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Openlove 101: Single Men at Swinger's Clubs (What Not To Do)

Single men in the lifestyle deal with a host of different issues when compared with single females and singles, and John and Jackie Melfi from Openlove 101 are here to offer some guidance.

Regardless of how open the lifestyle is, there seems to be a constant stigma around single men in the swinger scene.

So, as owners of Colette lifestyle clubs, John and Jackie hear all the common complaints from members about single guys. They figured they'd make a video and share some things not to do as a single male at swingers clubs. 

Watch the video and learn to avoid these at all costs if you want to connect and play well with others!

Openlove 101

John and Jackie Melfi are swingers in an open relationship. Together they are the driving force behind, a swingers' club brand with locations in Dallas, New Orleans, Houston, and Austin. John has been in the swinger club industry for 20 years, and when he and Jackie met, they expanded the business in order to reach and educate more couples and singles curious about the lifestyle. Their first venture together was the award winning lifestyle blog, Today this swinging powerhouse coach couples on the lifestyle, provide video content, blog weekly on the topic and have been the recipients of numerous industry awards. Visit to sign up for their FREE newsletter and receive updates on their videos and articles.
  • Anonymous
Nov 16, 2019
SINGLE GUYS! Find out what the dress code is and if single guys are welcomed the night you are trying to attend. Also, you dont really have to pursue any couple. Grab you a drink and by all means don't go stand in the corner and look like a creep. Treat it like a normal club where you are just TALKING to people and if they invite you have fun if not then hey enjoy good people.