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SDC Book Club
Welcome to the SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books written by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members.
This month, we are introducing: fourplay written by Morgan Reynolds – KDAZ4FUN: The Mostly True Story of a Lusty Librarian's Swinging Sexcapades.
BASED ON A TRUE STORY!
Book 1 of a three-part series.
Here’s the book that the world is panting over. fourplay: The Mostly True Story of a Lusty Librarian's Swinging Sexcapades, is an erotic romantic comedy and a sensual thriller sizzling through stories of wild sexcapades.
Sexually naïve, thirty-eight-year-old university librarian, Morgan Reynolds, meets successful, handsome Dominick Chandler. His response to her question, "What's the craziest thing you've ever done?" sends her running around her bedroom in a flushed panic. Swingers’ parties, private clubs, and sex with people watching? Nick wants her — but on his terms. Fingers shaking, Morgan texts back, "I'm in. For what, I'm not sure."
Hot, Sexy Guy? Yes!
Kissing a Girl? Umm…
A Threesome? What?
Pushing my Boundaries? WHY NOT!
fourplay is ranked in the top 1% books for: Romcom, Romantic Suspense, Adult, Humor, Steamy, Sex Scenes, and Transformation.
Fall in lust with Morgan, Nick, and fourplay. Here’s the link to get it in English on Amazon Books
eBook free with Kindle Unlimited for a limited time, or $7.99 (US) for the eBook, $14.99 for the paperback
Follow Morgan on Instagram at @morganreynoldsbooks to keep abreast of her adventures.
SDC Contests
Congratulations to LADYLOVERS for winning the Seductress Stare photo contest and to CUTIENABEAST4PLAY for winning the Couples Chemistry video contest. Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by:
Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers Paradise, Morgan Reynolds, and STD Hero. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New – Fantasy Roleplay Scene – Video Contest
New – Reflections of Desire – Photo Contest
Voting Underway – After the Party – Writing Contest
SDC Shop
Are you attending an SDC event or another open-minded party soon? Then we have something for you! From now on, you can shop the best SDC items that are guaranteed to make you stand out. In our shop, you'll find a fantastic collection of t-shirts, swimwear, towels, caps, and even bathrobes. All featuring the stylish and recognizable SDC logo. Perfect for completing your look and showing your true colors. Ideal for the party, by the pool, or just relaxing at home! For anyone planning their own party or simply wanting to be well-prepared, we also offer a variety of hand extras, including lubricants, boat flags, beach flags, parasols, and other fun items.
Tasty Treats for Spicier Sheets
Apart from some fun additions to your decor, you can add a bowl of candy corn, a carved pumpkin or two, and some seasonal wicked sips and chocolate pairings for a sweet bite, and you’ve got yourself an indulgent Halloween spread!
Sweet & Spooky Pairings
Dark chocolate & bold red wine or port with the right shade of vampire chic
Milk chocolate truffles & pumpkin spice coffee or Martini
White chocolate and dried cranberries & bloody Orange Spritz
Simple pairings like these bring a touch of seasonal elegance — perfect for enhancing both hosting and guest experiences this time of year!
If you have a BNB and like to list yours on SDC, write to SDCBNB on the site, or send an email to bnb@sdcmedia.com. Check out our BNB section here!
Cruise News
Ahoy, SDC Members! We are more than thrilled to offer the option to learn more about lifestyle cruising within our SDC community. SDC is fortunate to have Bliss Cruises on board with us to offer you personalized service right here within our site. We also recommend joining the Bliss Cruise group so you don’t miss out on important information, and it's a great way to connect with fellow cruisers before you go! Check out some of the cruises on offer for 2026 / 2027: Bliss Cruise: Celebrity Reflection - November 2025 - WAIT LIST AVAILABLE - SDC Guest List FantaSea Connections Cruise - February 2026 by Right Connections Travel - Book today - SDC Guest List Bliss Cruise: RCI Radiance of the Seas - February 2026 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List Bliss Cruise: Celebrity Silhouette - April 2026 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List Bliss Cruise: RCI Wonder of the Seas - November 2026 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List Bliss Cruise: Celebrity Summit - February 2027 - Reserve your spot - SDC Guest List
FEATURED WEBINAR HOST
Adonis Allen
Step into a world of sensuality, storytelling, and unapologetic authenticity with this month’s featured host, Adonis Allen, the force behind House Allen, Dallas’s premier destination for alternative nightlife and erotic artistry. A captivating Reality TV personality, published erotic author, and commanding Sensual Dominant, Adonis curates immersive experiences that blend erotic education, kink expression, and artistic performance. In his Boa Erotica After Dark webinar series on SDC’s live streams, Adonis delivers live readings from his seductive fiction, interactive BDSM and fetish demonstrations, and insightful lifestyle coaching, all designed to educate, arouse, and empower. Whether you're exploring your desires for the first time or deepening your journey into kink, Adonis invites you to indulge from the comfort of your screen while staying connected to his high-end in-person events in Dallas.
FEATURED BUSINESS
Rooftop Resort
Rooftop Resort is the premier clothing-optional lifestyle hotel in South Florida. We are located just off the Broadwalk in Hollywood Beach. Enjoy all our amenities as an overnight hotel guest or come for the day and swim, sun, and play. We are open for fun 7 days a week and are famous for our naked pool parties every weekend.
FEATURED EXPERT
Dragonfly of Pure Orgasmic Love
Dragonfly is a Holistic Sexual Wellness Educator and Somatic Sexologist who invites you on a pleasure journey like no other. She is trained as a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and Somatica® Practitioner, specializing in a holistic path toward whole-body health and sexual wellness — with the most orgasmic outcomes, including mind-blowing, body-tingling, toe-curling orgasms. Through her Orgasmic Members area, she offers tools for complete sexual awakening and deeper connection to yourself and your partner(s). She also hosts intimate pleasure retreats around the world, where participants explore expanded experiences of play, pleasure, and intimacy. Her signature PleasurePlayshop™ has become a favorite at sex-positive conventions and lifestyle cruises, where she creates safe, playful, and transformative spaces for exploration. Dragonfly looks forward to meeting you wherever you are on your journey of relationships, sex, and connection — and invites you to open your mind and let real orgasmic pleasures flow through you. Check out Dragonfly’s podcasts and videos here.
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Hotwifing vs. Cuckolding: What’s the Difference?
If you’ve been exploring the world of ethical non-monogamy, chances are you’ve come across terms like hotwifing and cuckolding. At first glance, they might sound pretty similar, but there are some key distinctions. Both hotwifing and cuckolding involve a woman (often a wife or girlfriend) having sex with other men; however, the feelings, motivations, and experiences behind them can be really different.
Whether you're just curious or considering exploring these exciting new avenues with your partner, this article will dive into the differences between hotwifing and cuckolding....READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
SDC Pastease Party
Miami, FL
Saturday, October 4th Doors Open at 10:00pm Join SDC & Miami Velvet as we celebrate a night just for COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES! We are offering a FREE ONE DAY Membership for Couples On The SDC Guest List All Night Tonight SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $135 at the door! Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club
Single Gents Welcome Except Saturdays
Seeking Venus October 2025
London, UK
Saturday, 4th October SEEKING VENUS is an evening wrapped in theatricality, providing a range of experiences designed to provoke, intrigue and develop chemistry between guests. It brings together seekers from different scenes for an exploration of sexuality and soul, kink and connection. Our ethereal realm opens its doors very rarely, often only once a year, so come discover what has made our events so highly regarded... WATCH OUR VIDEO FOR THE LAST EVENT HERE... [http://seekingvenus.co.uk/trailer.html ] Featuring:
• Fabulous private venue in East London with 3 enticing zones to explore:
The Salon, The Temple of Senses and The Sanctum, set across 4 floors!
• International performers
• Bespoke cocktail menu
• Immersive theatre and installations
• Pop-up designer boutique
• Intimate parlour games hosted by our Venusians
• Erotic storytelling
• Sumptuous play spaces and variety of kink furniture
• Shibari
• Life drawing
• DJ Jamie Moon and guests to ignite the dancefloor
• Photography sessions
• ‘The Ritual’
• Plus more to be announced in the coming weeks... Our event looks to celebrate a more feminine sensuality. As such, anyone can attend, but only those presenting as female/femme may enter unaccompanied.
Eyes Wide Shut themed Masquerade Ball
Clearwater, FL
Saturday, October 18th, 2025 Time: 8:08 PM – 11:08 PM (Private Event)
11:08 PM – 1:00 AM: Doors open to the public but the true heat happens before 11:08pm! Location: Countryside Country Club, 3001 Countryside Blvd, Clearwater, FL 33761 Step into the shadows and indulge your fantasies at Fire Phoenix 888’s Eyes Wide Shut theme Masquerade Ball, a night of seductive mystery, sultry masks, and fiery energy! This exclusive lifestyle event is not just a party... It's an experience! Masquerade Required Attire* Masks are strongly encouraged and recommended the more creative, the better! This is your chance to be bold, sexy, and mysterious! Dress to Impress! No sneakers or flip-flops. Elegant, stylish, and seductive is the name of the game! We’ll be hosting a costume contest, so bring your A-game and get ready to turn heads sexy people! Fiery Entertainment* Prepare for scorching performances all night long including seductive dancers, a sexy songstress, and the electrifying DJ LoyalT! Who’s taking social media by storm with his fiery beats! We had to have him! And now you get to feel the heat live!
This is a night you’ll never forget!
The TABOTA Monster Bash Hotel Takeover
Toronto, Canada
Saturday, October 24th Are you ready for Canada’s Biggest Lifestyle Halloween Event?
The TABOTA Monster Bash is back for a full weekend hotel takeover in Niagara Falls—and it’s hotter than ever. Since 2007, TABOTA has been hosting Monster Bash for Lifestyle couples, and this year promises even more wicked surprises, including: Our Carnival of Sins...
Theme Dances & Stage Performances...
Pool & Hot Tub Parties in a tropical waterpark...
Live Band + DJ all weekend long...
Kink Garden with Wax & Rope Workshops...
Body painting & Black Tape Body Art...
Murder Mystery & Pirate Treasure Hunt...
Room Crawl + Door Decorating Contest...
Escape Room & Pumpkin Carving Contest...
Sexy Tarot Card Readings...
Zombie Walk Fashion Show... Penthouse Playrooms open late into the night This is the weekend where the Wild Ones come to play! Indulge in every sinful surprise Monster Bash has to offer! Endless Temptation… Monster Bash is where fantasy takes another bite )
But beware—rooms are going fast! Give in to temptation and book before it’s too late: MonsterBash.com
For more TABOTA events, visit TabotaEvents.com
Malìa - Halloween Party 2025
Milan, Italy
Saturday, November 1st On November 1st, Malìa returns, the iconic Halloween event by Libertine Queen: a magical, unrepeatable night held this year in a brand-new location, never used before—a residence of charm transformed for the occasion into a temple of mystery and seduction. Location: Vicenza | Veneto
Entry: from 10:00 PM to 11:00 PM
Limited event: 50 couples + a limited number of singles
Participation fee: €450 couples & single men | €50 single women
Gold Pass – Pre Party: from 8:30 PM | €70 per person | reserved for a limited number of guests
Privè: exclusive reserved area | info below
Overnight stay: private rooms available within the venue | info below
Dress code: For Malìa, dressing up is mandatory: this is a Halloween party, and costumes are part of the experience. Let the theme inspire you by playing with make-up, masks, and accessories, creating sensual and mysterious looks while keeping elegance. Ladies: seductive outfits or costumes with dark, intriguing details. Gentlemen: elegant outfits with a mysterious allure, enriched with accessories or masks. Everyone: masks, make-up, and themed details are welcome to complete your costume.
In this elegant and enchanting setting, you will live an experience wrapped in allure and magic, made unique by the impeccable organization of Libertine Queen.
The “Ritual of Malìa” will mark the beginning of the most intense and exclusive part of the night.
Note: To guarantee absolute privacy and exclusivity, the use of cell phones or recording devices is strictly prohibited.
https://www.libertinequeen.com/en/malia2025
Halloween Superheroes Ball!
Marbella, Spain
Saturday, 4th November Wicked Club Marbella Presents: The Superheroes Ball – Halloween Edition Couples & Single Ladies Only | Saturday Night | Doors Open 21:00 This Halloween, it’s time to unleash your alter ego at Wicked Club Marbella’s Superheroes Ball.
Slip into your sexiest costume, whether you’re a sultry Cat woman, a daring Wonder Woman, a mysterious masked crusader—or a villain ready to play. Step into a night of erotic fantasy, playful seduction, and thrilling adventure where open-minded couples and single ladies gather for a Halloween celebration unlike any other. What Awaits You:
Superhero-Themed Atmosphere – immersive décor, seductive lighting & wicked Halloween vibes
Live DJ sets & dance floor – keep the energy electric all night long
Luxury play spaces & private lounges – designed for intimacy, fantasy, and connection
Exclusive to couples & single ladies – a safe, sensual, and sophisticated environment Why You’ll Love It:
Embrace your wild side with sexy costumes & playful role-play
Meet like-minded couples and single ladies in a judgment-free space
Explore new fantasies or simply dance, flirt, and indulge
The perfect mix of Halloween mystery and superhero seduction Limited spots available!
Our Halloween events are some of the most anticipated of the year.
Don’t miss the chance to live out your darkest fantasies at the Superheroes Ball. Unmask your desires. Be bold. Be wicked. Be super. Venue:
Wicked Château – Wicked Club Marbella Reserve Early – Spots Fill Fast!
Our themed parties are among the most anticipated events in the lifestyle scene. Don’t miss your chance to be part of a truly unforgettable night of decadent pleasures, and wicked connections. This Halloween, don’t just dress like a superhero—become one.
Bliss Cruise Into The Deep Official Pre-Party
Fort Lauderdale, FL
Friday, November 7th 8pm - 4am Before the ship sets sail, the party starts at Trapeze. Join us for the official Bliss Cruise pre-party and dive headfirst into a night of seduction, connection, and uninhibited fun. This is your chance to meet, mingle, and get wet before you even hit the ocean. Come out and play at South Florida’s best sex club! https://www.TrapezeClubs.com/Fort-Lauderdale *Membership to Trapeze required. Cannot be combined with other discounts or promotions.
The Christmas Delight - A Cosplay Winter Erotica
Pattaya, Thailand
December 20th & 21st Cosplay Winter Erotica “Christmas Delight 2025” is a strictly Experienced Swinger couples Event. This is an exclusive arrangement for the selected global swinger couples, brought together to explore their limits of fantasies and to find new dimensions to their kinkiness in a safe and carefree atmosphere. A world class setup is a key to fulfilment in the sin city of Thailand, PATTAYA. 20th (Saturday) & 21st (Sunday) December 2025
( 2 Day/nights), Check-in- 20th December Before 5 PM Local Time.
Check-out- 22nd December morning before 11 AM. Venue: A 4 Star Hotel with Pool & Banquet in PATTAYA, Thailand. Highlights:
1. An Erotic DJ Night where participants will be dressed in their kinkiest outfits seducing & luring others.
2. A Pool Event at Noon to ignite the fire of desires further.
3. A Cosplay Night with Thai performers. Where all the participants will experience the uncontrollable lust and desires, dressed in nasty role-play costumes. Thai Female, She-male & Boy performers will sizzle the mood on the beats of DJ to bring out the real nastiness within you.