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Polyamory

Open relationships take many forms, and polyamory is one of them. Polyamorous relationships can be complex for all the partners and metamours involved. Get tips on managing poly relationships with multiple partners, how to handle jealousy, communication tips, and more.
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Dating as a Triad: How to Find the Right Third
Real-world triad dating in the swinging lifestyle, without the awkward missteps.

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Why a Great Swingers Dating Profile Matters & How to Create One
Explore the power of a well-made swingers dating profile and how it shapes attraction in swinging spaces.

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10 Myths About Consensual Non-Monogamy: Busted!
The assumptions shaping consensual non-monogamy and the realities behind them.


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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How to Start a Conversation with Other Swingers
What to say (and what to avoid saying) in the swinging lifestyle.

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Benefits for the Mono Partner in a Mono/ENM Relationship
When people imagine Ethical Non-Monogamy, they often assume it only benefits the partner who is “open.” But that’s a narrow and incomplete view.


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Your Words Are Arrows: How One Sentence Can Damage Trust
Your words are arrows. Once they leave your mouth, you don’t get to call them back.

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Premature Ejaculation in the Swinging Lifestyle
How to deal with pressure and timing in erotic play spaces.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.


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How to Make the First Move (Without Killing the Vibe)
In the swinging lifestyle, how do you know when to step forward or when to wait and be patient?

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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

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How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events
Are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?


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Sexual Trauma and the Swinger Lifestyle: What You Need to Know
How can sexual past sexual trauma impact your or your partners' lifestyle journey? In this very important episode, Cate talks to a counselor! A must-listen for all lifestylers.

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The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.

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How Can Single Men Meet Hotwifing Couples?
Advice to help single men attract the right hotwifing couples and thrive in the open, swinging, and hotwifing lifestyle.


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STI Testing for Swingers: Why “Safer Sex” Beats “Safe Sex”
Is oral sex “low risk”? How long should you wait to test after a hotel takeover or cruise? And what’s the real deal with HSV and HPV in the lifestyle? We brought receipts — and two experts.

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Swinging in Iceland: Where Desire Meets Northern Fire
An intimate exploration of Iceland’s understated swinging culture.

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Swinging in France: Desire, Discretion, and Libertine Freedom
Uncover the elegant pulse of France’s modern swinger lifestyle scene.


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Swinging in Cap d’Agde: Inside the Naturist Village
The French coast’s most liberated escape, revealed.

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Consent in the Swinging Lifestyle
The sexy key to safe exploration in the open lifestyle.

Aerial view of seaside Cap d'Agde Naturist Village resort in France
Cap d’Agde 101: Where Naturism and Swinging Meet
One of the sexiest destinations in Europe, Cap d’Agde lets you explore how naturism and the swinging lifestyle mix in this one-of-a-kind destination.


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Navigating Intimate Insecurities
Hosts Adam and Pris have an open, real conversation about insecurities, particularly in intimate relationships.

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Exploring Intimacy Beyond Monogamy: A Candid Discussion
Adam and Pris discuss anticipation versus experience, funny incidents at lifestyle events, heartfelt lessons on inclusivity, and more.

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Trust, Transparency, and Intimacy
Hosts Adam and Pris delve into the complex world of open relationships, discussing their personal experiences and boundaries within the swinging lifestyle.