Description

This event is being hosted by SD Young But Kinky at our venue (CSW) in Kearny Mesa. Requirements for attendance of this event include a YBK Munch and 101 Class.

FetLife Event Link: https://fetlife.com/events/2026/05/30/ybk-bdsm-play-party-21-39-only-gnz9ol?source=events_near_me

It was never a “phase” 🙄 so dust off those skinny jeans, American Apparel hoodies, Vans (or converse) and ray-bans! It’s time to join the Black Parade, show love for Ohio, remind yourself that Everything is Alright and Make Damn Sure you know your safe words if your Senses Fail you. Let’s make this A Day to Remember but please don’t cause a Riot! 🖤🎶

Looking to explore your BDSM interests in a safer and consensual environment for 21-39 ?
Step into an evening of BDSM desires and intense indulgence in San Diego!
To attend, you must have previously attended a YBK munch and our YBK 101 class, which will prepare you for your first event or serve as a refresh... Read More

This event is being hosted by SD Young But Kinky at our venue (CSW) in Kearny Mesa. Requirements for attendance of this event include a YBK Munch and 101 Class.

FetLife Event Link: https://fetlife.com/events/2026/05/30/ybk-bdsm-play-party-21-39-only-gnz9ol?source=events_near_me

It was never a “phase” 🙄 so dust off those skinny jeans, American Apparel hoodies, Vans (or converse) and ray-bans! It’s time to join the Black Parade, show love for Ohio, remind yourself that Everything is Alright and Make Damn Sure you know your safe words if your Senses Fail you. Let’s make this A Day to Remember but please don’t cause a Riot! 🖤🎶

Looking to explore your BDSM interests in a safer and consensual environment for 21-39 ?
Step into an evening of BDSM desires and intense indulgence in San Diego!
To attend, you must have previously attended a YBK munch and our YBK 101 class, which will prepare you for your first event or serve as a refresher on the rules of our Private BDSM YBK party and BDSM 101 Foundational Information.

Our event is focused on BDSM and we prioritize consent, negotiations, safety, and ethical play. Please note that this is NOT a sex party, but rather a safer and fun place for those interested in exploring the BDSM community.

We have an amazing private venue in San Diego that will host our play party. To attend, you must be fully vetted, and our FAQs on FetLife will guide you through the process. Once you are vetted, you will be added to our mailing list with regular emails of our private events. Also don't forget to fill out our active dance card on our Private YBK Discord server.

Our event is BYOB with non-hard liquor drinks such as seltzer, beer, wine, or cider. However, we do provide soda,water and light refreshments. Please drink responsibly and always discuss alcohol during your negotiations as consent is key.

Party schedule:

Doors Open and Social time 8:00pm.
Announcements and rules 9:00 pm
Dungeon will open for play at 9:15 pm.
Our tasting rooms with volunteer Tops/Bottoms will also open at 9:15 pm offering you the chance to top/bottom to a kinky activity.
The doors will close at 11 pm
Party ends at 1am
Remember that only fully vetted attendees can buy tickets, and each attendee and guest must purchase a ticket to attend the play party. Passwords for vetted attendees and their guests have been mailed out. If you didn't receive it, please message the host.

We are always looking for volunteers such as DJ, Bartenders, DMs and experienced volunteer tops and bottoms and you do not have to be 21-39 to give back to our community. Read Less