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Seek, Discover, and Connect at Welcome to SDC, the world’s largest erotic dating and lifestyle community for open-minded couples and singles, swingers, and kinksters.

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Contact our Helpdesk to get more information about becoming an SDC member, and to help you set up and troubleshoot your SDC member profile and account.

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For Helpdesk assistance and other inquiries:
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INT: 1-866-417-9956
USA: 1-919-600-7989

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