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SDC Feature Spotlight

SDC Speed Date

Our Speed Date feature is perfect for last minute hook-ups and upcoming get togethers. Meet up in person or virtually with our live cam option.

Are you going to be at a concert, show or just your local wine bar? Use this feature to connect with your fellow SDC members today!

You can upload one Speed Date at a time, up to 2 weeks in advance. Each Speed Date can last a maximum of 4 days (which you can select in the calendar), but Virtual Dates are limited to 1 day only (and you will be asked to specify the time). 

SDC Feature Updates

Here are the latest improvements over the last month:

SDC Contests

Congratulations to ZIP2SWING for winning the Sexy 69 Video Contest! 

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings & Bijoux Indiscrets.

Click the links below to access, enter or vote for the latest contests:

New - Licking & Sucking Lovers Video Contest
Current - Best Sex Party Hook Up! Writing Contest
Voting Underway  - Stockings & Heels Photo Contest

SDC Shop

Summer vibes with SDC!

Are you completely summer proof?

Did you know that SDC also has great fans, tops and sarongs? And how about an SDC cap, bikini and swimming trunks!

In our shop you will find all SDC merchandise, some of which can even be personalized. Don't forget to also take a look at our sexy toys!

Shop now!

NEW! Ask An Expert: Get Swingers Advice on SDC

Do you have questions about sex and relationships?

We have answers!

Get advice about hot topics like the swinger lifestyle, hotwifing, open relationships, BDSM & kink, sexual health tips, and more from our experts.

As our team answers more questions, we’ll put up the answers on the Q&A page.

Check out our Q&A section for some recent questions, or ask our experts!

NEW! Hotwifing 101 Resource Page

What is hotwifing, and why is it such a popular topic? Who can be a hotwife? Is hotwifing and wife swapping the same thing? How is hotwifing different from cuckolding?

Our experts have created articles, podcasts, videos, resources, and more to answer your questions and help you discover more about how to be a hotwife, how to know if you and your partner are ready for hotwifing, and tips on how to make hotwifing even sexier.

Explore our new Hotwifing 101 page!


ASN Awards - Voting is still ON!

Who’s the best podcaster? The best entertainer? The best travel resort? 

Check out the finalists in each category of this year’s ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards, presented by SDC.

Now until June 30th, you can vote up to twice a day for each category and help decide the winners of the 2022 ASN Awards.

The show will be virtually broadcast LIVE on September 18th, 2022, when we’ll all find out who will take home their trophies!

Vote for your favorites and get all the details here!

Come Summer & Winter, celebrate with us!

Spain is known for its sun soaked beaches, its nightlife, stunning scenery and amazing food. This is why we cover the Summer plus Winter in our upcoming sexy events in this beautiful and passionate country! Where do we love to take you?

The pulses and pounds of the nightlife beckon you to the breathtaking island of Ibiza. From 13 - 18 September, 2022 you will find our takeover hotel humming with vitality and pure excitement. This is a one-of-a-kind lifestyle event where passions fly high and where the going is very sexy. If glamorous and full on lifestyle action is your thing, this is a must attend event! Don’t wait and BOOK NOW!

Vacationing in a hotspot with more than 110 km of pistes, 21 ski lifts leading to snow covered slopes in a vibrant resort town that is the sunniest ski resort in Europe with lots of shops, restaurants and terraces, is nothing short of heavenly!

Even if you don’t ski, there is lots to see and do in the area, so don’t let that deter you from enjoying a fantastic winter lifestyle vacation!! This event offers multiple free PlayShops, daily Après Ski, a supercool pool area, an awesome playroom and of course, more than 250 hot couples to mix & mingle with from 15 - 20 January, 2023! Secure your spot and BOOK NOW!


Dan & Lacy: The Swing Nation

What happens when the sexy southern unicorn meets the charming northern stud? The ultimate swinger couple!

Hello, Pineapple friends! We are Dan and Lacy, and we’ve taken to podcasting and social media to help shine a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle we love, and give an insider’s perspective on what it’s like being a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century.

That’s why we created The Swing Nation Podcast!

Check out all of Dan and Lacy’s podcasts on SDC.