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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
Photo of a person standing on a beach with two opposing arrows drawn in the sand
Photo of a person standing on a beach with two opposing arrows drawn in the sand
Desire RM Vs. Desire Pearl Resort: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 66
Bella and Jase give you an in-depth, honest comparison of Desire Rivera Maya (RM) Resort vs. Desire Pearl Resort in Cancun, Mexico.

An evening photo of a large reflective silver Chicago art installation called The Bean
An evening photo of a large reflective silver Chicago art installation called The Bean
A Windy City Foursome (MFFM): 4OURPLAY Podcast Episode 65
In Episode 65 of the 4OURPLAY Swinger Podcast, Bella and Jase tell a sexy MFFM story from their trip to Chicago.

Torso of a woman in red and black lingerie and black BDSM chest harness
Torso of a woman in red and black lingerie and black BDSM chest harness
Lifestyle Interview: Dirty Talking at Nashville's Red Room
In this swinger podcast episode, Dan and Lacy interview "Dirty," one of the owners of Red Room, a premier upscale Swingers Club located in Nashville, TN.


Concerned woman with her upcoming cycle schedule
Concerned woman with her upcoming cycle schedule
Lifestyle Education: Pregnancy Prevention & Delaying Your Period
In this swinger podcast episode, Dan and Lacy ask our favorite lifestyle doctor, Dr. Stoehr, about the best methods to prevent pregnancy while still fully enjoying the lifestyle.

Two catty swinger women gossiping at the club
Two catty swinger women gossiping at the club
Lifestyle Education: Is the Lifestyle Cliquey?
In this swinger podcast episode, Dan and Lacy talk about cliques in the lifestyle.

A pair of pineapples on a black and light purple background wearing headphones
A pair of pineapples on a black and light purple background wearing headphones
Real-Life Swinger Stories: The Swing Nation Story
In this swinger podcast episode, Dan and Lacy recap how The Swing Nation Podcast came to be.


Upside-down pineapple decorated with Christmas ornaments
Upside-down pineapple decorated with Christmas ornaments
Real-Life Swinger Stories: Lifestyle Connections Christmas
In this swinger podcast episode, Dan and Lacy spill all the spicy tea on exactly what happened at the Lifestyle Connections Christmas Party in Charlotte, NC.

Woman of color posing on the ground in spraying water to suggest squirting
Woman of color posing on the ground in spraying water to suggest squirting
Everything You Need to Know About Squirting
In this swinger podcast episode, Dan and Lacy ask your favorite lifestyle doctor, Dr Stoehr, all your juicy questions about the mysterious act of squirting.

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Spitroast at Es Trenc
This couple found a lucky bull for their first nudist beach vacation in Mallorca, Spain.


Hopeful smiling man with brown skin and a blue hoodie holding a smartphone over a pink background
Hopeful smiling man with brown skin and a blue hoodie holding a smartphone over a pink background
Lifestyle Education: Advice for the Single Male
In this swinger podcast episode, Dan and Lacy break down their advice for single males looking to be a part of the lifestyle.

Couple in bed holding a blue sex toy called Poco
3 Orgasmic Must-Have Sex Toys for Sizzling Sex
Supercharge your orgasms together with these bestselling toys.

white swinger couple looking adoringly at each other while holding a pineapple
white swinger couple looking adoringly at each other while holding a pineapple
Lifestyle Education: The Pineapples as a Swinger Symbol
Have you ever wondered why Swingers use the Pineapple as a secret symbol to show they are in the Lifestyle?


slender white swinger woman in a yellow pineapple swimsuit holding two lollipops
slender white swinger woman in a yellow pineapple swimsuit holding two lollipops
Swinger Stories: i.Candy's Moonshine Mountain Takeover
In this swingers podcast episode, Dan and Lacy spill all the spicy tea on exactly what happened at i.Candy's epic Moonshine Mountain Takeover in Pigeon Forge, Tennessee.

Brunette woman with white skin looking satisfied and wrapped in red satin bed sheets
Brunette woman with white skin looking satisfied and wrapped in red satin bed sheets
Real-Life Swinger Stories: Secret Swingers Getaway
In this swinger podcast episode, Dan and Lacy tell the story of how they snuck away to Trapeze Swingers Club in Atlanta to have a "normal" lifestyle night with friends.

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The Secret to Explosive Orgasms? This Vibe Will Blow Your Mind!
Get ready for liftoff and enjoy earth-shattering pleasure together.


Swinger woman grabbing hotel bedsheet during an orgy
Swinger woman grabbing hotel bedsheet during an orgy
Hotel Takeover Orgy: 4OURPLAY Podcast Episode 63
Bella and Jase tell a sexy storytime of another night full of sexy fun at a hotel takeover.

Swinger women in sexy halloween costumes
Swinger women in sexy halloween costumes
Real-Life Swinger Stories: Secret Sinsations Halloween Scream
In this swinger podcast episode, Dan and Lacy spill the tea about the naughty fun they had in Pittsburg, PA, at the Secret Sinsations Halloween Scream Hotel Takeover.

Cancun Mexico view from an airplane
Cancun Mexico view from an airplane
Temptation Resort vs Desire Resort: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 64
Bella and Jase give you an in-depth, honest comparison of Temptation Resort vs. Desire Resort in Cancun, Mexico.


Tropical beach view at Desire Pearl Resort in Cancun Mexico
Tropical beach view at Desire Pearl Resort in Cancun Mexico
Desire Pearl Resort Full Review: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 62
Bella and Jase give you an in-depth and honest review of Desire Pearl Resort in Cancun, Mexico.

STIs & Sexual Health with Guest Dr. Angela Stoehr
In this swinger podcast episode, Dan and Lacy take a deep dive into the unique healthcare concerns that lifestyle people face with gynecologist and medical expert Dr. Angela Stoehr.

Tenuto Mini couples vibrator by MysteryVibe
Put a Ring on It: The New Travel-Sized Wearable Vibrator You’ll Both Love
Pocket this pleasure enhancer and enjoy orgasms wherever you may roam.


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This Vibrator Will Rock Her World — And Yours, Too!
Next-level, longer-lasting pleasure and explosive shared orgasms await...

nervous swinger couple
nervous swinger couple
Swinger Fails and Flops: Malfunctions in the Lifestyle
Dan and Lacy go over some of the swinger fails they've had over their years in the lifestyle.

physically fit couple Naughty Gym swinger members
physically fit couple Naughty Gym swinger members
Meet the Fitness Experts Behind Naughty Gym
Dan and Lacy talk to April and Scott, the fitness experts and owners of the Naughty Gym, an online sex-positive community striving to be the healthiest they can be.