Welcome to Swinging 101!

SDC is your premiere resource for everything about swinging and different types of open relationships! Whether you’re a newbie just getting started in the open lifestyle, or you’re already a veteran swinger, we’ve got you covered. Check out our media, resources, parties, clubs, travel events here below to help you along your journey in non-monogamy!

Q&A

Is Consensual Non-Monogamy Right for Me?

If you're curious about opening your relationship, watch Kitty Chambliss's video.

Do You Need to be HOT and a WIFE to be a HOTWIFE?

See what real hotwifing couples have to say in this ASN Lifestyle Magazine article.

Swinging and Jealousy: Is it Always a Bad Thing??

Brenna from Front Porch Swingers talks about how she deals with jealousy.

Have a question? Ask an SDC Expert!

GLOSSARY

Swinging, Open Relationships, Kink, & Sex Terms

When you enter the lifestyle, there might be some terminology you’re unfamiliar with. This is a list of words and descriptions that you may encounter and are meant to help you navigate swinger relationships, open relationships, polyamory, other forms of consensually non-monogamous relationships, as well as BDSM, kink, and fetish scenes.

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ABRASION
Stimulation of the skin causing friction by rubbing, grinding, or using materials like leather, brushes, rough fabrics, etc.

AC/DC
A person who enjoys both same-sex and opposite-sex sexual activity; Bi, Bisexual, Versatile

ADULT
Euphemism for 21+ (or 18+ where applicable) and used to indicate sexual or pornographic content

AFTERCARE
A term used in BDSM to describe the act of a Dominant bringing their submissive out of a scene in an emotionally and physically safe and comfortable way

AGE PLAY
Referring to roleplay that involves the nurturing aspects of a relationship with significant age difference

AIRTIGHT
A GROUP SEX or GANGBANG activity wherein a person with a vagina is penetrated in their mouth, vagina, and anus

ALL
Person or couple up for all fetishes and sexual activities

AMERICAN
Women under, Man on top: missionary

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RESOURCES

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Check out our list of sexy cities for swingers and open-minded people right here! We showcase popular places like Las Vegas, South Florida, Amsterdam, and many more. We feature the hottest lifestyle clubs, erotic parties, sex shops, novelty stores, bars, restaurants, festivals, and more! You’ll also find exclusive SDC member benefits at our partnering clubs and businesses. Get deals and savings available to SDC members only! Find the perfect places to travel and explore your desires and fantasies.

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PARTIES

Looking for a sexy party near you? Find the hottest parties in your area to meet like-minded people and couples, from erotic theme parties to kinky fetish nights.

CLUBS

Have a sexy date night out and meet other open-minded people at clubs created just for your pleasure. Check out our listings, ratings and details of swingers and sex clubs around the world.

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Let us guide you through the open lifestyle!

SDC and our expert contributors and educators from all around the world are here to guide you in everything from how to talk to your partner about swinging and different kinds of open relationships, what you need to know before opening up your relationship, common swinger conflicts and how to resolve them, what to know before you go to a swingers club, how to meet other swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to be a hotwife, and much, much more!

 

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