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Happy New Year 2024!
SDC wishes you all a Happy & Healthy 2024! May your hottest dreams and desires come true this year!
Kinkmas Virtual Gift Basket Winner
Congratulations to our Kinkmas virtual gift basket winner, LYNNANDJAMES! They won some fabulous prizes, including:
SDC Lifetime Membership
$250 to spend in the SDC Shop
Full Access to Lexi Sylver's Explore Your Lexuality Group Coaching Program
Beginner’s Shibari Course with Sex & Kink Coach Julieta Chiara
Thank you to everyone who participated!
SDC Book Club
Welcome to the new SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books recommended by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members. This month, we present the following title from SDC Member JUSTXTRAFUN: MORE: Hotwives & Husbands The Adventure Begins by Jay & Bella Mojas – Purchase Here Book Overview: They are married, they love their husbands, they are having sex with other men, and their husbands love it! This is a story about regular married couples brave enough to ask the questions: Are sexual adventures really only a fantasy for couples that have been together for a long time? Can we have more? Can we want more? Can we be more? In the story, you follow the exciting and explicit transformation of several relationships in which the couples choose to make their own decisions about what is right for them and explore what they desire. Many of the details are pulled from the personal experiences of the authors, in an effort to make it relatable and authentic. The couples in this story are regular people in regular relationships. They are in love, and they are basically happy. However, they decide to challenge the notion that the hottest sexy adventures are only found in fantasies. They prove you don't have to be a millionaire, rockstar, vampire, or kidnapper to be kinky. As new hotwives and happy husbands, they wrestle with their doubts and questions together and then have steamy sex and slide more deeply in love with each other while doing it. While they are exploring, they give us all a reason to ask the question: Is it possible that the limits we have on our sexual lives are only there because we are just afraid to consider MORE?
SDC Contests
Congratulations to SEX4LOVER for winning the My Juiciest Orgasm Writing Contest! And to BOATLIFECPL22 for winning the Your Saucy Sex Tape Video Contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers’ Paradise & René Moon. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New – Dogging in the Snow – Writing Contest
Current – Bend Over Baby – Video Contest
Voting Underway – Boobs and Baubles – Photo Contest
Goodbye to Boring, Hello to Fun!
Our hosts aren’t just hosts; they don’t just offer a place to crash — they offer memories waiting to be discovered by your fantasies and desires.
We’ve already added a collection of sensual retreats that suit every taste and whim you can imagine.
So, pack your bags, leave your stress behind, and start planning your stay away from home!
Find all these hidden gems here and make it happen! Do you have a B&B or other erotic rental that you would like to promote? Write to SDCBNB inside the site or send an email to bnb@sdcmedia.com. The more, the merrier!
PARTNER CONTENT
Advanced Relationshipping: A New Year's Tune-Up for Your Relationship
Swinging can be a great way to add excitement and intimacy to your relationship and, as we all know, it does add complication. Keeping our relationships in tip-top condition is priority number one.
In this 2.5-hour interactive online Advanced Relationshipping workshop with The Swinging Coach Lauren Hayes, you will learn a scientifically proven relationship model that will allow you to build or bolster your relationship for the best performance. Be prepared for cameras-on interaction, workshopping with your partner, and note-taking.
The components of the Gottman® Sound Relationship House model create the healthiest of relationships, non-monogamous or not! This is a scientifically sound approach to understanding and strengthening relationships.
You will learn:
- Healthy conflict management tools.
- Relationship dynamics that tend to surface within non-monogamous relationships.
- Something new about your partner.
This workshop is limited to 5 couples. First come, first served.
Don’t miss out on this event — register now for Advanced Relationshipping and get $50 off (exclusively for SDC members).FEATURED EXPERT
Dr. Laurie Betito
We’re excited to welcome our newest SDC Media Contributor: Dr. Laurie Betito!
Dr. Laurie is a clinical psychologist specializing in sexual wellness and has been a practicing psychotherapist for over 35 years. For the last three decades, she has been doing radio and television, dispensing sex and relationship advice. She currently hosts a weekly podcast and regularly contributes to various magazines, newspapers, and television shows.
For 22 years, she was the host of the nightly Canadian syndicated show "Passion." Dr. Laurie has also done two TEDx talks on the subject of sexuality, and she has also published a book, The Sex Bible for People Over 50.
Dr. Laurie is the President of the non-profit organization, The Sexual Health Network of Quebec, and past President of the Canadian Sex Research Forum. She is also the Director of the Pornhub Sexual Wellness Center, an online sexual health information platform.
Tune in to her weekly "Passion with Dr. Laurie and Jon Pole" podcast, available on all streaming platforms, to learn more about sexuality and relationships.
Learn more about Dr. Laurie and listen to her podcasts on SDC.
POPULAR
Swinging and Jealousy: Is It Always a Bad Thing?
Brenna shares the details of her first feelings of jealousy during full swap play and how she worked through them.
We receive questions almost weekly from fellow swingers asking how to combat jealousy in their relationships. They’ll ask things like, “I’m worried about my partner seeing me with someone else because I don’t want him/her to get jealous.” Or even, “I became really jealous during this particular interaction, and I want to work through it so that I don’t feel it again.” We totally understand why people have a negative reaction to their partner’s or their own feelings of jealousy. It’s far from a pleasant emotion, and it can quickly spiral into feelings of self-consciousness, anger, or resentment. However, jealousy can also be a positive thing, a catalyst for increased sexual desire or intensity with your partner....READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
Fetish Factory Presents - CYBEROTICA FETISH PARTY
Pompano Beach, FL
Saturday, January 13, 2024 10pm - 3am WHERE:
Playmates Live
2301 NE 5th Ave, Pompano Beach, FL 33064 ENTERTAINERS
TBA / TBD
DJs:
Rayrex
IVNX TICKETS:
* $25 in-store: Visit our showroom in Oakland Park and pay CASH for your ticket. Stay and shop and get 10 off your entire purchase.
* $30 ONLINE : We sell tix online till 5pm before the event. All Tickets sold online are WILL CALL AT THE DOOR AND REQUIRES PHOTO ID TO BE REDEEMED AT THE DOOR. $2.5 Ticket Fee added in the total price of the ticket
WE DO NOT SHIP/MAIL TICKETS. ALL TICKETS ARE AVAILABLE ONLY AT WILL-CALL - ALL ONLINE TICKETS ARE SUBJECT TO A TICKET FEE
* $35 at the venue door DRESS CODE:
Fetish Factory prides itself at being one of the few promoters of Glam Style Fetish Parties where dress code is strictly enforced without exception. So many organizers will make a claim to a strict dress code, but never stick by it. We hope that you will respect our dress code and don’t let yourself down!
This event has a strict dress code — no exceptions.
Leashes/Collars - Rubber - Leather - Vinyl - Uniforms - Victorian - Kinky Drag - Fetish Glam - Steampunk - Goth - Nu Goth - Punk - CyberPunk - Fantasy - Cosmic Wear - Erotic Lingerie No outside photography is ever allowed, and we do NOT tolerate poor party conduct.
Our parties are completely pansexual with a wide demographic of attendees. We are also proud to host all our events in destination nightclubs off the beaten path to maintain the security and privacy of the attendees. Party with us to learn why since 1995, we are The Original Kink. JOIN US - TRANSFORM YOURSELF NO REFUNDS for any reason - ALL TICKET SALES ARE FINAL - RAIN OR SHINE
SDC Couples Weekend (Friday & Saturday)
London, UK
12th & 13th January, 2024 Every 2nd Friday and Saturday of the month is SDC Couples Weekend. A fun-filled Friday & Saturday, offering substantial Weekend Pass discounts. Both Friday and Saturday are for Couples & Single Ladies only no exceptions. We have 2 fantastic Gardens, 9 playrooms, 2 Dungeons, a dogging vehicle, a schoolhouse, Cinema (with a live feed from area 69), great music, friendly staff, and more.
9pm-1am Fri, and 9pm-2pm Sat.
Passion in Purple Party at Eyz Wide Shut Nightclub
Tampa, FL
Saturday, January 13, 2024 7pm-5am $3 Wells until 9pm
Nightclub - 7pm - 3am
Playrooms - 11pm - 5am Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists and lovers of RED HOT SEX! ~ Full Liquor Bar & Dance Floor~10
Sexy Theme Rooms
~2 Giant Group Playrooms/ Over 20,000 SF of “WILDNESS”
~1 Large Dungeon & 1 Small Dungeon Florida’s Largest Swingers Club,
Couples Playground, Fetish and Adult Amusement Park
21+ Only and Cash Bar Only
See website for dress code and pricing information
Krazy Winter Nights
Kearney, NE
Friday - Sunday, January 19 - 21, 2024 IT is time for the Nationally Recognized, National Award winning Krazy Winter Nights. What can you expect?
Vendor Fair
Meet and Greets
Friday Night Dance
Seminars from top professionals
POOL PARTY
Demonstrations
Industry sponsored events
Awards
Giveaways
and ...
BLACK TIE OPTIONAL FORMAL EVENT SATURDAY NIGHT
We have added more and NOT RAISED the price of tickets. Get your tickets at www.krazykasbh.com
**NO TICKETS WILL BE SOLD AT THE DOOR JAN 17TH IS THE LAST DAY TO GET TICKETS NO EXCEPTIONS WILL BE MADE
BKS Viking Night
Breaux Bridge, LA
Saturday, January 20, 2024 8pm BYOB, basic mixers provided. Cash only. 21+ only. ALL single males must be approved prior to attending. Door opens at 8 pm until 12:30 am. We ask that you arrive before 12:30 am. Visit www.bks20llp.com for more info. Theme dress is never required, come dressed to impress.
FlirtsLV Corset Party For Couples & Single Females
Las Vegas, NV
Saturday, January 20, 2024 10pm - 3am FlirtsLV brings Upscale Private Night Parties with Class & Sophistication. We encourage you to dress to impress and bring your upbeat attitude to mix, mingle and indulge with other like-minded individuals. Everyone MUST have a reservation to attend the Night Party. NO Walk-Ins will be allowed.
Please choose a parking option. NO On Street Parking Permitted. Doors open at 10pm, but you must arrive no later than midnight. NO EXCEPTIONS
Max Capacity for our party is 100 guests. We will sell out so please make your reservations in advance. We will stop reservations when the party guest list is full or at 9pm. NO Reservations AFTER 9pm. We will have Free Mixers for Your BYOB and Lockers. We have Night Party Flyers All Over So Don’t Worry If You See Limited Guests On The List Here. You Will Not Be The Only One There. http://flirtslv.com/events.php
KINK Fetish Party Live SHIBARI!
Marbella, Spain
SAT. 27 JAN!
COUPLES & LADIES ONLY!
Dress Code: Dress to the theme (optional) LEATHER, LACE, PVC or whatever your KINK is! or LESS to Impress, Provocative and/or elegant.
FEATURE SHIBARI SHOW BY SHIBARI STUDIO (LA CUEVA DEL GATO ROJO)
Sponsored by SDC
FIXED MENU DINNER AVAILABLE FROM 21:00
PLEASE WHATSAPP (0034) 697 935 224 TO RESERVE
Party from: 22:00
www.wickedclub.com