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Updated - A bit fantasy

I am Salva, 25 years old, tall (193 cm) and 87 kg young guy.By nature, i always like mature and sexy women : )Therefore, i have an idea to share.I am super free this month so I can even travel to other countries.However, i am not into salt sex... I am into fantasies which will make her and me happy ... read more

Photoshop Help

I have Elements 9, use it for cropping and enhancing photos.  Sadly I have not taken the tutorials.So, can anyone tell me how you add the images that are used to cover faces on profile photos?  I also see little stars covering nipples and genitals.  Please?Thanks... read more

4/4 to 10/4: Son leaves for Uni - the party begins again!

4/4 Woke at 9 to find we had a problem with a client install that will now be done tomorrow. Worked through till lunch. Rita left to go to Westfield and I went to gym. After I showered and then ordered some wine and drinks to be delivered. Started to watch a Danish series - Follow the Money. Early e... read more


&nbspI understand the need for discretion. But if you don`t show who you are hiding face/body, how do we ladies know if we want to meet you/your man? If we already ask in our headline, in our essay, why do we have to ask again in an email?If you don`t show your face/body in the email when you w... read more

An early experience

I step into the shower, looking forward to a long, hot shower after a very busy day   As the hot water ran down my back, I began to relax, I took a soapy sponge, begin to rub my neck, my arms, my shoulders, relaxing, the tension subsiding. I sponge my chest, my belly, oops, what is this! ... read more

Age Honesty

We`ve seen a lot of profiles lately where the ages are so obviously mis-stated that it is almost comical.  (And yes, the women seem more guilty of this.) &nbspThere are some that say 36, and when you look at the photos, the person is obviously on the plus side of 50. &nbspDo people really f... read more

ABC of Swingers

This is just a whimsical post, if one wanted to categorize the types of Swingers. And for the life of me, just couldn`t come up with one for X! Any ideas?A - Accidental SwingersB - Bubbly SwingersC - Chatty SwingersD - Daring SwingersE - Exquisite SwingersF - Fabulous SwingersG - Grumbling SwingersH... read more

exploring amsterdam

We will be in Amsterdam on 25/26th of april, 27/28th in Brussel 29th/30th &amp 1st may in Rotterdam &amp Amsterdam. Will appreciate if somebody tell us about some hot swinger clubs. Also looking for couples to play with. ... read more


So, you get a nudge, typically the note says this member likes your profile....what next?Obviously it`s flattering, but if they are across the globe, what do you do?Or, if a conversation starts, who would you expect to travel since they initiated? Or, as I often do, thank them for checking in and le... read more

New blog free form

Blogs aint what they used to be...have at it...good stuff...bad stuff...what say you???... read more

Miami Velvet

Have not been to Velvet for a while. the last time about 18 months ago it was nothing special. We have been there many times over the years. Wondering how it is today? ... read more

not in public

Me and my girl don`t understand for the life of us why a very high percentage of &nbspour Caucasian &nbspand Latin friends from this website will talk us to death through the inbox but totally ignore or act as if they don`t know us when we see them in public. I`m just wondering if anyone els... read more

Mingler’s Club Merritt Island, FL

Is Minglers club gone for good?... read more

Where My Sistas At?

I`m going to talk about something that has been on my mind for a while now. I`ve been thinking of the right way to word it as it has the potential to open up a can of worms but if you read my stuff then you know that`s what I do, so here we go.I notice that there are very few Black women in the life... read more

Fun with Old Friends: 28/3 to 3/4/16

28/3 Well - Bank Holiday Monday - a long lie in and then we ordered a Thai meal. During the afternoon I watched Bridge of Spies and Black Sabbath. Early evening we munched, watched some TV and then early bed and watched Netflix before we dropped asleep. 29/3 Woke at 8.30 and got stuck into work and ... read more

HEDO II Jamaica

I will be in at Hedo II from April 9-17. Please contact me if you will be there or in Negril and would like to meet. If anyone has any good dance clubs or other things to do in Negril of the resort torecommend other than the usual tourist spots please do. ... read more

san suci Jamaica

We are planning to go there, anyone been there, or planning to go there /... read more

North Cyprus

Anyone able to tell us where we can meet couples or men in north Cyprus. So far we have found men up for what we want on the beaches but it might be fun to do something in a hotel room or a club. &nbspIs there such a &nbspscene in TRNC?... read more

Little or Nothing??

So, for those that enjoy lingerie...both the guy buying or the woman wearing...Years ago, my wife thought it was a negative that I enjoyed her wearing outfits, bikinis, lingerie etc...but has realized it`s just my `fetish`, and now enjoys them. Other couples, do you appreciate little or Nothing?... read more

Whiney DSM blog :)

OK I read all the time about guys with bad "hygiene" and guys that do not show up...who the fuck are you talking to???? I am a normal white single guy and not alone..guys  like us cannot even get a sniff...and there are plenty of guys that are validated and show up...what do I need to do to become ... read more