PUBLIC PARTY
Couples and Single Ladies Only Night @CSW
START DATE
Jun 06, 2026 8:00 PM
END DATE
Jun 07, 2026 1:30 AM
INFORMATION
Kearny Mesa
Description
**Couples and Fems Play Party
**This Party is restricted! No single CIS Males!
*Co-hosted by Couple In4Life!
Welcome to our Lifestyle Play Party! It's time to unwind with some sexy friends. (No theme. Dress as sexy as you want to for each phase of the night wink Keep it classy and upscale)
Open 8:00 PM 'til 9:15 PM for a Meet and Greet, Tour, Etiquette conversations, and Q&A available for newbies! (Think sexy clubwear to start out)
The meet and greet is highly encouraged. Our guests who wait until the last minute to come in the door usually find the party already rolling and have little chance to meet new people.
9:15 PM Circle up for expectations, rules discussion, and questions.
9:30 PM The play party begins. (Maybe a layer less if you are feeling up for it? There are usually a few ladies in lingerie at this point, a few guys will have "lost" their pants....
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**Couples and Fems Play Party
**This Party is restricted! No single CIS Males!
*Co-hosted by Couple In4Life!
Welcome to our Lifestyle Play Party! It's time to unwind with some sexy friends. (No theme. Dress as sexy as you want to for each phase of the night wink Keep it classy and upscale)
Open 8:00 PM 'til 9:15 PM for a Meet and Greet, Tour, Etiquette conversations, and Q&A available for newbies! (Think sexy clubwear to start out)
The meet and greet is highly encouraged. Our guests who wait until the last minute to come in the door usually find the party already rolling and have little chance to meet new people.
9:15 PM Circle up for expectations, rules discussion, and questions.
9:30 PM The play party begins. (Maybe a layer less if you are feeling up for it? There are usually a few ladies in lingerie at this point, a few guys will have "lost" their pants.)
10:30 PM The door person is off duty, doors are closed for the night. (By this point, nobody cares about a dress code devil)
12:30 Last Call for Alcohol
Open 9:30 PM 'til 1:30 AM for the Play Party
Event Information:
For quicker check-in, please register for membership or pre-pay at the clubsafeword website.
This event is a play party you will be able to engage as much or as little as you want. For those new to the lifestyle, we are offering a Q&A session from the experienced host couple. Sexy dress attire is encouraged but not mandatory. Casual dress attire (think something you'd wear to a dinner restaurant) is the minimal dress code requirement.
The music maintains a vibe throughout the event except for announcements.
BYOB! Basic drink mixers are provided (sodas, water, juice mixers). If you need a special mixer you can bring that as well and we will store it with your provided alcohol of choice. Bar check-in is located upstairs in our kitchen area, when you want a drink simply check in with the bartender and they will help you.
BYOC, BYOT, etc. Bring your own condoms and toys.
All Bartenders are volunteers and graciously accept tips.
The Location Details
5000 Square Feet of private party space!
Bar and Lounge area
On-Site Play Areas with varying degrees of Light
Beds, couches, and various furniture fixtures for play.
Private/Semi Private Play Rooms (30-minute time limit please)
Group room
2 Restrooms
Strong Central HVAC for a comfortable feel all year.
Limited Locker Availability, first come first served.
Membership Currently $12.99 a month(3 mo=$33, 6 mo=$52, 1 Year=$90)
If you are a member of an affiliate collaborator Club, please register and contact us to gain premium access!
RSVP/Purchase Tickets for additional information including venue address and parking information
Call/text for more information: (619) 354-7977
Who's Invited: straight couples, couples with bi females, couples with bi males, bi couples, lesbian couples, gay couples, transgendered couples, single straight women, single bi women, single gay women, single transgender women, queer folx, etc. Males, if you enter as a couple, you play as a couple, you leave as a couple.
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Adult Bingo, Great Time!
My husband and I loved this event, we're initially very shy but everyone was so welcoming and the host was great. We appreciated how respectful the single males were and the overall vibe helped us get out of our shell. Hope to see another fun event soon!
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