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SDC Book Club
Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books written by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members.
This month, we are introducing The Bull: Fulfilling Fantasies, written by B, a member of SDC.
When boundaries are broken, life begins…
Ever wondered what it’s like to step into a world where boundaries are redefined and fantasies come to life? The Bull is a captivating, firsthand account from B., a divorced man who found excitement, connection, and renewal within the swinger lifestyle. Join B. on his journey from a small southern town to a life of adventure, passion, and open-minded relationships. Discover a world that’s often misunderstood — one where honesty, trust, and communication form the bedrock of unforgettable experiences. Why read The Bull? Explore an Unexpected Lifestyle: Gain an insider’s perspective on swinging, a world where couples embrace new connections with honesty and openness. Real Stories, Real Encounters: B. shares thrilling, intimate encounters, complete with approved photos and authentic text exchanges. Learn About Communication and Trust: Discover the relationship insights B. gained from years of experience — principles that could benefit any relationship, even outside the lifestyle. Challenge Misconceptions: This book sheds new light on a lifestyle that challenges societal norms, revealing what it truly means to live and love openly.
For those intrigued by different lifestyles or looking to redefine connection and adventure, The Bull invites you to explore the unexpected. Dive into B.’s world, and perhaps, discover something new about yourself along the way. Get your copy today on Amazon.
Contests
Congratulations to NYCAMCPLE for winning the My Hotwife photo contest, ZIP2SWING for winning the Lights, Camera, Action video contest, and to BLOSSOMHOLE for winning the Dirty Poetry writing contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers Paradise, and STD Hero. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: Current – Foreplay Fantasies – Video Contest
New – The Hot Men of SDC – Photo Contest
New – My Hot Tub Adventures – Writing Contest
SDC Lifestyle Bracelet!
With this SDC bracelet, you wear the lifestyle symbol discreetly. At a lifestyle event, in the swingers club, at a festival, or just in everyday life. The new standard to show you’re a lifestyler. A beautiful black bracelet with a steel or black center piece that features the lifestyle symbol. Perfect to combine with your classy, sexy, or fetish outfit! For both women and men, it can be shortened to your liking.
Cruise News!
Ahoy, SDC Members! We are more than thrilled to offer the option to learn more about lifestyle cruising within our SDC community. SDC is fortunate to have Bliss Cruises onboard with us to offer you personalized service right here on our site. We also recommend you join the Bliss Cruise Group so you don’t miss out on important information, and it's a great way to connect with fellow cruisers before you go! Bliss Cruise: RCI Radiance of the Seas * February 23 – 27, 2026 Get ready to be part of our first-ever Sexy Sampler winter cruise and discover what the Bliss experience is all about on the Radiance of the Seas. Dazzling with the most glass of any Royal Caribbean® ship, Radiance of the Seas® is perfect for soaking up the sun in the tropics.
SDC on Crete: The Afterglow
Afternoons melted into sunbathing sessions by the pool, where swimsuits came off faster than the ice in our ouzo. Each evening brought something new and wicked. Each night was sultry with a wicked edge, and it was great to see so many had fun with the dress codes!
To everyone who came (and came again), we say thank you for making this event magical together. To those who dared, delighted, and devoured the moments in our Sexcape Room™ “The Swanky Swap,” we noticed you and enjoyed your mischievous laughter. And we can’t wait to do it again!
For those who missed it, don’t worry — our Cretan temptation will return. You’ll want to be there, and you won’t want to leave.
With heat, honey, and a wink…
Your SDC Team
Swingers Just Want to Have Fun!
Whether you like a city escape or a secluded space away from prying eyes, be sure to check out our BNB pages frequently! Get in touch with the host directly — no middleman needed!
Do you have a room or more on offer yourself? Make sure to request a Business profile, which, after being received and approved, gets you on the easy road to your very own unique listing!
FEATURED BUSINESS
Fetish Factory Store
FETISH FACTORY is an unstoppable force of freedom, acceptance, and sexual exploration not only for the BDSM community, but also glam fetish, swinger, straight, LGBTQ+, and all alt communities. We are a REAL BRICK & MORTAR SHOWROOM that is open 7 days a week and on display! EVERYTHING we have in-stock can also be found in our ONLINE store. Enter our world and TRANSFORM YOURSELF! FETISH FACTORY — THE ORIGINAL KINK SINCE 1995 Location: 855 E Oakland Park Blvd, Ft Lauderdale, FL 33334 Store Hours:
Monday – Thursday : 11AM – 7PM
Friday – Saturday: 11AM – 8PM
Sunday: 12PM – 6PM
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FEATURED EXPERT
Jayson Lee: That Other Lifestyle
Jayson Lee is the host and producer of the show That Other Lifestyle, a lifestyle coach, and the creator of virtual courses like The Men's Guide to Flirting in the Lifestyle and Single Men's Guide to the Lifestyle. Each episode of That Other Lifestyle podcast explores the good, the bad, and the weird aspects of the Lifestyle. He delves into the history, what, why, and how of swinging to help you in your journey, covering topics for the vanilla world, newbies, and all couples in the Lifestyle. Listen to Jayson’s That Other Lifestyle podcast here on SDC!
POPULAR
Three Tips to Start Your ENM Journey
Transitioning your marriage or monogamous relationship to a non-monogamous relationship is one big project, if you will. Here are a few steps to get you started!
They say, and I agree, that the start of any project is the hardest part. This is a question I get a lot, “We are both interested, but how do we start?” Transitioning your marriage or monogamous relationship to a non-monogamous relationship is one big project, if you will. It might be even harder to start this project than others because of the seemingly — and real — high emotional stakes. Starting a new diet or a new business seems easy in comparison!
You start non-monogamy the same way you start anything: you plan an action and execute it. You learn from it and then you plan the next action. A woman wrote recently and said they were having trouble starting, that they had been to a house party and were discussing some other parties, but they weren’t sure what they were doing. “You are already doing it,” I responded, “Having an experience, any experience, and then talking about it and planning your next — you’ve already started.” It got me thinking about how swinging can feel like you are on the outside and not really “doing it” until you are “doing it” with another couple. I would say that just talking about it to some degree has you already doing it. Having the difficult and awkward conversations can bring the same benefits that non-monogamy itself does — making you feel more vulnerable, feeling heard and seen, being accepted by your partner, and then feeling closer because of that. For those of you wanting more, here are my top three tips for getting out there and starting your non-monogamous adventures. ...READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
SDC Naughty School Girl Party
Miami, FL
Saturday, June 7th, 2025 Doors Open at 10:00pm Join SDC & Miami Velvet as we celebrate a night just for COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES! We are offering a FREE ONE DAY Membership for Couples On The SDC Guest List All Night Tonight SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $135 at the door! Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club
Single Gents Welcome Except Saturdays
SDC Mixer @ Eyz Wide Shut
Tampa, FL
Friday, June 13th, 2025 Nightclub - 7pm - 3amPlayrooms - 11pm - 5am *Last tickets to Playrooms sold at 2am* *Free Tour of Playrooms nightly at 9:30pm*
Full Access INCLUDES FREE USE OF 10 PRIVATE, 2 GROUP ROOM, 1 LARGE DUNGEON AND 1 SMALL DUNGEON. We welcome swingers, exhibitionists, voyeurs, fetishists!
~ Full Liquor Bar & Dance Floor
~10 Sexy Theme Rooms
~2 Giant Group Playrooms/ Over 20,000 SF of “WILDNESS”
~1 Large Dungeon & 1 Small Dungeon *Panties and underwear must be worn in the nightclub, NO NUDITY IN THE NIGHTCLUB. DRESS CODE ON FRIDAYS AND SATURDAYS: NO HATS, OR FLIP-FLOPS/SANDALS. 21+ Only and Cash Bar Only Eyz Wide Shut
8504 Adamo Dr. (Hwy 60, Near 301)
Tampa, FL 33619
Phone Number: (813) 620-1234
Leviathan Club Night
Exeter, UK
Saturday, 14th June, 2025 DJS - DANCERS - PLAY FURNITURE - BIG BED Club Night with Play Area! Featuring a huge bed in the social area, fire performers, dancers, cocktail mixologists, 5 + bedrooms, DJ & club plus dungeon. The exact location will be sent to all ticket buyers 48 hours before the event.
SDC StripTease Party
Euless, TX
Saturday, June 14th, 2025 9pm - 4am STRIP TEASE
For MEN or WOMEN! SHOW US WHAT YOU’RE WORKING WITH… SDC MEMBERS ON THE GUEST LIST RECEIVE $5 OFF THE DOOR COVER! ADMISSION:
VIP MEMBER COUPLES - $75
MEMBER COUPLES - $95
MEMBER FEMALES - $35
MEMBER MALES - $200 EdenClubs.com
11050 S Pipeline Road
Euless, TX. 76040
National Lifestyle Weekend - Las Vegas 2025
Las Vegas, NV
June 19th - June 21st, 2025 Three Luxury Hotels - Two Gorgeous Boutique Hotel Takeovers & One Stunning Mega Resort Hotel
Three Slamming DJ Party Pools
Three Epic Themed Party Nights Thursday Night! - Kandi Fashionista Ball - Cocktail Dresses to Flamboyant Fabulous! Friday Night!- Erotic Steampunk Fire - Corsets, Hats, Miniskirts, Bootie Shorts and of course Riding Crops! Saturday Night! - Mardi Gras Carnival Glow - EDM Glow Wear - With massive amounts of Mardi Gras Beads to get your Frisky on! Remember It’s Juneteenth Weekend 2025!
Travel & Arrival June 18th
Event Dates June 19th / June 20th / June 21st - 2025
http://www.nationallifestyleweekend.com
Splash Mocha - June 2025
Orlando, FL
Thursday - Sunday, June 19-22, 2025 Satisfy your appetite for Chocolate at Splash Mocha 2025!! Tickets on sale HERE The Lifestyles Ultimate Interracial and Hotwife Party is in Orlando, Florida for select single men and couples!! Indulge your fantasies in this gorgeous 4-star resort. Yes...this is a COMPLETE hotel takeover! Where the clothing optional pool is sure to be a hub of activity. A great place to get WETT! The classy bar is a great place to break the ice and meet some new friends. This 4-star resort has a superb restaurant onsite. Join us for our nightly meet and greets, followed by our famous nightly themed dances. Use your imagination to bring the themes to life. Thursday Night - Beach Party
Friday Night - Denim and Diamonds
Saturday Night - The Reverse Black & White Gala - Ladies in White, Men in Black. - Kings and Queens Dressing in theme is never mandatory, but encouraged. For those who are truly adventurous, we as always provide the best and most inventive playrooms the lifestyle has to offer! Here are a few to WETT your appetite: The Dungeon
Our Dungeon Master will help create a safe and adventurous place where you can explore your wilder side, your naughty side, your submissive side or your dominant side...anything is possible in Dreads Dungeon. The Glory Hole Room
This is the Erotic Playground featuring two Glory Hole Walls. For guests who enjoy the anonymity of a glory hole, we have one for men and one for women. The Wife Watching Room
The room where hubby can watch wife in a semi private space while others watch in a quiet sensual environment. We typically have 6-8 playrooms per event depending on the venue.
If our nighttime parties weren't enough, we have fun and free seminars during the day. You just may learn something new...here are a few to peak your interest: Dick Worship 101, Female Orgasm Control and Impact for Beginners to name just a few.
Poseidon's Playground Play Party
Colorado Springs, CO
Saturday, June 28th, 2025 8pm – 3am Poseidon's Playground No Lifeguard on Duty The tide is rising, and the gates to Poseidon’s Playground are opening for one night only. On June 28th, we invite you to explore what lies beneath the surface. A place where the water is warm, the air is thick with anticipation, and every touch leads you further out to sea. Find your way into the hidden coves or let the waves carry you into the open—no lifeguard on duty! Just the pull of desire—and the question:
How deep will you go? What awaits you:
Vetted Guest List
Open Play Spaces
Sensual Atmosphere
Sea-Themed Attire (Poseidon, Siren, Mermaid, etc.) The current is strong.
Let it take you. https://lsplayground.com/events/74925
Annual White Ball sponsored by SDC
Marbella, Spain
Saturday, 5 July, 2025 Exciting Annual White Ball at Wicked Club Marbella! sponsored by SDC Wicked Club Marbella Anniversary Party! Exclusively for Couples and single ladies! Dress Code: WHITE! Exciting Theme Party at Wicked Club Marbella, Exclusively for Couples and single ladies! Looking for an unforgettable night of fun, connection, and adventure? Join us at Wicked Club for our exclusive themed party, where open-minded people come together for an evening of thrilling experiences in a safe, judgment-free environment. Whether you’re looking to explore your fantasies, meet new people, or simply enjoy a night out with like-minded individuals, our swingers club offers the perfect setting. This event is open to all, from first-timers to seasoned lifestyle enthusiasts, with exciting themes to spark conversation and create an atmosphere of playful seduction. Enjoy the sexy, vibrant atmosphere with themed décor, live DJ sets, dance floors, private lounges, and sensual play spaces designed to help you relax and indulge. Event Highlights:
Exclusive Theme: Dress to the theme or dress provocative, sexy and elegant!
Open to Couples & Ladies only: Whether you’re flying solo or coming with a partner, there’s something for everyone. Luxury Play Spaces: Experience our private, upscale play areas designed for comfort and intimacy.
Dress Code Encouraged: Dress to impress and fit the theme, or come as you are and enjoy the party atmosphere. www.wickedclub.com