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Improvements

  • Zoom in function is now available for profile photos.
  • You now have the ability to share profiles with your friends that you find interesting and think they would enjoy, too!
  • Members without profile photos will no longer be able to view other members' photos on SDC.
  • Coming soon…The ability to invite your friends to SDC with convenient links or a QR code to make life easier to connect them to SDC.

FAQ

Our FAQ page is designed not only to keep you informed of any updates we are doing; it will also help to answer questions you may have without the need to contact a staff member.

We are adding new information all the time, also there is an alert box at the top for very quick updates regarding immediate changes to the website.  So, if you have a question, take a quick look, as you may find the answer you are looking for.

Our FAQ page can be found under Settings in the Contact & Help section.

SDC Contests

Congratulations to SUEOV for winning the Heels & Thongs Photo Contest.

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, & René Moon.

Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:

New – My Bedtime Story – Photo Contest
Current – My First Lifestyle Club Experience – Writing Contest
Voting Underway – Ladies On Top – Video Contest

SDC Shop

Get your SDC Merch now!

The SDC Merchandise comes in handy on holiday, during a festival or sexy event.

Or simply purchase them as a must-have!

From fans to tops, sarong and even swimwear.

Curious? Click here!

An unforgettable event awaits: Greece 2025

From May 1 - 7, 2025 we will be descending down once again on the beautiful island of Crete, for an unforgettable event.

If you are looking for the perfect swingers escape, this is it! With an all-inclusive price you can just focus on enjoying yourselves with 350 like-minded others for 7 days, and 6 sultry nights! You can look forward to daily pool parties, PlayShops, International DJs, sexy entertainment and all the food and drink you could wish for!

Check the event here, then join us and book now!

Have you found your BNB yet?

We have had a very nice influx of new BNB hosts! If you are looking for a sexy weekend together, away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life, know that there are welcoming places and spaces where you can hang your hat for a little while. Why not enjoy the excitement of new cities, hookup with others for play while living like a local are the best memories to make.

To find the BNBs on the site, select Businesses on the side menu, then filter for BNB and then choose your favorite kind! From dungeons to romantic spots, it’s all there!

If you have a room or space to rent and would like to promote your BNB on SDC, sign up as a BNB host. There are no commissions, and registration is FREE!

It doesn’t get any better than that anywhere else!


PARTNER CONTENT

The Sexiest BNBs to Book Now!

Are you planning a sexy private getaway, a weekend tryst, or a spontaneous escape? These lifestyle-friendly accommodations promise to ignite passion and leave you and your partner(s) with unforgettable memories!

Whether you’re seeking a secluded retreat, a dungeon equipped to fulfill your kinks, or even to charter a catamaran, each short-term rental below caters to your whims and offers a unique blend of luxury, intimacy, eroticism, and breathtaking surroundings.

Indulge your senses and experience new pleasures at these sexy BNBs!

PARTNER CONTENT

Swing Like An A-Team

Join Lauren Hayes, The Swinging Coach, for an in-person workshop in downtown Salt Lake City: Swing Like An A-Team!

This May 11th, attend this 2-hour interactive workshop for couples only, where you will learn a scientifically proven relationship model that will allow you to build or bolster your relationship for best performance. $295 / couple, $50 off for SDC members.

Swinging can be a great way to add excitement and intimacy to your relationship and, as we all know, it does add complication. Keeping our relationships in tip-top condition is priority number one.

You will learn:

- The components of the Gottman® Sound Relationship House model that create the healthiest of relationships, non-monogamous or not! This is a scientifically sound approach to understanding and strengthening relationships.

- Healthy conflict management tools.

- Relationship dynamics that tend to surface within non-monogamous relationships.

- Something new about your partner.

Inquire today and take your relationship to the next level.

PARTNER CONTENT

FREE WEBINARS: Lexi Sylver’s Swinging 101 Series

Swinging 101 host Lexi Sylver is an accredited open lifestyle and relationship coach and educator, as well as the Media Director for SDC.com. She blends her knowledge about the open lifestyle with her own personal experiences to give you the advice and info you need for smooth, sexy swinging!

As an SDC member, you get FREE access to all of Lexi’s Swinging 101 events! 

Check out this lineup of juicy Swinging 101 webinars:

Swinger Relationship Dynamics
April 10 @ 8 PM EDT 

Secrets of Sexy Body Language
April 24 @ 8 PM EDT 

How to Deal with Jealousy
May 8 @ 8 PM EDT 

WTF to Do When Swinging Goes Wrong
May 22 @ 8 PM EDT 

Swinger Icebreakers
June 5 @ 8 PM EDT 

Newbies in the Open Lifestyle
June 26 @ 8 PM EDT

***Only those who register for their free tickets on Lexi’s site can access the live webinar with Q&A, and the video replay.***

Reserve your FREE tickets for any or all of Lexi’s events here!

FEATURED BUSINESS

The Group

The Group brings select professional, educated couples and singles in the lifestyle together for private dinners, weekend events, and international trysts where the locations, food, accommodations, entertainment, and company are nothing short of extraordinary. 

By invitation only, The Group appeals to those in the lifestyle who demand quality over quantity and are seeking something well-beyond traditional house parties and nightclubs. Group members experience truly one-of-a-kind events where they can satisfy their indulgences for great food, fine wines, world-class accommodations, and – of course – like-minded people. 

Entrée to The Group starts by attending a Just For Dinner event where The Group’s founders get an opportunity to meet you personally while you get to experience just a taste of what it’s like to be a member of The Group.

https://the-group.co/

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FEATURED EXPERT

Sex Positive Me: Meet The Lunas

Join Angelique and John Luna of “Sex Positive Me” as the dynamic duo explores all aspects of sex and relationships, ranging from fetishes and BDSM to ethical non-monogamy and LGBTQIA+ issues.

Sex Positive Me destigmatizes sexual practices and relationships while reconciling reality with myths & misconceptions.

Their goal is to educate, entertain and be advocates of sexual freedom. Their services include: podcasting, workshops, webinars, tantra, and sex & relationship coaching.

Learn more and check out Sex Positive Me’s podcasts and videos on SDC!