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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
SDC Dragonfly Pure Orgasmic Love Non Monogamy Naughty Nawlins
SDC Dragonfly Pure Orgasmic Love Non Monogamy Naughty Nawlins
Bonus: My Non-Monogamy @ Naughty N'awlins
Who brought it up first, and what does yours look like?

SDC ASN Luna Matatas BDSM Sex Educator Sexuality Social Justice
Sexual Freedom is Intrinsically Linked to Social Justice
Sex educator Luna Matatas explains how sexual expression, access, and more are tied to privilege and other societal influences in this thought-provoking piece.

SDC ASN Alice Little Sex Worker Virtual Role Play Pandemic Sexual Wellness
How to Keep Role-Play Spicy — Even When It’s Virtual
Professional sex worker Alice Little shares her kinky tips for virtual role play.


MysteryVibe Crescendo Anal Vibrator Adult Sex Toy
Couples’ Guide to Ultimate Anal & P-Spot Play with a Vibrator
Never tried anal play or want to take it to the next level? You need to try this super bendy finger-like vibrator!

SDC Kitty Chambliss Loving Without Boundaries Podcast Jeff Abraham Promescent
SDC Kitty Chambliss Loving Without Boundaries Podcast Jeff Abraham Promescent
Jeff Abraham: CEO of Promescent's Absorption Pharmaceuticals
I am so excited to share my latest podcast interview that I released recently with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals.

SDC Bella Jase 4OURPLAY Podcast Swingers Lifestyle Stories Bisexual Women Dildo
SDC Bella Jase 4OURPLAY Podcast Swingers Lifestyle Stories Bisexual Women Dildo
2 Girls 1 Dildo: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 23
We discuss a one of our favorite stories and all its hot details!


SDC Bella Jase 4OURPLAY Podcast Swingers Lifestyle Safety Parties Advice
SDC Bella Jase 4OURPLAY Podcast Swingers Lifestyle Safety Parties Advice
Swinging Safety & More Q&A #3: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 22
We answer listener questions about swinging safety, parties, and more!

SDC Dragonfly Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast
SDC Dragonfly Pure Orgasmic Love Podcast
Our Naughty N’awlins 2021
Have you ever had someone let you know how you have positively influenced them, and it just melts your heart?


SDC Dr Cari Oneal Sexologist Lifestyle Sexual Trauma Sex Coaching
Sexual Trauma Can Hijack Your Enjoyment in The Lifestyle
Participating in The Lifestyle can be as easy and natural as any other hobby or past-time for most people. That said, there are many other wonderful people who get tripped up when they try to join in on all the fun. Why? Sexual Trauma!

Sandy Becomes a Hotwife
As Thomas grew older, he had to have help to satisfy his hotwife Sandy

Lifestyle Party
How to Have More FUN and Less DRAMA at Lifestyle Events
How to Navigate Sex Parties & Events so that you can have More FUN and Less Drama.


SDC Secrets Hideaway Swingers Lifestyle Resort Club
Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

SDC James Whittard PhD Open Conversations Excerpt BDSM Bondage Rope Sex Party
Binding Love in a Winding Rope
An excerpt from the book OPEN: Conversations for People Considering an Open Relationship. A story of public bondage and belonging.

SDC Ibiza Spain Swingers Travel
SDC Ibiza Spain Swingers Travel
Ibiza 2021: Sexy, Spectacular Luxury Awaits You!
Imagine escaping to a lifestyle paradise where you can relax, party, and play — all in one place.


SDC Kitty Chambliss Loving Without Boundaries Podcast Dillon Birdsall More Than Monogamy Documentary
SDC Kitty Chambliss Loving Without Boundaries Podcast Dillon Birdsall More Than Monogamy Documentary
Interview: Dillon Birdsall, Award-Winning Documentary Filmmaker
I am so excited to share my latest podcast interview that I released recently with Dillon Birdsall, an award-winning documentary filmmaker.

SDC Hotwife Story Anne Sherril Tonya Peter Florida Fantasy
Peter Makes Tonya a Hotwife: Hotwife Stories Pt 3 of 3
Peter finally gets Tonya away from her husband for a weekend.

SDC Dr Cari Oneal Sexologist Squirting Orgasms
Squirting Orgasms: How-Tos, Myths, and Facts
Did you know that squirting orgasms are a sex skill that can be learned? Find out how you can learn how to have — and give — squirting orgasms!


Dr. Cari Oneal
How is EFT Used to Cultivate a Great Sex Life?
The Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is now being used to deliver stunning results in sex and relationships!

SDC Dr Cari Oneal Sexologist Sex Coaching Ex Mormons
SDC Dr Cari Oneal Sexologist Sex Coaching Ex Mormons
Why Ex-Mormons Seek Out Sex Coaching
Sex and Substance are the first things Ex-Mormons experiment with after leaving the Church — and they do so with existential panic and flare.

Hotwife with friends in bedroom
Variety in Sex Makes Hotwives Happy
Who wants more variety in the bedroom — the hotwife or her husband?


SDC Bella Jase 4OURPLAY Podcast Swingers Lifestyle Orgy
SDC Bella Jase 4OURPLAY Podcast Swingers Lifestyle Orgy
A Perfect Orgy: 4OURPLAY Podcast Episode 19
We talk about the story of a perfect orgy!

SDC Bella Jase 4OURPLAY Podcast Swingers Lifestyle Advice Tips Questions FAQs
SDC Bella Jase 4OURPLAY Podcast Swingers Lifestyle Advice Tips Questions FAQs
Surprising Sexual Discoveries & More Q&A #2: 4OURPLAY Ep 20
We answer listener questions about surprising sexual discoveries and swinger gift etiquette!

SDC Hotwife Story Anne Sherril The Mask Erotica Adele Walker
SDC Hotwife Story Anne Sherril The Mask Erotica Adele Walker
Adele Shares Wants to Be a Hotwife
Here’s another selected Hotwife sample from Book One of the four editions in the collector’s set of The Mask Series by Anne Sherril.