title says because I am having visions of seeing my lady give another guy oral, have intercourse, etc but I don’t know how I will feel in the moment and afterwards. A couple of weeks ago at R... read more

Looking for local fun

We are looking for parties around Charleston,  SC. We`ve been to a LCD party, but it wasn`t our scene. We love going to Trapeze in ATL, it`s just so far away. Any suggestions for parties in or around Charleston? ... read more

Desperately seeking inspiration

We are veterans in this crazy life. We’re open. Attractive. Funny. Humble. But we have hit a slump and don’t know why. This last weekend, we attended our second hotel takeover. Our first didn’t go so well in that we didn’t seem to be able to break into the crowd. This time we were determine... read more

Why bother..

So here`s the question.Why is it that men post profiles as a couple and even send pics &nbspof &nbspa female &nbspor pics &nbspof them &nbspwith a female &nbspand there is no &nbspreal &nbspfemale half of a couple that is &nbspbeing portrayed. SO WHY BOTHER..... read more

Hospital and Party Week: 30/10 to 5/11/17

30/10 I must have been really tired as I didn’t wake till 9.30. Quietist work day with a trip to the gym at lunchtime. Watched TV with Rita early evening and then bed.31/10 Woke at 3.30am! Couldn’t get back to sleep and so read emails and some articles. Caught up and posted the blog. Worked thro... read more

Learning To Read

The other day we posted travel plans for the period around Thanksgiving.  Those plans stated couples only this trip.  So far we have received 57 messages, 48 from single males, and including the majority of the couples, none of them read our profile.  We are very age specific and profile photo sp... read more

RV Spots Available San Antonio, Tx

Hi there SDC friends. We have been swingers for many years. Just throwing this out to our SDC friends. If anyone is visiting San Antonio for the clubs and needs a place to stay with your RV we have room on our 10 acres in San Antonio. We also have a 40ft RV available for rent. Very private and quiet... read more

Celebrity Cruise Nov 25 2017?

Thank you for your response but I’d like to ask a few other questions: 1. On other regular cruises they have entertainment scheduled for the evening but we didn’t see anything scheduled except for the theme night party. Is that all there is in the way of entertainment?  Are there any other... read more

Celebrity Cruise Nov 25 2017?

Thank you for your response but I’d like to ask a few other questions: 1. On other regular cruises they have entertainment scheduled for the evening but we didn’t see anything scheduled except for the theme night party. Is that all there is in the way of entertainment?  Are there any other... read more

Celebrity Cruise Nov 25 2017

Version:1.0 StartHTML:0000000105 EndHTML:0000022262 StartFragment:0000021178 EndFragment:0000022222 My wife and I are going on the Celebrity Cruise on Nov 25. It’s the 7 night Bliss charter cruise on the Equinox that is billed as a clothing op... read more

Crazy Question

Is this site only for rich and movie-star beautiful?  I`ve seen nothing but beautiful, gorgeous, movie-star-like folks here...and hey, that`s not a bad thing...but we feel out of our league.  We are paid members...yes...but we also are hard-working, down-to earth, country folks that happen to enjo... read more


I have a cousin named Billy Joe, but we all call him BJ. He`s one of the pretty boys...long blond hair, awesome blue eyes, perfect, leathered Indian skin...and some awesome tattoos. He`s really muscular, really funny, outgoing, and an all-around great guy. ALL girls want to fuck him, so why would... read more

not working in internet explorer??

sdc isn`t loading in internet explorer. why?... read more

New Orleans Swinging Scene/Swingers

Hello,This is New Orleans’s locals and people who are familiar what it’s scene. What’s it like and what is the makeup of the participants? Example: Mostly black, white, even, etc.Is it seasonal? My lady and I will be there in January right after New Year’s for a weekend. I will make a speed ... read more