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Swinging 101: Welcome to the Swingers Lifestyle!

Whether you’re a newbie or an experienced swinger, we’ll guide your exciting journey into the open lifestyle. Get expert tips on how to talk to your partner about swinging, what you need to know before opening up your relationship, common swinger conflicts and how to resolve them, what to know before you go to a swingers club, how to meet other swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and much, much more!

Newbies in the Lifestyle

Starting your swinging journey can be exciting, but it can also be intimidating. We’ve been there! We’ll help introduce you to the lifestyle and the rules of swinging, swingers etiquette, what to know before you go from monogamy to a swinging relationship, how to navigate swingers clubs and parties, what to do if swinging goes wrong, and how to start exploring threesomes and group sex as a single swinger or as a couple.

Lexi was a guest on the Ladies, Let's Talk About Sex podcast, and she and host Felicia talk about what it's like to live an authentically ethically-non-monogamous lifestyle.

At parties, Meet & Greets, and events, it is not entirely uncommon to meet people with a different set of reasons for why they are there in the first place. While full-on swinger couples and singles are there to hook-up primarily for sex, it is not the goal for erotic daters. So, why are they there in the first place? Interesting question!

Just talking about having sex with other people fueled their fire. When they finally connected with another couple, they made fireworks!


Swingers Terms Glossary

Think you know everything about swinging? Guess again! Our glossary will go in-depth on terms you thought you knew and teach you words you’ve never heard before. Learn more about swinging, swapping, hotwifing, kink and the sexiest subjects in the lifestyle.


Take the LIC Quiz

How healthy is YOUR relationship? Take the Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up® (LIC), specially designed by Dr. Jay and Liseth for SDC.com.


Meet Swingers

SDC is the perfect place to meet swingers near you, whether you’re dating online, looking for swingers parties or seeking the hottest swingers clubs in your area.

Find Swingers Near Me

Local swingers are just one click away! Check out SDC members in your area with our innovative geo-targeting that helps connect you with the sexiest singles and couples all around the world.

Local swingers are just one click away! Check out SDC members in your area with our innovative geo-targeting that helps connect you with the sexiest singles and couples all around the world.


Swingers Parties

Looking for a sexy party near you? Find the hottest parties in your area to meet like-minded people and couples, from erotic theme parties to kinky fetish nights.

Looking for a sexy party near you? Find the hottest parties in your area to meet like-minded people and couples, from erotic theme parties to kinky fetish nights.


Swingers Clubs

Have a sexy date night out and meet other open-minded people at clubs created just for your pleasure. Check out our listings, ratings and details of swingers and sex clubs around the world.

Have a sexy date night out and meet other open-minded people at clubs created just for your pleasure. Check out our listings, ratings and details of swingers and sex clubs around the world.



Sexiest Cities

Where do swingers and open-minded people love to party and hook up? Check out the sexiest cities where swingers can run wild, from popular hotspots like Las Vegas, South Florida, Amsterdam and many more. We feature the hottest swingers and fetish clubs, erotic parties, sex shops, bars, restaurants, festivals and more! You’ll also find exclusive SDC member benefits at our partnering clubs and businesses. Find the perfect places to travel and explore all your deepest desires and fantasies.

Atlanta, Georgia

Find all of the swinging lifestyle information in the Atlanta area.
If rooftop bars, breweries, nightclubs, and speakeasies are your thing, Atlanta is a great choice destination for swingers! Georgia is the Peach State, which is a highly erotic fruit, and yes, there is lots to find to inspire you to get your sexy on! It helps that it’s easy to get to from literally anywhere in the world. The swingers' community and lifestyle scene in Atlanta is a happy one and very much alive. Atlanta is a great lifestyle destination, and you can plan to stop over to explore the area on your way to other destinations as well.

Find all of the swinging lifestyle information in the Atlanta area.If rooftop bars, breweries, nightclubs, and speakeasies are your thing, Atlanta is a great choice destination for swingers! Georgia is the Peach State, which is a highly erotic fruit, and yes, there is lots to find to inspire you to get your sexy on! It helps that it’s easy to get to from literally anywhere in the world. The swingers' community and lifestyle scene in Atlanta is a happy one and very much alive. Atlanta is a great lifestyle destination, and you can plan to stop over to explore the area on your way to other destinations as well.

Dallas, Texas

Find all of the swingers' lifestyle information in the Dallas area.

Lovingly called “Big D” by the locals in the Lone Star State, there is no exception to the general notion that “everything” is bigger in Texas. This charming area is indeed loaded with sexy entertainment venues, wonderful lounges, and a wide selection of other amore-rich locales, some headed by well-known celebrity chefs. Dallas is where you can find the best salsa Picante — and anything else hot in the lifestyle.

Find all of the swingers' lifestyle information in the Dallas area. Lovingly called “Big D” by the locals in the Lone Star State, there is no exception to the general notion that “everything” is bigger in Texas. This charming area is indeed loaded with sexy entertainment venues, wonderful lounges, and a wide selection of other amore-rich locales, some headed by well-known celebrity chefs. Dallas is where you can find the best salsa Picante — and anything else hot in the lifestyle.

Houston, Texas

Houston’s motto as “The City With No Limits” rings absolutely true when it comes to the swingers’ lifestyle as well. The more erotically inclined can find loads of like-minded couples and singles to play with at the many wonderfully naughty establishments. From dimly-lit, sexy wine bars to hot tango lessons together, this city is diverse and open-minded. Not surprisingly, it was also the largest U.S. city to elect an openly gay female mayor. SDC.com is 100% inclusive and, as such, supports and welcomes all lifestyles within its community! Houston, Texas is a great place to kick back, relax, and meet old or new lifestyle friends.

Houston’s motto as “The City With No Limits” rings absolutely true when it comes to the swingers’ lifestyle as well. The more erotically inclined can find loads of like-minded couples and singles to play with at the many wonderfully naughty establishments. From dimly-lit, sexy wine bars to hot tango lessons together, this city is diverse and open-minded. Not surprisingly, it was also the largest U.S. city to elect an openly gay female mayor. SDC.com is 100% inclusive and, as such, supports and welcomes all lifestyles within its community! Houston, Texas is a great place to kick back, relax, and meet old or new lifestyle friends.


Swingers

Explore the lifestyle with our swingers articles, podcasts and videos, created for your edu-tainment! Learn the hottest tips on how to swing from experienced swingers and leading relationship experts.

When polygyny masquerades as polyamory

As Ethical Non-Monogamy becomes a topic more frequently discussed within the Lifestyle and Polyamory communities, and there is more overlap of the two than some might have previously thought.

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Swingers Lifestyle Travel Event

Hook up and play with swingers from all over the world at our luxurious and naughty resort take-overs and cruises. SDC Travel invites you to join one of our upcoming swinger travel events, for a truly fulfilling 100% lifestyle experience, no matter how you choose to indulge! When you wish to take your swinger lifestyle experiences to the next level, our international swinger holidays are perfect for you!

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Swingers Lifestyle Travel Event

Hook up and play with swingers from all over the world at our luxurious and naughty resort take-overs and cruises. SDC Travel invites you to join one of our upcoming swinger travel events, for a truly fulfilling 100% lifestyle experience, no matter how you choose to indulge! When you wish to take your swinger lifestyle experiences to the next level, our international swinger holidays are perfect for you!


Let Us Guide You Through the Open Lifestyle!

SDC and our expert contributors and educators from all around the world are here to guide you in everything from how to talk to your partner about swinging and different kinds of open relationships, what you need to know before opening up your relationship, common swinger conflicts and how to resolve them, what to know before you go to a swingers club, how to meet other swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to be a hotwife, and much, much more!