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Is it just a more LS attitude that we see in our lives with human contact or is it right to accuse some one 30 years later of Groping. Totally believe in saying something if you feel uncomfortable about contact or give them a punch in the gut. File a police report.....But 30 years later come on. ... read more

All sexy people in UK .... need your recommendation

calling all sexy people in UK , coming for the first time to this amazing city. would like to know the best swingers clubs in town will appreciate recommendations and tips )Kisses... read more

Hot wife cpl on a cruise in a few weeks, need advice

We`re somewhat new to hot wife LS, less than a year, but fantastic so far. We`re on a 7-day cruise in December and wondering about the best way for her to meet men on the ship.She has a hot wife t-shirt and ankle bracelet and is very smiley and friendly and such, so making eye contact, being invitin... read more

Activity is showing twice

All my activity shows twice, email, profile likes, etc. Is it being duplicated on the other end? How can I correct this?... read more


Got into a `discussion` on another blog with a couple where both the male and the female are bisexual. The blog was by a gentleman who has issues with the honesty of a potentially bisexual male during a play situation and surprises. A comment was made by a bi couple that bi sexual males are prevalen... read more

hot shopping

Hi there, Where do you buy hot lingerie or sex toys from? Which online shops do you prefer and why.what is your best advice on online sex toy shopping.... read more

Vegas tips - to play or not to play?

I (Christopher) will be in Las Vegas for a very dull conference the first week in December and am seeking advice as to play potential for straight single males out there.With my better half’s approval, I’m wondering what are the best options:1) Try and find a private party through a speed date2)... read more

Fun night with friends: 6/11 to 12/11/17

6/11 Monday and this is the day Rita’s youngest is now planning to move into his new flat. Sighs of relief all round. Spent the day working while Rita helped her son pack. Delivery guy turned up at 3pm and I left for the gym after a visit to the GP. Rita got home early evening and we thoroughly en... read more

Finding another woman to join us?

For my birthday my husband &nbspsurprised me with a three some with him another guy. I really enjoyed it and wanted to return the favor to him on his birthday. but unfortunately it’s been impossible to find a single women on here that would be interested in joining a. &nbspWhat’s the sec... read more

One or two photos

let`s see what I get here..lol as a single man obviously I look more for unicorns profiles to see if I find some kind of match but, I have noticed from most of them is that there are only 1 or 2 photos or some not even one....my question (s) &nbspis are they too shy? fake? or just being discrete... read more

After Thanksgiving party at Secrets

 We will be celebrating our 5th anniversary at Secrets (just south of Orlando) on Nov 24-25 :) cum and celebrate with us :)  we will have a meet n greet in our room (#157) on Saturday night at 6pm. My special Rum Runners, and finger foods will be furnished, just bring your willings bodies ... read more

Secrets after Thanksgiving

We will be celebrating our 5th anniversary on Nov 24-25 at Secrets, in Kissimmee (just south of Orlando) cum and celebrate with us--we`ll have a meet n greet at our room (#157) that Saturday night, at 6pm--my special blend of Rum Runners are furnished, along with some finger foods :)  all you need ... read more

Desire Cancun question

What is the difference between desire resort and desire Pearl resort ? Which one is more recommended ?We plan to be there at the end of Jan 2018… ... read more

luis birthday

we are accpect people unit 7pm so if any couple nd singles ladies wnt to join the party are welcome ... read more

Undisclosed Sexual Preferences

As a single male whose been privileged enough to travel and have fun with different types of people, one issue always seems to show it`s ugly head. Countless times I`ve come across a profile, read it in detail (to verify a possible connection), contacted the couple, exchanged pleasantries, met, and ... read more

I have a fantasy

I have a fantasy. I met a man online. He was experienced in things I wanted to try. He seemed confident but not cocky. He had that smoothie personality and you knew he was a leader type. He could navigate me through my fantasey. He was polite and knew his way around the life style crowd. He knew... read more

GroupSex at a Farm House

&nbspAs we had tasted the joy of swinging, we began to experiment more. We found an older couple in Pune, who loved hosting parties. They had a very palatial house with a pool. This is a story of one the first fun party we went to.&nbspWe arrived one afternoon and they were at least 20 peopl... read more

Shopping and swinging UK

We want to go to UK before xmas and want to shop gifts and also want to have fun in the evening, private meets or clubs. We been many times to London and love it but would love to try another city this time. Any advise?... read more

Male/Male interaction

In reading profiles we see `no&nbspbi play but not homophobic`   Can someone explain the difference?... read more

Lifestyle club in Dallas, Texas

We’re interested in traveling to Dallas, and wanted to attend a lifestyle club or nice lifestyle friendly club. Can anyone give us some suggestions about Dallas?... read more