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Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Dealing with Judgment
It doesn't feel good to be on the receiving end of judgment, but it's a reality we all face. Here are some ways to manage it.

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Sexual Health is Not a Luxury
Here's why sexual health deserves to be treated with the same care as every other part of our bodies and minds


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Surviving a Breakup in the Lifestyle
Here are some tips to heal from a breakup for yourself and your partner.

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The Ideal Breast
You may be reading this article thinking that this will be all about men’s perception of an ideal breast. It’s not. Read on...

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The Dark Side of Ghosting in the Swinger Lifestyle
Can we all agree that ghosting sucks and is rude, but it is a part of life now? Learn how to deal with ghosting and its alternatives.


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R-E-S-P-E-C-T
Lauren explains why respect is one of her favorite aspects of the lifestyle.

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Be the Better Bull
The how, the what, and the who of recreational sex with a Hotwife

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Don't Fire the Secretary: Stress and Emotional Sovereignty
It is difficult to see our partners in emotional distress, especially if we feel our actions have caused or contributed to it. The knee-jerk reaction to fix the problem by removing the stressor is not necessarily always the healthiest answer. Surprising? Read on...


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SDC Launches New Commission-Free BNB Service
SDC.com, the world’s largest international dating website and app for open-minded couples and singles, has launched a new service for short-term rentals and travel accommodations: SDC BNB.

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The Perils of Personal Silicone Lubricant: Why Health Matters
In the realm of intimate products, silicone-based lubricants have gained popularity due to their smooth texture and long-lasting capabilities. However, beneath the allure of convenience lies a concerning truth: personal silicone lubricants may not be the healthiest option for intimate use.

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Embracing Ethical Non-Monogamy: The Power of Relationship Coaching
Learn how coaching can help individuals and couples embark on a journey of self-discovery, build stronger connections, and cultivate healthier ENM relationships.


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Relationship Enhancement with The Power of Shared Reading
Couples can strengthen their connection by reading together. Here's how and why it works.

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New Book! An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy
Renowned erotic educator Taylor K. Sparks releases new book that helps African-Americans understand alternative love styles

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Running Towards a Cliff
In Rio de Janeiro, she decided to go hang gliding. Running towards a cliff's edge proved difficult. There have been times in the lifestyle when she thinks the same dynamic is at play.