Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
The Only Vibrator for Men Designed with Her in Mind
Discover the award-winning couples sex toy that’s wearable, adaptable, and powerfully pleasurable for him AND her!
SDC Swingers Vacation in Ibiza
Julieta dishes the sexy details of her luxurious swinger vacation at Ibiza's SDC Takeover.
Let's Get Naked
Aubrey Maverick shares her story and invites us to explore what it means to get naked for yourself and your deepest loves.
Hysteria: Ariel Andrews' Confessions of The Girl Next Door
Ariel Andrews talks about being "dickpressed" in this cheeky modern take on hysteria.
Hotwives' Club: Size Queens in the Hotwife Lifestyle
Brenna from Front Porch Swingers & Sex on Your Terms shares some insight on size queens within hotwifing communities.
Allen's Corner: Sexy Staycation with Mr & Mrs O
Allen tells the hot tale of he and Brandy's full swap hotel room staycation with Mr & Mrs O.
STDs & Swinging In Mainstream Media Q&A #4: 4OURPLAY Ep 24
Bella and Jase answer listener questions about STDs, swinging in the mainstream media, and more!
Bonus: My Non-Monogamy @ Naughty N'awlins
Who brought it up first, and what does yours look like?
How to Keep Role-Play Spicy — Even When It’s Virtual
Professional sex worker Alice Little shares her kinky tips for virtual role play.
Sexual Freedom is Intrinsically Linked to Social Justice
Sex educator Luna Matatas explains how sexual expression, access, and more are tied to privilege and other societal influences in this thought-provoking piece.
Eyes Wide Shut: Wife Swapping Story Winner
Fantasy becomes reality in this exclusive masquerade orgy that takes place in a European castle.
Blindfolded in a Swingers Club
From the moment they left the house, he blindfolded her. She had no idea what sensory indulgences lie ahead at the lifestyle club.
Couples’ Guide to Ultimate Anal & P-Spot Play with a Vibrator
Never tried anal play or want to take it to the next level? You need to try this super bendy finger-like vibrator!
Jeff Abraham: CEO of Promescent's Absorption Pharmaceuticals
I am so excited to share my latest podcast interview that I released recently with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals.
Swinging Safety & More Q&A #3: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 22
We answer listener questions about swinging safety, parties, and more!
2 Girls 1 Dildo: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 23
We discuss a one of our favorite stories and all its hot details!
From the Club to the Bedroom: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 21
We talk about a sexy foursome!
Our Naughty N’awlins 2021
Have you ever had someone let you know how you have positively influenced them, and it just melts your heart?
Sexual Trauma Can Hijack Your Enjoyment in The Lifestyle
Participating in The Lifestyle can be as easy and natural as any other hobby or past-time for most people. That said, there are many other wonderful people who get tripped up when they try to join in on all the fun. Why? Sexual Trauma!
Sandy Becomes a Hotwife
As Thomas grew older, he had to have help to satisfy his hotwife Sandy
Your Guide to Drama-Free Sex Parties & Events
Navigate sex parties and events so that you can have more fun and less drama!
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?
Binding Love in a Winding Rope
An excerpt from the book OPEN: Conversations for People Considering an Open Relationship. A story of public bondage and belonging.
Ibiza 2021: Sexy, Spectacular Luxury Awaits You!
Imagine escaping to a lifestyle paradise where you can relax, party, and play — all in one place.