Swingers
Explore the swinging lifestyle with our tips and tricks for newbies and experienced swingers and swinger couples. Discover how to meet swingers near you, what to know before you go to a swingers club or party, the sexiest cities for swingers, how to find a unicorn, how to have a threesome, how to be a hotwife, and how to talk to your partner about swinging. Learn common swinging terms like "wife swapping" in our exclusive Swingers Glossary. Read real-life sexy swinger stories from our SDC members about everything from their first swinging experiences to their hottest hotwifing adventures.
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Talking to Your Partner Before Your First Event
The conversation that actually matters happens before you walk in the door, not during it.
Me Time You Time
Choosing Your First Lifestyle Destination
Not every destination that looks exciting online turns out to be the right place for your first trip. Here's how to actually pick one.
How to Vet a New Partner in ENM Before You're Emotionally In
New Relationship Energy quietly edits what you overlook. Ask the real questions early, while your head is clear enough for the answers to matter.
Is Swinging Exclusive to Couples?
If someone wants to be a swinger but isn't in a couple, can they still swing?
Boundaries vs. Borders: Why Most People Confuse the Two
Most of us set borders when we mean boundaries. Discover the simple shift that helps you feel safe without trying to control your partner.
Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes!
Adam and Pris of Beyond Monogamy share how they navigate group play, from MFM favorites to orgies where getting naked never means you owe anyone.
Awkward Moments and How We Survived Them
Carnelian and Saphyre of Frisky Neighbors share their funniest lifestyle mishaps, from missed afterparties to curious pets, and how laughter kept them going.
From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.
SDC: How to Find Friends & Connect
Just like with any social network or online community, it's exciting to have and make new friends on SDC.
The Intersection of Swinging & Polyamory
Adam & Pris of Beyond Monogamy open up about their journey from swinging to polyamory and why speaking up matters more than keeping the peace.
What We Didn’t Know About The Lifestyle
Frisky Neighbors Saphyre and Carnelian share the surprises of their early lifestyle days, from endless costume themes to learning swinging isn't polyamory.
The Intersection of Exhibitionism and Anxiety
Can a self-described anxious poodle thrive as a club exhibitionist? Adam and Pris reveal how anxiety and showing off can share the same stage.
The Checkmate Manhattan Experience: Beyond The Velvet Ropes
One lucky couple gives their firsthand account of a night at one of New York City’s most exclusive swingers’ clubs that was so amazing, they sought a repeat performance the following night.
Just Sex Talk EP 115 | Risque Lifestyle Parties
Heath and Renee from Risque Lifestyle Parties join the show and share their experiences in the lifestyle
The Sexual Longevity Protocol
Eve of PLEASEME explains why great sex for decades starts with healthy blood flow, and how simple daily habits can keep your desire and pleasure thriving.
Is Polyamory or Swinging Just Cheating With Extra Steps?
Cheating is defined by what's hidden; ENM by what's agreed. Here's why the difference isn't semantics, and how to answer the question with grace.
Polyamory vs. Open Relationship vs. Swinging
Non-monogamy terms get used interchangeably, but they're not. Here's how to tell them apart and pick the structure that fits you.
What Is DADT (Don't Ask, Don't Tell) in Non-Monogamy
DADT gets a bad rap. People hear "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" and assume secrecy, avoidance or a relationship built on not-knowing.
The Jealousy Reset Protocol
Jealousy isn't the problem. What you do in the sixty seconds after you feel it, that's the whole ballgame.
My Partner Wants to Open Our Relationship and I Don't
I'll lead with what's wrong with him, or with how a genuine desire and a genuine no can only end one way: slowly, in silence.
Is Non-Monogamy a Sign Something's Missing?
That second thought is the dominant cultural script, and it shows up almost everywhere people go looking for answers, including in AI relationship tools.
Swingers Cruises Dos and Don’ts: Your Guide to Smooth Sailing
How to flirt and pace yourself on a swingers cruise so your week at sea leaves you glowing.