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Bonus: My Non-Monogamy @ Naughty N'awlins
Who brought it up first, and what does yours look like?
Sexual Freedom is Intrinsically Linked to Social Justice
Sex educator Luna Matatas explains how sexual expression, access, and more are tied to privilege and other societal influences in this thought-provoking piece.
How to Keep Role-Play Spicy — Even When It’s Virtual
Professional sex worker Alice Little shares her kinky tips for virtual role play.
Couples’ Guide to Ultimate Anal & P-Spot Play with a Vibrator
Never tried anal play or want to take it to the next level? You need to try this super bendy finger-like vibrator!
Jeff Abraham: CEO of Promescent's Absorption Pharmaceuticals
I am so excited to share my latest podcast interview that I released recently with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals.
2 Girls 1 Dildo: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 23
We discuss a one of our favorite stories and all its hot details!
From the Club to the Bedroom: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 21
We talk about a sexy foursome!
Swinging Safety & More Q&A #3: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 22
We answer listener questions about swinging safety, parties, and more!
Our Naughty N’awlins 2021
Have you ever had someone let you know how you have positively influenced them, and it just melts your heart?
Sexual Trauma Can Hijack Your Enjoyment in The Lifestyle
Participating in The Lifestyle can be as easy and natural as any other hobby or past-time for most people. That said, there are many other wonderful people who get tripped up when they try to join in on all the fun. Why? Sexual Trauma!
Sandy Becomes a Hotwife
As Thomas grew older, he had to have help to satisfy his hotwife Sandy
How to Have More FUN and Less DRAMA at Lifestyle Events
How to Navigate Sex Parties & Events so that you can have More FUN and Less Drama.
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?
Binding Love in a Winding Rope
An excerpt from the book OPEN: Conversations for People Considering an Open Relationship. A story of public bondage and belonging.
Ibiza 2021: Sexy, Spectacular Luxury Awaits You!
Imagine escaping to a lifestyle paradise where you can relax, party, and play — all in one place.
Interview: Dillon Birdsall, Award-Winning Documentary Filmmaker
I am so excited to share my latest podcast interview that I released recently with Dillon Birdsall, an award-winning documentary filmmaker.
Peter Makes Tonya a Hotwife: Hotwife Stories Pt 3 of 3
Peter finally gets Tonya away from her husband for a weekend.
Squirting Orgasms: How-Tos, Myths, and Facts
Did you know that squirting orgasms are a sex skill that can be learned? Find out how you can learn how to have — and give — squirting orgasms!
How is EFT Used to Cultivate a Great Sex Life?
The Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is now being used to deliver stunning results in sex and relationships!
Why Ex-Mormons Seek Out Sex Coaching
Sex and Substance are the first things Ex-Mormons experiment with after leaving the Church — and they do so with existential panic and flare.
Variety in Sex Makes Hotwives Happy
Who wants more variety in the bedroom — the hotwife or her husband?
A Perfect Orgy: 4OURPLAY Podcast Episode 19
We talk about the story of a perfect orgy!
Surprising Sexual Discoveries & More Q&A #2: 4OURPLAY Ep 20
We answer listener questions about surprising sexual discoveries and swinger gift etiquette!
Adele Shares Wants to Be a Hotwife
Here’s another selected Hotwife sample from Book One of the four editions in the collector’s set of The Mask Series by Anne Sherril.