California
The erotic pulse of the State of California is palpable. Los Angeles, San Francisco, and San Diego are most certainly sublime places for sexy players of the like-minded kind looking to unlock their fantasies. With a line-up of naughty soirees for the bi-curious, erotic daters, swingers, kinksters, dungeon seekers, and/or the otherwise hedonistically inclined, the many mansions, clubs, and parties all around the towns are an awesome way to test the waters and/or rock the boat for novices and well-versed players alike.
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Swingers Clubs
Insanely hot clubs with on-premises orgies — or more private play for those who wish — are no longer a big secret to those living their best salacious lives. Openness and sex-positivity are required when visiting these clubs, as are safety, respect, and adhering to conduct rules.
Many places in California require a membership, so it’s best to check things beforehand and make sure you are on that guest list!
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Swingers Parties
Sinful, swanky, and delicious — perhaps sometimes even a bit over-the-top parties — are all the rave in Sunny California. Sexually liberal couples and singles have many places to play when it comes to fetish parties, swinger events, and kinky gatherings. Those exploring the boundaries of their erotic relationships and beyond are well-served, indeed!
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Erotic Boutiques
Many sex toys and sultry outfits used to end up in the bottom of a drawer, as they were, after all, “the unmentionables.” Thankfully, even though they probably still end up in a drawer outside of prying eyes, things are evolving. When you visit a sexy boutique or kinky store as a single male, female, or as a couple, the initial awkwardness of buying sexy gadgets and outfits usually and quickly goes out the window. If it's still awkward for you, online shopping is always a fun option, too!
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BDSM / Fetish
Whether club, party, dungeon, or resort, California will lead you to the darker and more decadent places that you may search for. Kinksters and fetishists into roleplay and those who love a good spanking, fancy cuckolding, hotwifing, or when you entertain even more salacious urges, California is where you’ll find it.
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Lifestyle-Friendly BNBs
So many states, so many rules. This might explain why there are so few places to go in California when it comes to enjoying the clothing-optional life with like-minded others and/or the swinger’s lifestyle, unlike in Mexico or Cap d’Agde in France, for instance. However, the Californian B&Bs and dungeons are totally worth checking out for a more extended stay when you feel you need to explore yourself and others!
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Boudoir / Erotic Photography
Feel bootyful, beautiful, and empowered with an intimate photoshoot that captures you at your best angles. A boudoir session is a wonderful gift to yourself, your significant other, or, why not do a shoot together? Erotic photoshoots are awesome additions to your online profile with SDC.com. California has many studios and photographers to choose from.
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Saunas / Wet Clubs
Dance, mingle, and play the wet way! Hot water, waterfalls, and saunas have a way of creating the best ambiance for swingers. When it comes to such steamy indulgences, California has one of the most world-renowned spa resorts that caters to the lifestyle.
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Bars & Lounges
There are plenty of bars and lounges in Los Angeles, where even the décor functions as an aphrodisiac. The mix-&-mingle vibe varies from sexy, sultry, and glamorous to edgy. If you are in for some celebrity spotting, yes, there are those places, too!
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Nude Beaches
There are more than 30 nude beaches on the West Coast, and California has been, without a doubt, a clothing-optional mecca for decades. These secluded beaches are where bottomless sunbathing is an option if the mood strikes you. To name just a few:
Black’s Beach – La Jolla
Boneyard Beach – Encinitas
Pirate's Cove Beach – San Luis Obispo County
San Onofre – Gaviota State Park – Santa Barbara County
Vista Del Mar – Goleta – Santa Barbara County
Garrapata State Beach – Carmel
Carmel Meadows – Carmel River State Beach
Indian Head Beach - Monterey County
Laguna Creek – Davenport – Santa Cruz County
Bonny Doon State Beach – Santa Cruz County
Lands End – San Francisco
Trinidad – Humboldt County
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| NAME | CITY | TYPE |
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| Temecula | BNB | |
Allures |
Citrus Heights | Party |
Bocanegra Club |
Los Angeles | Party |
Bronze Party |
San Mateo | Party |
Club Dezire |
Los Angeles | Party |
Club Elation |
Temecula | Club |
Club Joi |
Beverly Hills | Party |
Club Safe Word |
San Diego | Club |
Dark Room Productions |
San Francisco | Photography |
Dr. Nancy Sutton Pierce |
Los Angeles | SDC Contributor |
Dungeon East |
Los Angeles | BNB |
Embrace Lifestyle Events |
Temecula | Party |
Erika Jordan |
Cerritos | SDC Contributor |
Freedom Acres /Club FA |
San Bernardino | Club |
Freedom Acres Resort |
San Bernardino | Club |
Friends Como Le Gusta |
San Francisco Bay Area | Party |
Gates of Hades |
Riverside | Club |
Gwen's List |
Beverly Hills | Party |
Hankie Pankie |
San Diego | SDC Contributor |
HiJinx |
Los Angeles | Party |
HOUSEOFBLACK |
San Diego | Club |
KlubThirty3 |
Los Angeles | Party |
KnowMyTruth (CandysAdventures) |
Pleasanton | Party |
LABYRINTH LA |
Los Angeles | Club |
Love Shack 818 |
Los Angeles | Party |
Malibu Strings |
Los Angeles | Shop |
Monterey Stay and Play |
Salinas | BNB |
Patricia Babin PhD, PharmD, MCLC |
San Jose | SDC Contributor |
Plush Parties |
Huntington Beach | Party |
Power Exchange |
San Francisco | Club |
Private Party |
Encinitas | Party |
San Diego Couples |
San Diego | Party |
Sea Mountain Lifestyles Nude Resort |
Palm Springs | Club |
Secret Springs Resort |
Desert Hot Springs | Club |
SoCal Lifestyler’s |
Lake Forest | Party |
Swinger University Podcast |
Sacramento | SDC Contributor |
Swingers Emporium |
Los Angeles | Shop |
Swingersinsations |
Victorville | Party |
Swinghearts |
Northridge | Party |
Tangerine's Dream |
Coarsegold | Party |
Test |
San Francisco | Convention |
The hideaway 559 |
Clovis | Party |
THE LS PLAYGROUND |
Temple City | Club |
The Steam Box |
El Cajon | SDC Contributor |
The Victorian Mansion |
Los Alamos | BNB |
Twist SF |
San Francisco | Club |
Vice Eventz |
Riverside | Party |
Vixen Club |
Los Angeles | Club |
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Amsterdam is the perfect city for a rendezvous with those lusty-eyed couples and singles in the swingers lifestyle.
It’s no surprise that this 24-hours-a-day capital with elaborate canals adorned by beautiful 17th-century façades is the epicenter of sexy with exciting choices on its erotic menu. Amsterdam is home to a seductive world waiting to be discovered by experienced swingers in the swinging lifestyle, as well as erotic daters and lifestyle newbies.
We’re not just talking about the sensual red glow at night of the windows in the renowned red-light district, which is by far one of the most infamous red-light districts in the world and the number one tourist spot for anyone who visits Amsterdam from abroad. Amsterdam also embraces the LGBTQ+ community and is the proud host of the most famous annual gay boating parade in the world.
Find all of the swinging lifestyle information in the Atlanta area.
If rooftop bars, breweries, nightclubs, and speakeasies are your thing, Atlanta is a great choice destination for swingers! Georgia is the Peach State, which is a highly erotic fruit, and yes, there is lots to find to inspire you to get your sexy on! It helps that it’s easy to get to from literally anywhere in the world. The swingers' community and lifestyle scene in Atlanta is a happy one and very much alive. Atlanta is a great lifestyle destination, and you can plan to stop over to explore the area on your way to other destinations as well.
Austria has been one of SDC’s favorite go-to countries for yearly ski events for many years in the past. With its glorious mountains, picturesque ski towns, and daily après-ski parties, Austria is pretty much the ultimate swingers winter vacation retreat. Even though the country has a somewhat reserved reputation, nothing is further from the truth! There is so much to discover together and with like-minded others that one visit will not be enough!
Belgium offers anything from beaches to hilltops in the Ardennes, making it ideal for outdoorsy people. Romantics at heart are well-served, as many cities are offering up a diverse palette of medieval architecture and ditto atmosphere. Belgium is also a very sexually-infused country with an abundance of swinger clubs and other sexy locales for the naughty at heart. So, swinger couples and sexy singles, erotic dates, and hotwives can enjoy the lifestyle to the fullest and find what they are looking for.
Canada is not only a spectacular place to visit — it’s also a diverse country that is wonderfully open-minded and embraces all alternative lifestyles, including swinging. Apart from a broad selection of clubs, parties, and events for swingers and erotic daters, the LGBTQIA+ community is graciously supported and embraced as well. Polyamory is on the rise in Canada, where November 23 has been dedicated as National Polyamory Day. Polyamory is the practice of having more than one intimate relationship with consent, which has been determined legal in Canada.
The Naturist Village in Cap d’Agde, located in the South of France, is a unique and liberating lifestyle experience. High levels of sensuality and arousing sexuality are palpable in the air. This is the only hedonistic paradise in the world where everything is done in the buff. This liberating, gated town with a certain back to the ‘70s vibe, offers an abundance of primal thrills for those in the swingers lifestyle, BDSM, fetish and LGBTQIA+ scene. From sexy shops, bars, and restaurants, to swingers clubs, saunas and tantra massages, this is an intoxicating place where the party is day and night, non-stop.
This resource page does not claim to be 100% complete or accurate and will be subject to change and/or updates without notice.