Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
SSX 2021 — Live Events are Back!
Sexperience 2021 had the sexiest crowd ever, ushering in the return of live and in-person swinging lifestyle events, parties, and more!
Ladies First! Checkmate Beverly Hills Coming Soon!
Lexi Sylver interviews Checkmate NYC swinger club owner Gianni for insider info on this swanky lifestyle destination and its expansion into LA.
Newbies Straight To Full Swap: 4OURPLAY Podcast Episode 1
In this episode, we talk about our Swinger Origin Story!
Interesting Morning Walk
What started as an innocent morning walk routine around the local park turned into a blow job, a drooling pussy, and plans for more.
Wet and Wild Vacation: Poolside Gangbang
She lets loose on vacation, and this poolside gangbang left her soaking wet — in more ways than one!
Wet, Hot Weekend: Wet & Wild Story WINNER!
This work-weary couple was determined to make the most of their weekend escape, and they fulfilled fantasies, found sweet release, and created delicious memories.
They washed away the stress as he gave her the deep, sensory release she so craved.
A Photoshoot to Never Forget
She retells their unforgettable 16th-anniversary boudoir shoot swinging experience to her husband in this fantasy come true.
Breast Massage at Orgasm
This couple was learning massage techniques to increase breast firmness and size, but they both became so aroused that the method became part of their sexual exploration!
Hannah sought more freeing sexual experiences and found them — and so much more — at a swingers club.
Not Exactly the "Vanilla" Couple We Thought!
What was supposed to be a vanilla evening of wine and dinner with friends turned into a salacious time in the pool.
Have you ever been curious about the spiritual side of BDSM and Tantra? Yes, there is a spiritual connection with both. We will be exploring them in Dark Tantra.
Swinging 101: Swingers Clubs & Parties Etiquette
Learn more about the season finale of Swinging 101 Season 1: Swingers Clubs and Parties Etiquette on May 15th, 2021 at 8pm ET.
Celebrating 1 Year of Mating Season: Join My Virtual Party!
Get Lexual with swinger and author Lexi Sylver to celebrate the first anniversary of her erotic book, Mating Season! Discover how you can join the Lexuality.
Threesome with DD & Busty: Valentine's Day Story WINNER!
The owner of an iconic local flower shop falls into a threesome with local podcasters DD and Busty on Valentine’s Day Eve.
Valentine’s Birthday Flight Mile High Club Initiation
What started as a sleepy red-eye flight ended with three loaded orgasms and a sheepishly satisfied pair of complete strangers.
She decided to switch careers and create her own maid service, and now she gets bi-weekly threesomes with one of her clients. Good luck finding that in the medical lab!
First Fetish Party at Wasteland
This newbie couple was ready to expand their sexual experiences and jumped at the chance to attend a fetish party — twice!
Inch by Inch
This pool party turned into so much more. These people did not come to swim...
An Introduction to Swinging at Secrets Hideaway
This newbie couple decided to catch a glimpse of the world of swinging at a swing club and “just watch.” Let’s just say they ended up burying more than secrets...
Our First Real Party
After dabbling in the club scene, this couple decided to give a group play party a try — with explosive results!
Valentine's Day Gangbang Gift
She wanted a bevvy of thick cocks for Valentine’s Day, and her husband went above and beyond to thoroughly fill her fantasy — and every hole.
Valentine's Weekend Swinger Strip Club & Hotel Takeover
This couple decided to go all out at a swingers lifestyle party at a gentlemen's club and hotel takeover on a Valentine's Day weekend, and they sure are glad they overcame their hesitation!
My Sexiest Hotwife Valentine’s Day
Her first time hotwifing happened on Valentine’s Day, making it an especially memorable holiday full of deliciously endowed pleasure.