Black Women, Sexual Freedom, and the Judgment We Carry
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Not during slavery.
Not during the sexual revolution.
Not even now.
We’ve carried the weight of stereotypes like: The Mammy: asexual and self-sacrificing; The Jezebel: hyper sexual and reckless; The Sapphire: angry, emasculating, and “too much; and now — the “angry Black woman” who’s too successful to be loved. We weren’t raised to explore desire — we were taught to survive it. So, when a Black woman dares to live out loud in ethical non-monogamy? To have multiple partners? To claim her pleasure, power, and emotional truth? She doesn’t just break the rules. She breaks generations of silence, shame, and suppression. But breaking free isn’t easy — especially when the judgment comes from your own community. Want support navigating it all? Book a free Clarity Call with me at OrganicLoven. Grab the workbook: An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy: The Workbook at OrganicLoven, because your love deserves clarity, not confusion. See the banner below for my website and links.










- Anonymous











