December 2010 Archives

Swingers Blog Archives from December 2010.

Newyear New question for the ladies

Actually a two part question... 1)Do massages turn you on or put you to sleep? 2)if you could build a massage fantasy? how would it go?... read more

New kid on the Block

A young man name Kyle just moved into the Westside apartments Friday night. The first Saturday morning in his new apartment Kyle goes outside to check his mailbox. On his way to the mailbox he spots an attractive older woman stepping outside her apartment in a white robe. Kyle smiles at the woma... read more

Sex & Religion

When the option of religion is given on a profile it seems that by and large we swingers are bunch of athiests, which more or less coincides with the original ethos of eighteen century libertines throughout Europe. It has made us wonder though ( having met and played with people of deeply ... read more

Is any body going to Caribe in Febuary?

It is official, We are going to the Caribe in Febuary for the Predisents weekend and to see Bobby Friss. It is going to be a great week. I am trying to get a group together and so far I have two couples confirms. I hope to see you there too. ... read more

What was your first swinging experience?

Hi everybody Our first swinging experience was with a couple in a swinging club, we would like to hear about your first swinging experience: Was it an orgy, MMF, MFF, other trios, or a 4some? kisses x S&G... read more

Why do people brag about their money?

As we read through profiles something we notice is all the "very successful" or "very upscale" descriptions people make about themselves. We have to ask, why do people think that because they have money that it makes them more attractive? We're not looking for your money, we're ... read more

how do you sleep?

  If your partner or you sleep like this then, WOW! How do you sleep? i picked this pics because I sleep like this, but it does not reflect the way that I really am.. But if it was that would be cool. ... read more

Respecting someones preferences

The lack of respect for someone's preferences seems to be a big issue here on SDC within the past few years. Maybe its because of the amount of new members who are new to the lifestyle and look at this as a way to find a fast fuck. People if we are on line or on the site, it does not mean that we wi... read more

Dance Clubs

Do any members here know of a good dancing club in Miami which caters to our life style. Broward County is too far to drive all the time. We are looking for some place where we can meet, greet and also dance and if things work out move to a local hotel or home to finish of the night. We li... read more

How do you make your woman squirt?

Read a previous blog on squirting.  All it talked about was could a woman squirt or not. No one ever explained to those who do not know, how do you make your woman squirt?  Any helpfull tips or suggestions?  Be as detailed as possible out so my girlfriend will understand that she can ... read more

Xmas Wishes

Wishing you all a fantastic Xmas, hope you get all that you ever wanted;-)xx  ... read more

Tenerife - January - Looking for hot fun

Hi, we are a hot couple from Germany going for vacation to Tenerife in January. We will stay in Playa de Las Americas from 8. January to 22. January. We are looking for hot couples (full swap) to have any fun wherever (Hotel or Swingerclub Mystique). XOXO Emotion... read more

How do you politely decline?

 Okay, not to sound arrogant, but we have received requests from couples that aren't exactly "our type".  Don't get us wrong, we LOVE making new friends and being able to hang out with fun and interesting couples, but it doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is going any furt... read more

The Merry Christmas Blog

Hi Everyone, Welcome to the Merry Christmas Blog! A blog where you can wish anyone and everyone a very merry festive greeting and share your happy thoughts with all the SDC bloggers! Maybe you can even give some-one the idea that you may like to meet up over the festive period and have some Ch... read more

Fun4Two - What are the comparable clubs

So we have been to Fun4two a number of times in the past - not nearly as often as we would like but not living in Holland makes it more of a special trip/long weekend.  But we have looked for other clubs around the world on our travels - Miami, London etc. but none seem to compare and we wanted... read more

Please go to our blog about the cruise

We created a blog just for the guests on this cruise, but we screwed up by not "categorizing" it. It is in the "uncategorized" section of blogs and it is called "Medeterranean Swingers Cruise in May 2011". We invite all guests on the cruise to comment on our blog. The p... read more

New Years Eve

Does any one know of a swingers new years eve party that will be at a hotel?!  There has to be more than just the clubs.  blt4evr... read more

happy

 Hello all, very happy to join that rare event. Nice blog! Thierry claudia, Paris... read more

uncomfortable conversations

I met a couple late last night, not off this site, and after a while i learnt all about how they had been seeing each other for 3 years, but he'd not commited to her and in fact she hadn't even met any of his friends, family or colleagues.  Not a lot one can really say to that and how to escape... read more

"Don't Ask Don't Tell" Has Been Repealed

 It's hard to imagine anyone on a swing site being against this being repealed. But I'm just curious. Do you agree or disagree with what Congress has done today? ... read more

Lifestyle

Hi there, we are a couple that has been in the Lifestyle for a little over a year, so our opinion may not count. We have found it very diffcult to find four people that are all on the same page. What I mean by that is that we have chatted with alot of "perfect couples" out there but n... read more

Mutual Attraction?

A little bit of help here please...what are you supposed to do when you (meaning us as a couple) meet up with another couple and we really like them socially, really like her physically, but I (meaning the female part of this couple) am not in the least attracted to him sexually.   Both of us f... read more

Annonymous sex?

I'm struggling with the outcomes between annonymous sex at parties and sex after having at least one conversation.  Undoubtedly pros and cons with each approach-- we just had back-to-back experiences with both this last week and it has left me puzzled (again).  With the anno... read more

The move from "lifestyle friendly" to being known as *the* place to C-U-M!

Input requested, please! We have been in a state of transition for 3 years now.  We are a south Texas nudist/ lifestyle friendly community that wants to complete our transformation into a destination for players. While we have some fun Saturday dances and warm weather events that&nbs... read more

Any New Year Eve Parties?????

Hi All Is there any New Years Eve parties going on, as we have been let down and got no where to go (sob sob) Hope to hear from you soon Randy Raz & Alan X... read more

Perfect Christmas Swingers Gift

Ok, the festive season is very nearly upon us! What I'm wondering is, what would be the perfect gift for a swinger, either couple or single? It can't be for your significant other, it has to be to another couple or single in the lifestyle! ... read more

Sex and Money

We were wondering? We all have an open attitude toward sex.  Most of us have had sex with someone we had just met.  If you would have sex with another person anyway would you consider having sex with that person for a price?  Husbands would you be turned on by your wife doing this? Wh... read more

Great time at temptations.

We went last  feb,, and it was fantastic. We think its what you make it.. Some of the out right swingers resorts are too full on,,, a little serious,,, you get the ' we are serious swingers  mob' At Temptations its so laid back, and the swingings there when you want it.  The main... read more

"Are you a friend of Ellis?"

In a previous blog, I wrote that there needs to be a "universal question" we can ask a couple or single to quickly determine if they are in The Lifestyle , without breaking confidentiality. We’ve all been in a restaurant, bar, event, etc., looked at a ... read more

temptation resort?

HI EVERY DAY  WE  SEE  MORE AND MORE COUPLES  IN THE LIFESTYLE BOOKING, TO TEMPTATION(CANCUN), WE HAVE NEVER BEEN THERE, COULD ANYBODY TELL US IF THIS RESORT , IS GETTING BETTER WERE  LIFESTYLE, NUDIST, SINGLES AND VANILLA PEOPLE CAN MEET WITH OUT SHOKING, AND... read more

Fever or Killing Kittens?

Hi sexies! We have been going to both Fever and Killing Kittens parties for some time now and know which one we like the best. We were wondering how others felt, So we are putting the question out there to you guys Fever or Killing Kittens which 1 do you prefer and why?... read more

Med Cruise

signed up today. Looking to meet all of our shipmates. Make lots  of new friends.... read more

Kids

As an expat couple, we don't have anyone nearby to whom we can entrust the kids when we'd like to go out, come back late and sleep in the next morning. How do others solve this problem? If we had a solution we'd certainly go out far more often. We are not looking just to dump the kids somewhere, we ... read more

Trapeze New year's

Hello everyone!!!  We were just wondering about what it is like at Trap on New Year's???  Anything special go on???????... read more

Sunday night

Play tonight lets be wild we want to meet new people... read more

The Gift Of Wisdom!

I wanted to do this Blog because as a single male and as one in the lifestyle I am always looking for ways to better myself as a person, as a single male, and as a playmate in the lifestyle. Please do not take this as another single male looking to try and score pity sex. I wanted to hear from 1st... read more

PARTIES ON THE RIVIERA

HI EVERYBODY. WE LIVE IN MONACO AND WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF YOU HEAR ABOUT OR ORGANISE ANY DECENT PRIVATE SEXY PARTY IN THIS REGION. DESPITE THE GLAMOUR RECALLING FROM ITS NAME MONACO IS QUITE A BORING PLACE AND THE CLUBS WE WENT TO IN NICE OR CANNES WERE FRANKLY QUITE BELOW THE EXPECT... read more

Why so many shy at parties?

Always find it funny people are so shy at parties or clubs. If more people were up front of why they are there,, after all it is a sex/swingers party.. there wouldnt be all the moans and gripes about the places being 'clicky'   Seen it so many times couples terrified to talk to people... read more

The REAL Football

Ok, we hear a lot on here about College "Football" and what my American cousins call "Football" but, I thought that I would start a blog on the REAL FOOTBALL, the fantastic game that is played all over the world by every nation and seems to be universally loved! (I believe that y... read more

photoshoot

 Hello, want to make a very nice photoshoot you can contact frank and visit his web site at  www.frankelposito.com Kiss... read more

good luck

Enrique Iglesias is to music as Barack is to change! Good Luck and enjoy!... read more

What can truck drivers do next?

I figure eventually we will get everything where it needs to be. Then what will we do for a living?... read more

Taking Pictures for the site

Ok we can all tell the pictures on the site that were taken by the professionals and they are great, but I would like to hear some recommendations from the non pros on how to get the best pictures for the site?... read more

"I wonder if....."

We’ve all been in a restaurant, bar, event, etc., looked at a couple and thought….. “I wonder if….?” Or “I bet they’re swingers.  They have……THAT LOOK!” Sometimes our thoughts take us to the next level.  We start betting ou... read more

Any one coming to India

We r loonk for couples for fun if any couples/girls coming to India do let us know we love to meet ... read more

Where to go for a sensual couples massage?

Ok so we're appealing to the community for some ideas. We're looking for a nice place that might provide a sensual couples massage. Any ideas or recommendations? Has anybody been to a place like this in the Miami area? Any input would be great, thanks!... read more

The Fair Tax

To anyone who has studied economics and the human motivation to earn will see the obvious brilliance of the Fair Tax. As the motivation starts to grow we could solve a lot of this county’s unemployment problems, as well as the social issues. This country spends billions each year preparing tax... read more

Dine and cum with me

Hi Guys Lola and I were wondering if there would be interest in having a swingers party with a bit of a twist. Anyone in Great Britain and Ireland will know the show on Channel 4 "Come Dine with me". So we were wondering if we could start a lifestyle version called "Dine and Cum Wi... read more

Recommened Swinger Clubs in Vegas

Hey, my husband and myself will be going to Vegas in a couple of months and we were wondering which swinger clubs are the best?... read more

LOOKING FOR A LS LOVER?????

Iam 34 YRS OLD BLK MALE SEEKING: NEW TOO SWINGER LIFESTYLE,IAM A SMART WITTY SEXY GUY WHO IS LOOKING FOR A SEZY WOMEN IN THE DALLAS, FORT WORTH, METRO PLEX,TOO SHARE SOME PARTIES AND GREAT TIMES WITH,INTERESTED,MUST BE HWP AND VERY SEXY AND FREAKY,SMART AND FUNNY. RACE NOT AN ISSUES.EXPED OR NO... read more

LOOKING FOR A LS LOVER?????

Iam 34 YRS OLD BLK MALE SEEKING: NEW TOO SWINGER LIFESTYLE,IAM A SMART WITTY SEXY GUY WHO IS LOOKING FOR A SEZY WOMEN IN THE DALLAS, FORT WORTH, METRO PLEX,TOO SHARE SOME PARTIES AND GREAT TIMES WITH,INTERESTED,MUST BE HWP AND VERY SEXY AND FREAKY,SMART AND FUNNY. RACE NOT AN ISSUES.EXPED OR NO... read more

The moderators of the CrossGender will be in Fla Dec26-Jan4th and wanna meet open bi couples/sgls

      Hi we ar... read more

What is Happaening with SDC?

What is happening with SDC? Everytime I step away for a few minutes or forget it's open, I get logged off or worse...it locks up my computer! Is this my bandwidth or is it something with the site?... read more

BLOGS

Has anyone actually got laid by posting a blog or by participating in someone elses blog? This definately doesn't seem to be working for me!... read more

Morning Wood

Hi all! I need a slogan for the Morning Wood Lumber Co shirt I'm making. So far I have : Straight as Pine Hard as Oak... read more

Toronto Swing Clubs

We will be visiting Toronto over the holidays and would like to know which clubs are good out there. We are a couple and prefer couple only nights.  We have been to Wicked twice and thought it was okay but would love to find somewhere with a bit more action/playing. If you are a real person ... read more

Toronto Swing Clubs

 We will be visiting Toronto over the holidays and would like to know which clubs are good out there. We are a couple and prefer couple only nights.  We have been to Wicked twice and thought it was okay but would love to find somewhere with a bit more action/playing. If you have visited... read more

Anyone been to The Suite in Windsor ?

 Looking to travel to that area the wife and I wondering if it's a good place or a waste of time.... read more

Anyone been to The Suite in Windsor ?

 Looking to travel to that area the wife and I wondering if it's a good place or a waste of time.... read more

What is the best game to start an evening?

The British are pretty shy when it comes to making the first move, particularly when it comes to 3-some or 4-somes.  The best way to break the ice is usually a game to get people to strip, touch, lick etc.  There are number of board games out there but most take too long and aren't naughty... read more