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New Improvements — Coming in February
Only paying members of SDC will be able to see photos with nudity on the web version of SDC (available on all devices) Members will be able to update their own profile name (for paying members only) An App or PC icon will indicate which platform a member is using Lifetime members will have the ability to set suspected fake trial accounts to inactive You now have the ability to remove received validations, friends/followers and validations that you have given to other members (available now)
Sexy Valentine’s Calendar
Sharing the love (and pleasure) is what SDC is all about! Our Valentine's Calendar is getting sexier each day with new exclusive deals from our partners. Fall in lust with these sizzling offers — whether you want to seduce your lovers or indulge yourself with a sexy gift. Take a peek at our calendar today and until February 7th for desirable offers.
New Social Network — GarageApp
SDC has developed a new social network called GarageApp, designed to connect car and motorcycle enthusiasts based on location, brand, and model. If you're a car or motorcycle lover, we invite you to download the iPhone or Android app and create a free profile. It's a great way to make new friends and share your passion for cars or motorcycles.
SDC Contests
Congratulations to FLORIDAFUN4SURE for winning the Ho-Ho-Horny Holiday Writing Contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Erotic Depot & Bijoux Indiscrets. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New - Sexiest Couple Swap Experience Writing Contest!
Voting Underway - Sensual Setting Video Contest!
Voting Underway - Black & White Photo Contest!
Diamonds for Valentines!
Surprise your Valentine with a sexy diamond! Enjoy intense stimulation thanks to the luxurious Ohh! Anal Plug with the finishing touch of a diamond sparkling during your most intimate moments. Made of aluminum, you can enjoy temperature play by holding the plug under a hot or cold tap.
The Ohh! Plug is for men and women, comes in several sizes, and is easy to clean.
Hot Tips
Did you know that a large number of SDC members only access our site using the SDC App? For your profile to be noticed within our app, it is important to upload some photos without nudity — even if you are not an App user. Profiles with photos have a much greater success rate on SDC! So, don’t miss out on your chance to connect with even MORE members by uploading some G-rated photos. Upload your photos TODAY!
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Goddess Gateway: Open Up to More Pleasure
Are you a Sex Goddess? Hells yes, you are! Do you want to nurture your sexual wellness and pleasure in your body? Don't know where to start? NOW, you do!
Join Dragonfly to learn what obstacles may be holding you back, not only in the bedroom but your whole life! Start on your path to increase more…
*Offered ONLY 1 time a Year. Limited spaces available. SDC members $40 off code: SDCGG23
"I look forward to another Gateway weekend. I enjoyed feeling my inner goddess strength and allowing myself to feel free. My spirit was free. I was left wanting more and I can't wait to attend more sessions of Dragonfly! Her aura and soothing voice sent me to another dimension. I recommended this as soon as I left the first night."
Love, Lindsi W.,
Goddess Gateway Attendee
Dragonfly is a professionally trained Somatic Sexologist, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatica® Practitioner & Women's Empowerment of Pleasure Advocate. This gives her the educational perspective and experience to support and guide you toward receiving the pleasures in your body you have wanted and desired for so long.
SDC SEXY SKI — So Much Fun!
What a bummer if you had to miss our SDC Sexy Ski event last month! Okay, just like everywhere else in Europe, there wasn’t an overload of fresh powder… but we made up for it during those very memorable, super sexy nights at the hotel! Until next time!
We are also very excited to introduce soon a brand-new service that has everything to do with travel, connecting together and with other hotties, and more! Keep checking back to the Travel pages!
FEATURED EXPERT
Evolve Your Intimacy with Stephanie & Fox
Certified and Licensed Sex Therapist Stephanie Sigler, NCC, LPC, PhD ABD, and Board Certified Relationship, Intimacy, & Sex Education Coach Fox, SEC, SAVI, CIS, EMT-T, are a dynamic duo who have a passion for helping others discover their relationships' true potential.
Stephanie and Fox founded Evolve Your Intimacy after noticing a disconnect between traditional counseling and non-monogamy. What if you were given permission to design your relationship any way you want? Forget everything you were taught growing up — there are no rules when it comes to creating a relationship dynamic that works for you and your partner.
Evolve Your Intimacy provides you with the tools and guidance from licensed and certified professionals to help you build your ideal partnership, navigate relationships of all dynamics, and learn to communicate without fear of the unknown.
Have a question about sex and relationships? Ask Stephanie & Fox during their monthly Q&A livestream on SDC. Check out their SDC profile, group, and events here.
Their mission is to help people overcome barriers that prevent them from having a relationship(s) they truly desire and deserve.
Learn more and read articles by Evolve Your Intimacy here on SDC.com.
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How to Talk to Your Wife About Your Cuckolding Fantasies
Venus Cuckoldress shares her tips on how cuckolding hopefuls can better navigate conversations about making their fantasy a reality.
By Venus Cuckoldress for ASN Lifestyle Magazine
Sharing your sexual fantasies with your partner can be a scary thing to do, especially if those fantasies involve “outside of the norm” kinds of themes. For a lot of people, the fear of being harshly judged or rejected by their partner is enough to keep those fantasies buried deep in the closet. Cuckolding is no different. I’ve heard many stories over the years of men who got the courage to tell their wives about their cuckolding fantasies and it didn’t go well. This is what has inspired me to share my tips on how to approach her in a way that will hopefully make things go well....READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
House Of Kandi - Las Vegas Escape To The Sun! Las Vegas - May 4/5/6 2023
Spoil your lovers and friends with a special SDC Valentines Day Treat. Use Code: SDCEROTIC for exclusively discounted TICKETS to KANDI VEGAS May 4/5/6! Escape to the Sun and Fun of three high-end Vegas days, the way Vegas should be done! Nine Epic Parties. Three Scorching Days. Three Wicked Nights. And only in Vegas afterworlds of play!
SDC Lovers @ Miami Velvet
Miami, FL
Saturday, February 4th, 2023
10:00pm - 4:00am Join SDC & Miami Velvet as we celebrate a night just for COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES! We are offering a FREE ONE DAY Membership for Couples On The SDC Guest List All Night Tonight SDC.com Couples with screen names on the guest list are just $85 at the door! Strict Dress Code Enforced
BYOB Private Club
Single Gents Welcome Except Saturdays www.MiamiVelvet.com
Sweethearts Ball at The Swan Mansion
Baytown, TX
Friday, February 10th - 12th, 2023
1:00pm - 12:00pm Treat your sweetheart to something more than the commonplace. Make your lovers heart swell with pride in you by treating them to the elegance and intimate setting found ONLY at The Swan Mansion. This will be a weekend full of entertainment and romance as you experience the white-glove service from our staff. Private rooms with private baths, live entertainment, award-winning chef prepared meals, fine wines, and open bar are just a few of the amenities to be found here. Don’t settle for the ordinary. Treat yourself and your love to the EXTRAORDINARY that can only be found at The Swan Mansions Sweethearts Ball. This event is being co-hosted by Front Porch Swingers. BOOK IMMEDIATELY or wish you had. ***Attendance is for members only, and membership is granted by application. Please visit our website, read ALL public information, and submit the application at www.swanmansion.life You will receive a prompt and courteous response.
Valentines Glow Lingerie Party
Las Vegas, NV
Saturday, February 11, 2023
10:00pm - 3:00am Join Us For Our Annual Valentines Glow Lingerie Theme Costume Event Weekend Couples/Females Only Join us at PlayhouseLV Ultra Lounge! We Host The Sexiest Most Exclusive Lifestyle Events in Las Vegas. This is Where the Sexy Play.
Red Hot Valentines Party at the Rooftop
Hollywood, FL
Saturday, February 11, 2023
9:00pm- 3:00am DJ Luis rocks the dance floor
Heated rooftop pool
BYOB Bar with free setups Couples, Ladies & Select Single Men Welcome
The Kiss Valentine’s Party
iCity Of Westminster, UK
Saturday, 11 February, 2023
9:30pm - 3:00am Sexy - Sensual - Seductive @ Le Boudoir
New - Internationally renowned DJ in the House Le Boudoir is the UK's smartest lifestyle venue, where a world of naughtiness, sexual liberation, and debauchery hides in every corner.
With a fully licensed bar and sexy tunes, you can go wild with abandon across 3 floors of stylish and playful surroundings. Central London location
Licensed cocktail bar with top brand spirits, wines, prosecco and champagnes
Mezzanine with seating and a view of the whole bar
Our vaulted ceiling fetish room with couples play cubicles, glory holes, swing, spanking bench, St Andrew’s cross, restraints & more
Upstairs - the loft - a seductive little play space with mirrored ceiling
The group room, an open plan playroom with large beds and chaise
3 large private playrooms, including the infamous headmaster’s room Our FAQs and Rules page will help guide you along the way or email us directly.
We look forward to seeing you soon!
LOCATION
Le Boudoir is a permanent central London venue located near Tower Bridge.
For discretion, the full address is provided to registered and approved members. DRESS CODE
Ladies – smart, sexy, chic, stylish, daring!
Gentlemen – smart jeans, trousers, formal shirt, polo shirts (no sportswear, T-shirts, singlets, hoodies, trainers) ENTRY & TIMINGS
Doors open at 21.30 and the venue closes by 03.00
Le Boudoir parties are for members only. There are NO MEMBERSHIP fees.
Photo IDs are required for all attendees at all events.
Saturday events are open to couples and single females only. Le Boudoir is a private members club which means no open-door policy. There are NO MEMBERSHIP FEES to join, but new attendees are required to sign up via our website.
More information about events, tickets & new applications are available at www.leboudoir.club
We look forward to seeing you soon!
Club M4 Valentine’s Day Party
Mississauga, Canada
Saturday, February 11, 2023
9:00pm- 3:00am Club M4 Valentine’s Day Party
2 GREAT GRAND PRIZE DRAWS Join us for a fabulous Valentine's Day Party. We will have draw prizes including 2 Great Grand Prizes: 1) A Naughty In N'awlins Convention Package for their Famous Swingers Convention in New Orleans (July 5th to 9th) Valued at $749.00 USD 2) A free one-night voucher to use our exciting new Luxury private rental playroom for you and your intimate friends. Available for one time use during club hours only RESERVATION REQUIRED. Love and sex are in the air at Club M4’s Valentine’s Ball! It’s an intimate night for meeting other sexy couples who are looking for a fun and hot erotic night! This is the event to wear your sexy Valentine’s Day outfit, because other than your bedroom where else would you wear it? *Couples $60.00
*Free For Single Females
*With valid Club M4 Membership
Valentines Night at Caliente Resort
Land O Lakes, FL
Tuesday, February 14, 2023
6:00pm Enjoy a beautiful dinner with your special someone on the most romantic night of the year...at CALIENTE! Our culinary team will make you fall in love with the menu while you dine by candlelight and listen to Belkis & Andy put your Hearts On Fire! Reservations encouraged. Spend such a special night with us! Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight
Caliente Club & Resorts
21240 Gran Via Blvd
Land O Lakes FL 34637
813-996-3700 x0 Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport, or clothes! Dress up or dress down, either way just have fun! Visit for a day or join us as your Vacation Club
- Clothing-Optional Adult Luxury
- Beautiful Waterfall and Grotto
- Studio, Condo and Villa Rentals
- Huge Lagoon Pool and 4 Other Pools (2 heated)
- Rouge On-Premise Playroom
- Four Poolside Bars
- Hot Tub and a Sexy Conversation Pool
- Elegant Dining and Piano Bar
- Sexy Nightclub and Sports Bar
- Lifestyle-friendly Themed Parties
- Special Events, Shows and Bands
- Full Service Spa and Fitness Facilities Learn more about Caliente Club & Resorts at calienteresorts.com