Q&A: What Types of Paddles Should I Get for My Partner?
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There are so many paddles out there! How do you choose?
The first step is to determine whether they like the sensation — and markings — of a thud or a sting. Material matters! Charlie and Arienne share their pointers on paddles in this Q&A edition of SexBecause.

How to Protect Your Identity in the BDSM Community
There’s almost no way to be 100% secure, but there are some steps you can take that will help to keep what you do behind closed doors from being exposed to the public.

Dominant Red Flag: Safeword Usage Ban or Limitation
If you’re researching potential dominant partners, there are some behaviors that could indicate an unsafe or undesirable dynamic for submissives. In this article, Kayteezee talks about safewords.


Creating BDSM Scenes Part 1: 6 Ways to Find Your Inspiration
If you're new to BDSM, Ms Morgan is here to give six ideas to inspire self-exploration and spark your imagination.


Q&A: I'm Nervous About Us Having Different Fantasies. Help?!
What should you do when one partner is naturally more adventurous about fulfilling the fantasies of the other?


Q&A: What Should We Know Before Our First BDSM Munch?
If you've never been to a munch, these tips will help ease your mind so that you can be more comfortable and have more fun. But leave the chaps at home!


Q&A: Is Touching Her Hair or Hand Consent Violation?
Flirtatious touching can seem tricky to navigate, but it's easy if you remember that consent matters in any physical situation.


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