Welcome to Swinging 101!
SDC is your premiere resource for everything about swinging and different types of open relationships! Whether you’re a newbie just getting started in the open lifestyle, or you’re already a veteran swinger, we’ve got you covered. Check out our media, resources, parties, clubs, travel events here below to help you along your journey in non-monogamy!
NEWBIES IN THE LIFESTYLE
Is There a Difference Between Erotic Daters & Swingers?
The world of non-monogamy is vast! Learn about these two popular terms here.
Are Swingers Oversexed?
This common myth gets debunked in this article by Dr. Jay & Liseth.
What to Do If a Couple Wants to Play But We're Not Interested?
Learn how to decline with tact in this video by Charlie & Arienne from SexBecause.
Swinging, Open Relationships, Kink, & Sex Terms
When you enter the lifestyle, there might be some terminology you’re unfamiliar with. This is a list of words and descriptions that you may encounter and are meant to help you navigate swinger relationships, open relationships, polyamory, other forms of consensually non-monogamous relationships, as well as BDSM, kink, and fetish scenes.
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Stimulation of the skin causing friction by rubbing, grinding, or using materials like leather, brushes, rough fabrics, etc.
A person who enjoys both same-sex and opposite-sex sexual activity; Bi, Bisexual, Versatile
Euphemism for 21+ (or 18+ where applicable) and used to indicate sexual or pornographic content
A term used in BDSM to describe the act of a Dominant bringing their submissive out of a scene in an emotionally and physically safe and comfortable way
Referring to roleplay that involves the nurturing aspects of a relationship with significant age difference
A GROUP SEX or GANGBANG activity wherein a person with a vagina is penetrated in their mouth, vagina, and anus
Person or couple up for all fetishes and sexual activities
Women under, Man on top: missionary
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