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SDC Update

Our profile page has recently received a makeover. Our updated, mobile-friendly look gives you the option to see a lot more information at a glance. You will notice that each icon around the profile photo is clearly labeled so you can understand exactly what each one represents.

We separated the Adult (XXX) photos from the G-rated photos to make it more clear what you will see if you are logged into our SDC App or if you are using the full browser version on your device. Our hope for the future is that all members will have both G-rated and Adult photos to give everyone the best user experience across all platforms.

Quick Tip

Did you know that a large number of SDC members only access our site using the SDC App? For your profile to be noticed within our App, it is important to upload some photos without nudity, even if you are not an App user.  

Profiles with photos have a much greater success rate on SDC! So don’t miss out on your chance to connect with even MORE members by uploading some G-rated photos. 

Upload your vanilla photos TODAY and increase your potential to hook up tonight!

SDC Book Club

Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books recommended by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members.

This month, we are announcing a sneak peek at The Gentleman’s Almanac by Peter Roy.

Exclusive to the members of SDC! This exciting new book, The Gentleman’s Almanac, is being launched on March 1st exclusively within the SDC worldwide community.

During his last 26 years of producing American national lifestyle events, author Peter Roy has deeply studied the exceptional men in the lifestyle who are extraordinarily successful in their partnerships with women. 

“Here is the truth: You don’t have to be in the lifestyle to be exceptional with women. But you do have to be exceptional in your relationships with women… to be successful in the lifestyle. The Gentleman’s Almanac invites you to open the door to potentially amazing relationships and sexual encounters whether you’re a single guy, new couple or married for many years.”

The Gentleman’s Almanac is designed to give good men the knowledge, awareness, and confidence to be at their best in virtually any situation with women.

The twenty-four chapters of The Gentleman's Almanac are based upon an integrated set of core concepts and skill-based practices. You will find blueprints extracted from real-life lessons learned from men who have both created and maintained extraordinarily successful relationships with their women. The hundreds of extraordinary men who contributed their examples of success to this book are, at their core — each and every one — True Gentlemen.

SDC is launching a new group called “Lifestyle Gentlemen,” inviting the best stories and advice from the vast league of extraordinary men in the lifestyle. Please join us on the adventure!


SDC Contests

Congratulations to TXFUNCPL817 for winning the Boobs & Baubles Photo Contest! 

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, & René Moon.

Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New – Heels and Thongs – Photo Contest
Voting Underway – Dogging in the Snow – Writing Contest
Voting Underway – Bend Over Baby – Video Contest

SDC Lifestyle Bracelet!

A beautiful black bracelet with a steel or black centerpiece that features the lifestyle symbol — perfect to combine with your classy, sexy, or fetish outfit! Our bracelet is unisex and adjustable for the perfect fit.

With this SDC accessory, you discreetly wear the lifestyle symbol, whether at a lifestyle event, swingers club, festival, or everyday life. It’s the new standard to show you’re a lifestyler.

Choice of five models — check them out now!

Elephant Prive Luxe Party Weekend

May 31 to June 2, 2024 Vera Playa Almeria, Spain More than 300 beautiful couples will meet in Vera Playa, arriving from the 5 Continents for Elephant Party Weekend!   From May 31 to June 2, 2024, enjoy warm temperatures and beautiful sunshine!

Spa Resorts 4* Verá Playa Swingers Naturists
Excellent and exclusive facilities, large garden areas, and several swimming pools right on the beach Vera Swinger Naturista, a lifestyle oasis with large restaurants with the capacity for 600 guests.

Nightclubs, a theater, a themed spa, and an exclusive Playroom area that is 500m2.

Excellent and spacious rooms: standard with sea views; suites with jacuzzi and private pool available.

Don't delay and book the experience of a lifetime of luxury, sex, and glamour with Swingerstours & SDC.

Information and reservations at info@swingerstours.com

www.swingerstours.com

Sexy Retreats Await You!

As the seasons change, so does the charm of many B&Bs, especially those that offer you the extras you are looking for! Our new BNB service is growing steadily, and hosts are eager to invite you to their sexy escapes. If you are looking to plan your getaways for this year, make sure to visit the BNB section under Businesses.

Calling all BNB hosts! Does showcasing your rental space to a global audience while setting your own rules and pricing sound good? SDC believes in empowering our BNB hosts! Sign up today and let your BNB shine! Write to SDCBNB inside the site or email bnb@sdcmedia.com for more information.

PARTNER CONTENT

VoyeurX: Where Fetish Meets Fashion

Who is the kinky mind behind the luxuriously refined VoyeurX brand and hand-crafted fashions?

Meet Melanie, the owner and designer of VoyeurX!

In this exclusive interview, our SDC Media Director Lexi Sylver uncovers the secrets behind the success of the renowned Dutch brand VoyeurX and the deeper meaning of their slogan, “the perfect mix between fetish and fashion.”

Melanie also reveals what makes her luxury leather lingerie and exclusive BDSM accessories so unique, shares some extra style tips on how and where to wear your VoyeurX designs, and more.

‌Read this exclusive interview with VoyeurX here on SDC.

PARTNER CONTENT

Conscious Couples Spring Mountain Retreat

APRIL 12–14, 2024 in Park City, Utah, USA


Imagine a weekend spent with your partner, surrounded by other couples who share your values and lifestyle. A weekend where you can explore your relationship in a safe and supportive environment and learn new tools for deepening your connection with each other.

 This Conscious Couples Retreat is the perfect place to do just that. 

This weekend getaway in the Park City area in Utah will include a variety of activities designed to help you and your partner connect on a deeper level, such as:

 - Couples workshops on topics such as communication, dream-building and the art of conflict management

- Journey-work to help you heal or have difficult conversations

- Play, dancing, hiking, breathwork, and more (activities are weather-dependent)

This retreat is limited to six couples (three spots left!), so you can be sure that you will receive personalized attention and support. We also require that all participants have experience in the lifestyle and complete an interview/application process. This ensures that the retreat is a safe and supportive space for all.

Pricing More information here.

Email to set up a call: info@swinginglifestylecoach.com. You can also use my scheduler and use the 20-minute consult button. After your interview / acceptance, payment will secure your spot.

FEATURED EXPERT

Throuple Talk Podcast

Meet Char, Josh, and Liv, a real-life throuple and a dynamite podcasting trio who are our newest SDC Media Contributors!

With Throuple Talk Podcast, their mission is to bring help, hope, and community to those seeking meaningful non-monogamous relationships by sharing the wisdom they've gathered as a result of their personal, real-world experience, as well as interviews with their guests.

Through open and honest conversations and sharing the story of their egalitarian plural marriage, they aim to change societal norms by proving that monogamy is not the only healthy relationship structure.

Whether you are already in a relationship that is open, polyamorous, or somewhere in between, or are still just dipping your toes in the water to see if non-monogamy is even right for you, their podcast is a go-to resource for you.

Listen to Throuple Talk Podcast’s episodes here on SDC!