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We would love to join any private Facebook pages for swinger in the norh ga area does anyone know of any. And thinking about buying a laptop for caming is it worth it our iPhones are not comparable for it. Thanks ... read more

What motivates single guys to be in the LS?

This is a mystery to us. I just did a bit of math, and looked up our area, North Dallas. Tons of single guys.1) Out of 100 validations, 21 were received by single guys2) Out of 200 people online tonight, 50 were single guys. Same proportion as the validations.I know that if i was single, I`d be dati... read more

Seems like everybody is doing it

Everybody`s Doing It. If you’ve spent time looking at all the amateur couples on sdc and the rest of the web, you might start thinking that all married couples are either swinging, hotwifing, cuckolding or generally just having a better sex life than you. 😜It might remind you of that party you ... read more

2017 AVN Parties in LasVegas

Hi Everybody !HELP ! !We have always received good advice from our fellow SDCers and hope someone can help us concerning parties at the AVN Porn Convention (Adult Video News - `Porn Oscars`) January 18-22, 2017.Question: &nbspWe have attended the AVN`s in 2015 and went to all the AVN after parti... read more

Soft vs full swap advice...

Warning: some of this blog might appear negative to soft swap couples.  That is NOT what we intend.We get approached by folks of all stripes and we welcome all approaches even if it`s not our bag.  However, the most common is soft swap couples (or couples who say they are only soft swap).  Admitt... read more

Not a swinging topic but

If you have friends go on beta blockers watch out for behavioural changes. &nbspBecause they breach the blood brain barrier they (in rare instances) can have nasty side effects. &nbspNightmares depression irrational bursts of anger. &nbspGot weaned off them recently. &nbspFeel 1000 p... read more

The Real

Every once in a while, I question my lifestyle as a bull. I’m not looking for a change- I love what I do and have made friends with some amazing couples. That said, I still think a healthy reality check now and then makes sense given that there are certain risks that come with all the fun I’m ha... read more

Wral Thst was a Week That Was!!: 9/1 to 15/1

9/1 Woke up at 6.30 as I was asleep by 10pm last night. Checked transport and planned to catch the 8.10 bus to Bond Street and then walk to Harley St for the HIFU procedure. Let`s hope bus is not full as a result of tube strike! Left just before 8am and managed to get on a No7 with a seat upstairs. ... read more

Swinging Koln?

Going to Koln / Cologne for few days, any info on swingers clubs over ther?... read more

Travelling to Bracknell

HiThe make half of the cpl will be travelling to Bracknell and Dublin between 23 and 28 of Jan 2017. Would love to connect with genuine drama free people for threesomes and more.... read more

Make friends in the lifestyle in 2017

One of new year`s resolutions for 2017 is to be open to making new friends in the lifestyle this year.  We are planning on attending more `meet and greets` where playing isn`t necessarily the end result.  We are also planning to `date` more outside of clubs and to try very hard not to fuck on the ... read more

Any place in west Palm hosting a party?

Haven`t watch people play together in a while so wanna make sure it`s worth the time... read more

The Curious Couple Podcast #53 - NYE Pregnant Swinging

On our latest podcast, it`s New Year`s eve and we are driving home from a house party in Dallas. The Mrs is pregnant and our lifestyle experience has changed a bit. She talks about some of the unique challenges partying and playing while pregnant. We give an update on our Desire trip and there`s sti... read more

Where to go dance in Windsor?

  We are heading downtown Windsor this Saturday night. Where is a good dance floor? We aren`t looking to mingle with the kids. Where do people 40+ go to dance and mingle in Windsor?... read more

Jeweled Butt Plugs

I`m thinking of getting a female friend of mine a jeweled butt plug. She is small so I know a small one is what I would get her. Does anyone know what online store is the best place to get one and is there a brand and style thats better than the other.... read more

Deleted mail

We all delete mail. Got that.But when `sent mail` is deleted, was it read first or just deleted?xoxoA... read more


We use an iPad using the site. Messenger used to work. For months now we are not able to send messages. Any ideas how to get it working?we have upgraded browsers and tried different browsers (keyboard on iPad does not work), downloaded app (keyboard appears however the send button is disabled).we c... read more


Funny how you can tell the real validations from the fake ones.Here`s a few thoughts, you might agree or disagree:1. Everyone wants to validate a single girl. Any time a single girls goes to a party, 10 couples validate her. Maybe one couple played with her. But it`s like a badge of honor: you got t... read more

Beaches and Clubs in Playa de las Americas, Tenerife

Hello sexy couples and singles,Due to a romantic surprise for Christmas, partner and I are spending 7 days from tonight in Playa de las Americas, Tenerife. If anybody knows any nice and FRIENDLY swingers` clubs as well as nudist beaches where one might meet couples, could you please let me know? (id... read more

Hotwife connection with hubby approval

I have busy enjoying life and the holidays so it’s been quite a while since I’ve posted anything. Last night, while waiting to meet a new couple in a restaurant, my mind drifted to...dating vanilla ladies (non swingers)..what excite me about my blog is that I have the opportunity to lift the vei... read more