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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy”
You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy ” — You Need to Learn Yourself.
Privacy vs Secrecy in Ethical Non-Monogamy
In ethical non-monogamy, privacy honors boundaries — but secrecy destroys trust.
Lying vs Withholding in Ethical Non-Monogamy
Lying vs Withholding in ENM: Not lying isn’t the same as being fully honest.
Stop Trying Not to Want What You Want
Let’s talk about something that too many people navigating ethical non-monogamy (ENM) silently wrestle with: You’re trying not to want what you actually want.
SDC.com Partners with Bliss Cruise
SDC.com, the world’s largest international community for open-minded couples and singles, has just announced their partnership with Bliss Cruise, the premier leader in lifestyle cruising.
10 Signs Another Couple is Interested in Playing with You
From eye contact to subtle touches, these 10 signs will help you read the room and know when it’s time to take things to the next level.
Ethical Non-Monogamy vs. Consensual Non-Monogamy
If you've been exploring open relationships, polyamory, or alternative relationship structures, you've likely come across the terms Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM).
What Regular Therapists Don’t Get About Ethical Non-Monogamy
Many relationship therapists are trained in monogamy-based frameworks — which means when non-monogamous clients seek support, they often get advice that does more harm than good.
A Real Couple's First Time Swapping
Jason and Stephanie share their story of guiding a newbie couple through their first swinging experience.
Valentine’s Day Spotlight 2025
Make your Valentine’s Day red-hot with these sexy couples' gift ideas.
You Want to Go to a Swingers Resort
Stephanie and Jason discuss the thought process leading up to their first trip to Hedonism in Jamaica.
Your Coochie Hurts: Treating Chronic Sexual Pain in Women
In this episode, Jason and Stephanie Class interview Naomi Harris, a practitioner who works with women who have sexual pain and issues.
Dirty 30s Birthday Sex
Jason and Stephanie Class discuss their plans for Stephanie's Birthday... which is nothing.
From Vanilla to... Spicy?
Ever wondered how a shy, naïve, barely-ever-touched-a-vibrator girl transforms into a full-on, sex-positive content creator?
Interview with Hedo Joe
Joe Canino shares his experience and insights about Hedonism II in Jamaica, a popular vacation spot for those in the lifestyle.
Awkward Stories: 3 Real-Life Soft Swap Adventures
Jason and Stephanie open up about three of their most memorable — and hilariously awkward — soft swap experiences.
Talking to Your Partner About Trying Something New
Jason and Stephanie discuss their experiences and challenges in exploring new sexual experiences as a couple, from using sex toys to going to a swingers club.
You Want to Go to a Glory Hole!
Jason and Stephanie Class discuss their experiences with glory holes, including their visits to two different parties.
Embracing Your Sexuality While Everyone is Watching!
Hosts Jason and Stephanie Class introduce themselves, emphasizing the importance of embracing their awkwardness and being genuine in their content.
Help, Jason Keeps Growing! & How We Wrangle Unicorns
Jason and Stephanie talk about their experiences with unicorns, including how they engage safely with them in practice.
Avoiding Sticky Situations: Money Shots in Swinging
In the swinging lifestyle, clear communication is key, even about the ‘money shot.’ Don’t assume where to finish! This guide dives into boundaries, consent, and keeping the energy fun and respectful during play.
Is Swinging Right for You? 9 Questions to Ask Yourself
Curious about the swinging lifestyle? Explore nine essential questions to determine if swinging is the right path for you and your relationship.
Myth-Busting Squirting: The Science of Female Pleasure
Squirting is one of the most debated and misunderstood aspects of female pleasure. But here’s the truth: it’s real, it’s natural, and for many, it can be an incredibly satisfying experience.
Are We "Swingers" or are We in "The Lifestyle?"
These terms are often used interchangeably. Do they mean the same thing? Is one better than the other?