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SDC Feature Spotlight
SDC Speed Date
Our Speed Date feature is perfect for last minute hook-ups and upcoming get togethers. Meet up in person or virtually with our live cam option.
Are you going to be at a concert, show or just your local wine bar? Use this feature to connect with your fellow SDC members today!
You can upload one Speed Date at a time, up to 2 weeks in advance. Each Speed Date can last a maximum of 4 days (which you can select in the calendar), but Virtual Dates are limited to 1 day only (and you will be asked to specify the time).
SDC Feature Updates
Here are the latest improvements over the last month: You can now change the order of your Photos & Videos in settings. Just slide or move them into the desired position. Member search page now includes “Search Mode”. Choose between AND or OR. AND will show profiles that have ALL the features you selected, OR will show profiles that have MINIMUM ONE of the features selected.
SDC Contests
Congratulations to ZIP2SWING for winning the Sexy 69 Video Contest! Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings & Bijoux Indiscrets. Click the links below to access, enter or vote for the latest contests: New - Licking & Sucking Lovers Video Contest
Current - Best Sex Party Hook Up! Writing Contest
Voting Underway - Stockings & Heels Photo Contest
SDC Shop
Summer vibes with SDC! Are you completely summer proof? Did you know that SDC also has great fans, tops and sarongs? And how about an SDC cap, bikini and swimming trunks!
In our shop you will find all SDC merchandise, some of which can even be personalized. Don't forget to also take a look at our sexy toys!
NEW! Ask An Expert: Get Swingers Advice on SDC
Do you have questions about sex and relationships? As our team answers more questions, we’ll put up the answers on the Q&A page. Check out our Q&A section for some recent questions, or ask our experts!
We have answers!
Get advice about hot topics like the swinger lifestyle, hotwifing, open relationships, BDSM & kink, sexual health tips, and more from our experts.
NEW! Hotwifing 101 Resource Page
What is hotwifing, and why is it such a popular topic? Who can be a hotwife? Is hotwifing and wife swapping the same thing? How is hotwifing different from cuckolding?
Our experts have created articles, podcasts, videos, resources, and more to answer your questions and help you discover more about how to be a hotwife, how to know if you and your partner are ready for hotwifing, and tips on how to make hotwifing even sexier.
Explore our new Hotwifing 101 page!
PARTNER CONTENT
ASN Awards - Voting is still ON!
Who’s the best podcaster? The best entertainer? The best travel resort? Check out the finalists in each category of this year’s ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards, presented by SDC. Now until June 30th, you can vote up to twice a day for each category and help decide the winners of the 2022 ASN Awards. The show will be virtually broadcast LIVE on September 18th, 2022, when we’ll all find out who will take home their trophies!
Come Summer & Winter, celebrate with us!
Spain is known for its sun soaked beaches, its nightlife, stunning scenery and amazing food. This is why we cover the Summer plus Winter in our upcoming sexy events in this beautiful and passionate country! Where do we love to take you?
SUMMER - IBIZA - SEPTEMBER 2022
The pulses and pounds of the nightlife beckon you to the breathtaking island of Ibiza. From 13 - 18 September, 2022 you will find our takeover hotel humming with vitality and pure excitement. This is a one-of-a-kind lifestyle event where passions fly high and where the going is very sexy. If glamorous and full on lifestyle action is your thing, this is a must attend event! Don’t wait and BOOK NOW!
WINTER - SIERRA NEVADA - JANUARY 2023
Vacationing in a hotspot with more than 110 km of pistes, 21 ski lifts leading to snow covered slopes in a vibrant resort town that is the sunniest ski resort in Europe with lots of shops, restaurants and terraces, is nothing short of heavenly!
Even if you don’t ski, there is lots to see and do in the area, so don’t let that deter you from enjoying a fantastic winter lifestyle vacation!! This event offers multiple free PlayShops, daily Après Ski, a supercool pool area, an awesome playroom and of course, more than 250 hot couples to mix & mingle with from 15 - 20 January, 2023! Secure your spot and BOOK NOW!
FEATURED EXPERT
Dan & Lacy: The Swing Nation
What happens when the sexy southern unicorn meets the charming northern stud? The ultimate swinger couple!
Hello, Pineapple friends! We are Dan and Lacy, and we’ve taken to podcasting and social media to help shine a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle we love, and give an insider’s perspective on what it’s like being a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century.
That’s why we created The Swing Nation Podcast!
Check out all of Dan and Lacy’s podcasts on SDC.
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The Positive Effects of Male Masturbation
Women can honor their inner goddess by simply double-clicking the mouse and ordering up an entire store of pleasurable toys. It’s easy for them to release those endorphins with a good hair-raising big O or — why not? — multiple ones at that in one session! Methods and tools include mastering the technique of squirting or even having a surgeon enlarge the G-Spot for enhanced earth-shaking finishes.
There is also an abundance of toys and procedures available to males to reach that serene state of satisfied bliss. We all know that masturbation is not just about sex. The all-me orgasm is a fool-proof stress reliever and helps you fall asleep, too. Sure, when you do it just as often as checking Facebook or your Instagram account, it’s a bit of an issue, but, overall, jerking off is really nothing to feel weird about. Everyone does it, and, if not, well, that could be for anything from religious beliefs to medical or emotional reasons, or for those battling Death Grip Syndrome... READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
Countdown to Kandi Vegas 2022
June 16 - 18, 2022 Las Vegas, NV So excited to have you come on out to play at Kandi! We all are going to have so much fun! Yahooooo!!!! Please let us know if you have any questions. Don't hesitate for a slight moment to reach out. Our professional support of your amazing experience is our goal. An important reminder, you must be staying at the Kandi Vegas host hotel to attend the Kandi daytime pool parties. Be sure that you don't forget the following! CLICK HERE TO BOOK YOUR KANDI VEGAS LUXURY ACCOMMODATIONS! Thoughts Regarding Your Travel Plans: We suggest that you arrive at the Kandi host hotel on Wednesday night June 15th before the festivities. Taking the night to rest up from your journey. Have a fresh running start at the three days of pool parties beginning at noon Thursday. ! For those arriving early on Wednesday evening. We will have early check in, and an informal meet and greet at a beautiful sexy nook in the hotel. Please dress sexy casual. Kandi Check-In Times: Check-in will be held during each day from noon to 3:00pm, and then again every evening at the entrance to our nightlife venues. Please remember as you arrive that we cannot transact cash sales at the door (Vegas Rules). If you wish to purchase tickets at the door, we can accommodate your purchasing online with your phone. Kandi Daytime Festivities: Kandi pool party hours are from 12:00 noon to 6:00 pm - Thursday/Friday/Saturday Day- We are sorry, public topless/nudity is not allowed anywhere at Kandi hotel venues. The Kandi pool is a 28th floor rooftop penthouse outdoor sensation of sensual fantasy and libido powered excess filled with world-class dance music, titillating bikinis galore, and our signature girl-positive energy. Strip away the layers of inhibition to reveal your sex appeal naughtiness, with your most flirtatious attitude! Our lineup of six incredibly professional positive-energy DJs are charged with enthralling you! Breathe in the special warm glow of pleasure-driven happiness that is uniquely … Kandi! Kabanas are available, please inquire if you are interested in hosting a Krew in your Kandi Kabana! Pool Thursday: Body shot bikini bash Pool Friday: Floatie bouncing with your heels on! Pool Saturday: Polkadot Paradise and Miss Kandi America Pageant. Kandi's Sizzling Summer Nights: THURSDAY NIGHT - WHITE HOT NIGHTS @ THE GIRL COLLECTION FRIDAY NIGHT - MOLTEN METAL @ VOODOO SATURDAY NIGHT - ELECTRIC GLOW @ EVOLVE Kandi is a lifestyle party about friendship, fantasy and fun. We host Kandi over three days in the wild world of Vegas, so that guests can get to know each other feeling comfortable with real erotic connections. Hilarious fun, and causing trouble together on a sexy adventure. That's Kandi!
THE GOLDEN CIRCLE by HEAVEN CIRCLE
Friday, 10th June, 2022 London, UK An invite only event for a young sexy crowd who love music and perhaps something a little naughty... A fun sexy event focussed around music with the perfect balance of DJs, lots of dancing, champagne, cocktails, oysters and the option to play behind the velvet curtain… This event is for selected single guys, girls and couples. Upon Arrival you will be greeted by our hosts, offered welcome Chandon and introduced to like minded guests. You will then have freedom to roam around the venue boasting a dance floor, DJ booth, bar area, hidden play area and our very non play relaxation area, complete with pillows and comfy blankets.
www.heavencircle.com
Pineapple Playdate presents Eyes Wide Shut Masquerade Ball - Full Hotel Takeover
Saturday, June 11th, 2022
Dallas, TX
9:00pm - 2:00am
FANTASY… DESIRE… SEDUCTION Event Location: Lorenzo Hotel, COMPLETE Hotel Takeover (12 floors) Eyes Wide Shut Masquerade Ball Where everything begins with fantasy, followed by desire and seduction. You are cordially invited to the most sensual, erotic lifestyle party of the year. Join us for a full evening of sensual and euphoric abandonment at this hotel takeover. Drink and dance the night away overlooking the downtown Dallas skyline. As you enter through the grand doors, only pleasure exists and no secrets escape as the doors close. Professional red carpet photographer will be on site as you arrive. Masks and formal black-tie attire required. VIP Dinner/Event begins at 6 p.m. which will include a plated dinner with professional wait staff. Party begins at 9 p.m. All party attendees must check in by 10 p.m. Hotel booking link will be emailed after tickets are purchased. Having a room for the night of the event is required to attend. No single males allowed without personal authorization from group admins.
www.pineappleplaydate.com/pages/events
Erotic Salon of Barcelona by Swingers Tours & Oops Barcelona
June 16 - 19, 2022 Barcelona, Spain Welcome to the Barcelona Swingerstours Oops Erotic Lounge, finally we return to the Catalan capital after 3 years of pandemic. recovers the best Erotic Lounge in Europe, uncensored and live, yes yes yes live. The Barcelona Swingerstours Liberal Travel by Oops Erotic Salon of Barcelona has become one of the largest conventions in the city, with more than 50,000 attendees, and is a world reference. When it comes to sexuality, everyone has their own perspective and taste. This space exposes it all. Its aim is to break taboos and vindicate freedom and respect for and towards everyone. It is the maximum expression of tolerance towards sexual inclinations and towards the body and the use that each person makes of it. It is, as they say on their website, for the enjoyment of men and women who are attracted by eroticism. The event combines recreational, cultural, educational, informative and commercial activities. Among other things, you will see stripteases and live sex shows. The space is divided into different sections, each of which offers a different introduction to the world of eroticism. Swingerstours Oops Salon Erotico welcomes you with a spectacular dinner with products of land and sea of 1 quality. In it we will meet all the couples arriving from the 5 continents, ready to give everything in the spectacular weekend ...
S.U.E. presents Eyes Wide Shut Party at Caliente Resort
Saturday, June 18, 2022 Land O Lakes, FL 8pm Are you ready for a night of sensuality and intrigue? Wear a mask to keep your identity secret...take your mask off when you're ready to share your intimacy with your sexy friends. ;) Live music in the Piano Bar from 7-11 PM. DJ Ian in the Fiesta Nightclub starting at 8 PM. See the sexiest peeps for this party! Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight Caliente Club & Resorts 21240 Gran Via Blvd Land O Lakes FL 34637 813-996-3700 x0 Caliente is a full resort that is clothing-optional and lifestyle friendly. YOU can be YOU here. And you don’t need a passport, or clothes! Dress up or dress down, either way just have fun!
www.CalienteResorts.com
LIVIT Summer Lovin’
June 24 - 26, 2022 New Braunfels, TX SUMMER LOVIN’ is a 2 DAY Festival of Transformational Experiences. Experience Sexual Freedom, Self Expression, Art, Kink and more for the Lifestyle, Poly, and Alternative Community. 12,000 sq ft of Indoor AC Play Space & 60 Manicured Acres of Outdoor Play Space - 11 Restrooms - Indoor Bar & Dance Floor - Large Pool with Bar - Floating Pond and more! Pool Party Bubbles and Hula Hoops Erotic Blueprinting 12 Hands Massage Hot Wax Play Area BDSM Area Tantra Tent Sessions Erotic Stretching Tables Naked Fire Dancing Naked in Nature Sex Games Nude Yoga Teepee Smoke Lodge Plant Medicines Sexual Incense Tribal Drumming Ceremony Sensual Awakening Circle Sacred Clay Mud Bath Wim Hot Cold Plunge Tribal Feasting Sound Meditation Ceremony Aromatherapy Lounge Ecstatic Dancing Stargazing in the Rockies THEME NIGHT EVERY NIGHT Camp in your RV, tent, vehicle or Get a Hotel Nearby!
TICKETS: LIVITUP.COM/SummerLovin
KINK IMPERIUM @ Baia Imperiale
Saturday, June 25, 2022
Gabicce Mare, Italy
In the iconic location of the BAIA IMPERIALE different worlds meet to give life to a New Transgressive Empire an event that will make history nothing will be the same again ... BOLERO PALACE, FUOCOeFIAMMA Party e REGINA NERA presents KINK IMPERIUM In collaboration with SDC.com, Psychedelic Vampire, Obscene, Moonlight Festival and Berlin Room
Around the World in Bed @ The Swan Mansion
Saturday, June 25th, 2022 Baytown, TX The Greeks do it…. The French do it…. The Italians do it for sure…. The Aussies are doing it down under, and the Brazilians are doing it all over…. So why not us. That’s right, let’s enjoy their food!!!. A night of “sampling” the distinct flavors that are to be prepared and found at The Swan Mansion. The Swan Mansion exists for the sole purpose of providing for the social and entertainment desires of our members. We will adhere to high standards of excellence as we provide an elegant and comfortable place for personal exploration. The Swan Mansion mission is to provide a safe place for erotic exploration and development of relationships. Carnal pleasures will always be an aspect of such explorations and our Black-tie masquerades, formal dinners, and poolside soirees provide the opportunities. Join with other erotic explorers for a night of elegance at The Swan Mansion!