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How to Upload Pics
Here's how to add more pics to your profile while using the browser version of sdc.com while on your phone. (Spoiler alert: it's easy!)

California Swingers: How to Connect, Flirt, and Play
With its sun-kissed beaches, hedonistic nightlife, and relaxed, open-minded culture, California is one of the best places in the United States to experience the swinging lifestyle.

How to Meet Swingers in California: Your Lifestyle Guide
Let’s dive into some flirty and sexy things for swingers to do in California.

Hotwifing vs. Cuckolding: What’s the Difference?
Whether you're just curious or considering exploring these exciting new avenues with your partner, this article will dive into the differences between hotwifing and cuckolding.

You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy”
You Don’t Need to “Learn Ethical Non-Monogamy ” — You Need to Learn Yourself.

Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy
Compersion Isn’t the Opposite of Jealousy — Here’s What It Really Means in Ethical Non-Monogamy.

Confirmation Bias is Blocking Your ENM Growth
Think you already know how your relationship will turn out? That might be confirmation bias talking. Here’s how to break free.

Black Women, Sexual Freedom, and the Judgment We Carry
Black women were never given sexual freedom in this country.

Why You Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns
Are your thoughts sabotaging your ethical non-monogamous (ENM) relationships? The Feedback Loop in ENM Explained.

Privacy vs Secrecy in Ethical Non-Monogamy
In ethical non-monogamy, privacy honors boundaries — but secrecy destroys trust.

Lying vs Withholding in Ethical Non-Monogamy
Lying vs Withholding in ENM: Not lying isn’t the same as being fully honest.

Stop Trying Not to Want What You Want
Let’s talk about something that too many people navigating ethical non-monogamy (ENM) silently wrestle with: You’re trying not to want what you actually want.

What Regular Therapists Don’t Get About Ethical Non-Monogamy
Many relationship therapists are trained in monogamy-based frameworks — which means when non-monogamous clients seek support, they often get advice that does more harm than good.

Ethical Non-Monogamy vs. Consensual Non-Monogamy
If you've been exploring open relationships, polyamory, or alternative relationship structures, you've likely come across the terms Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) and Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM).