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       Posted by PARDOM Posted on February 28, 2009 View Comments 1      
Nos gustaria saber si en sao pablo brasil hay playa nudista y cuales son y cual lugar swinguer nos recomienda y si conoce alguna pareja socia para que nos la recomiende
       Posted by HUME65 Posted on February 22, 2009 View Comments 2      
how to understand if friends could be interested in lifestyle?

How is it possible to enquire about a potential attitude/interest of "normal friends" to join lifestyle without losing friendship in case they are not interested?

tks ciao



       Posted by 2TEXANS Posted on February 20, 2009 View Comments 0      
getting started
What is the protocal for verifying D&D free.  We give blood regularly, get annual physicals, have been in the medical field for 20+ years.  We want to be sure anyone we meet takes this a seriously as we do.  Suggestions?
       Posted by ARGA17 Posted on February 16, 2009 View Comments 0      

somos una pareja de new sersey y quisieramos saber done queda un sitio swinger serca ya que que nos gustaria pertenecer a esta ambiente .

muchas gracias

       Posted by ARGA17 Posted on February 16, 2009 View Comments 0      

somos una pareja de new sersey y quisieramos saber done queda un sitio swinger serca ya que que nos gustaria pertenecer a esta ambiente .

muchas gracias

       Posted by ARGA17 Posted on February 16, 2009 View Comments 0      
hola amigos

hola somos una pareja con muy poca experiencia en lo swinger, quisieramos saber por favor donde queda un club o sitio  swinger en new jersey. nuestro problema es que no hablamos bien el ingles.

gracias de antemano por curquier informacion. 

       Posted by BARALA Posted on February 12, 2009 View Comments 2      
Can't Get Started
I am a 46 year old man who has been married for 16 years. My wife and I have shared fantasies of swinging/swapping the whole time we have been together. The problem is after all this time, she is not willing to go the next step and make it a reality. We did visit an on-premise club a little over a year ago. We had sex next to another couple, with a little light petting between couples, and we both enjoyed it. But right after that night she stated that it would never happen again. She stills likes to fantasize, but it is driving me crazy. I love my wife, and have no intentions of leaving her. But I am also not getting any younger. I REALLY want to experience some swapping and group situations before it's too late. What's my next move? Is it okay to set up a meet and "spring" it on her in the hope that she will follow thru? Should I just try to do it on the sly(not really what I want but getting desperate)?
       Posted by ATLFUNGUY Posted on February 10, 2009 View Comments 1      
broken rules

Elvis, I have been reading many of the questions and comments on here and find many of them very intersting but not really helpful in my situation.  My husband and I  have been married 20+ years.  We started swinging about 3 1/2  years ago.  I really wasn't wanting to but decided to so as to please my husband.  About 7 months ago we both wanted to try out "hall passes" with the agreement that the other knew in advance and gave permission for the pass.  We wanted to try it to see if it was something for us.  There was to be NO MEETING OR PLAYING if the other did not know in advance.  I had my first experience a few months ago.  My husband helped set it up so they knew in advance and even spoke to the other person participating.  He was even on the phone for most of the nite while I was enjoying myself.  Everything was above board. 

I found out later that he had another account listed as single.  I also found out that he had used this to "MEET" others without my knowledge.  I also found out that he was listed on other sites as a single and had us as a couple without me knowing it.  He says nothing happened on the "meet" but how do I trust that.  OUR aggreement was we were to have full disclosure.  I have been very open and honest about all of my conversations.  I copy and paste most of my conversations and send them to him.  He does not reciprocate and that also is apart of our aggreement.  Those are the rules that he set forth.  I really could use some advice on this.  I am ready to leave the lifestyle and him.  Not looking for a marriage saver from anyone.  Just looking for some input.  I appreciate anything you can give me.  Thanks.

       Posted by MUCH63 Posted on February 9, 2009 View Comments 0      
Acapulco fun
Hello, we will visitng Acapulco on this weekend any idea of swinger clubs or nude beaches on Aca?
       Posted by PAREJA69VEN Posted on February 4, 2009 View Comments 3      
Visiting Orlando area - Visitando el area de Orlando

Hi , we are a Venezuelan couple and we will be visiting Florida (Orlando) in April , we do not have experience about swinging but we are very curious and are exploring the lifestyle , we want to go to a swinging club in this area , where we can enjoy the enviroment , see some people in action and maybe have some soft participation. Which club can you recomend us according to our situation and experience?


Luis & Amanda


Hola , somos una pareja venezolana , que visitara el area de Orlando en Abril , no tenemos experiencia swinger pero si estamos muy curiosos , y queremos explorar este estilo de vida, queremos ir a un club swinger , donde podamos disfrutar del ambiente , ver personas en accion y quizas tener particpacion pasiva. Cual club nos recomiendas en el area de acuerdo a nuestra experiencia que es muy baja?



Luis & Amanda