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Improvements
- SDC Feed upgrade with improved functionality, including creating your own posts, is available now on the web version
- Upgrades have been made to your privacy settings; go to Settings, then Privacy to check them out
Coming soon…
- Option to save (like as a favorite) videos within our videos page
- The group forum will be upgraded to the new look
SDC Feed NEW & IMPROVED
We’re proud to share that the first phase of our newly enhanced SDC Feed is now live. Below is a quick overview of what to expect as you begin exploring and engaging with this new feature. Biggest IMPROVEMENTS You can create your own posts. You can like and comment on newly uploaded profile photos/videos or manually created posts of your friends and followed businesses. You get a notification about new likes and comments on your posts, uploaded photos/videos, and forums. Decide what you want to see in your feed by using the detailed new filter system broken down with each individual notification. Any notification can be switched on or off at any time (excluding SDC notifications). New Filter Menu
Use the down arrow to open all selections under each category that you can control in your SDC Feed — everything from your friends’ activities to new members in your area. User-Created Posts
Create your own post by using the +POST button on the feed page. You can post using text, pictures, videos, or a combination of them all. The photos and videos can be uploaded directly from your local device. Only full members are able to use this feature, and only your friends and followers will be able to see your manually created posts on their feed or on your profile. Feed on Profile View
Once you visit a profile of your friend or business you follow, you will see a new category called 'Feed Post' that scrolls all the way down. This feed section in the profile view will show user-created posts and newly uploaded photos and videos, which are also visible on the profile. (No album content will ever be visible.) Once you unfollow a business or unfriend a user, you will no longer be able to see this section on the profile view. Notifications Panel
Any content that was part of the 'SDC Notifications' tab on the feed is now part of the new notifications panel. In addition, the notifications panel shows any activity directly related to yourself (this is not about your friends’ activity, but all about you, e.g., you have a new match, comment, or like).
Contests
Congratulations to LOVESTOWATCH12 for winning the Mask & Mystery photo contest and to NAUGHTYGNOMES for winning THE “First“ Conversation writing contest. Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by:
Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Morgan Reynolds, and STD Hero. Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests: New – Game Night – Writing Contest
New – Best Rear View – Photo Contest
Voting Underway – Strip Story – Video Contest
SDC Shop
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1 set for € 5,- or 5 sets for € 20,-
Cruise News
Three New Cruises, Three Epic Worlds
For the first time ever, we are introducing fully immersive Bliss Cruise themes — a multi-sensory, all-encompassing experience that transforms the entire sailing. From the energy onboard to the events, entertainment, and atmosphere, each cruise is its own universe. Step Into the New Era of Bliss 2027 Fiesta Cruise: February 24-28, 2027 - Celebrity Summit - Tampa * Cozumel Spice meets seduction in a high-energy celebration of rhythm, flavor, and Latin heat. Expect tequila-fueled nights, salsa under the stars, and a sultry atmosphere where every sunset feels caliente and every dance floor feels electric. Join the Fiesta Celestial: April 8-24, 2027 - Celebrity Silhouette - Ft. Lauderdale * Cabo Rojo * Labadee A luminous escape where desire rises with the sun, and temptation glows after dark. Think moonlit seduction, cosmic chemistry, and a cruise designed to shimmer from golden dawn to stellar after-hours. Step Into the Stars Saints + Sinners: November 8-15, 2027 - Wonder of the Seas - Miami * St Maarten * St. Kitts & Nevis
Halo optional. Temptation encouraged. This sailing blurs the line between virtue and vice with heavenly indulgence by day and wicked mischief by night, and every couple decides how far they want to fall. Choose Your Side Bliss Cruise: RESERVE NOW
Feeling Lucky? Book an SDC BNB!
Relaxed mornings, unplanned evenings, and just enough spontaneity to leave a memorable impression — that’s where our SDC BNBs come in. Because sometimes, the real win isn’t at the end of the rainbow… It’s already booked.
Host Tip: March guests are ready for something new, so swap in lighter textures and, perhaps, add a subtle scent. When your BNB feels fresh and intentionally sensual, guests lean into that “new season, new energy” mindset, and return again and again.
FEATURED WEBINAR HOST
Frisky Neighbors
Join Carnelian and Saphyre as they unravel the intricacies of ethical non-monogamy and the swinger lifestyle. Dive into personal stories, debunk myths, and get inspired by interviews with others in the lifestyle. Whether you're curious or a seasoned participant, discover a community where every relationship is celebrated. Join the guestlist for Carnelian and Saphyre’s upcoming webinars on SDC!
FEATURED BUSINESS
Deviate Network
The Deviate Network has been in the lifestyle industry for over 14 years. As event hosts, we are committed to providing fun and exciting ways for our guests to interact and break the ice.
We had purchased numerous games to play at our events, and found they were not sexy or interactive and were not conducive to 'play.' In addition, we couldn’t find anything on the market that was geared towards people in the alternative lifestyles. In 2015, DV8 Dare™ Erotic Lifestyle Games were released to the lifestyle! We started with prototypes for each game, and used attendees at lifestyle events for our focus groups. This gave us the opportunity to see first-hand what worked and what didn’t. We have taken that positive feedback, and created 13 games to date. Our slogan 'Created for Swingers by Swingers'™ lets our customers know that our products are genuine lifestyle games. We've expanded our line to include DV8 Dare Products for Event Hosts and Promoters, a new line of erotic products, including three variations of our DV8 Dare Portable Glory Holes.
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FEATURED EXPERT
Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Aussies. Podcasters. Event Hosts. Sluts. World Travellers. They’re Cate & Darrell, the Wanderlust Swingers. Lovers of adventure, filthy fun, and genuine connections. Whether they’re behind a mic, hosting a wild hotel takeover, or exploring a new city, they’re always chasing those unforgettable, deliciously naughty moments. They love meeting people who are as curious, open, and fun as they are. Couples who understand the balance of connection and play, and single gents who can genuinely vibe with both of them, are their kind of people. Connection isn’t just about the physical. They’re big on great conversation, sharp wit, and easy laughter. Trust, respect, and clear communication are their foundation, and they’re drawn to others who share that same energy. Whether it’s drinks and cheeky banter, a night of flirtation, or diving headfirst into a wild adventure, they’re here to create moments that feel effortless and unforgettable. If you’re genuine, playful, and up for pushing boundaries together, let’s make some damn good memories.
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Hotwifing vs. Swinging: What’s the Difference?
How are hotwives and hotwifing couples different from swingers and swinging couples?
Let’s Talk About Ethical Non-Monogamy!
When it comes to consensual non-monogamy, there’s no universal path. Every couple discovers and chooses the open relationship style and dynamics that work best for them. And if you’ve ever fantasized about exploring outside your relationship together, two of the most alluring open relationship dynamics are the swinging lifestyle and hotwifing.
While these two terms may share some spicy overlap, the dynamics are not the same, and the emotional energy behind them is where things really start to sizzle.
So, what’s the difference between hotwifing and swinging? How do each of these work in practice? And which one might be the right fit for you?
Let’s explore the erotic divide between hotwifing and swinging, and find out what makes both types of open relationships so electrifying....READ MORE.
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
CARNIVALE
Marbella, Spain
Saturday, 14th March, 2026 Exciting Carnaval themed party at Wicked Club Marbella!!
Couples only Event! Looking for an unforgettable night of fun, connection, and adventure? Join us at Wicked Club for our exclusive Carnival-themed party, where open-minded people come together for an evening of thrilling experiences in a safe, judgment-free environment. Whether you're looking to explore your fantasies, meet new people, or simply enjoy a night out with like-minded individuals, our swingers club offers the perfect setting. This event is open to all, from first-timers to seasoned lifestyle enthusiasts, with exciting themes to spark conversation and create an atmosphere of playful seduction. Enjoy the sexy, vibrant atmosphere with themed décor, live DJ sets, dance floors, private lounges, and sensual play spaces designed to help you relax and indulge. Luxury Play Spaces: Experience our private, upscale play areas designed for comfort and intimacy. Dress Code Encouraged: Dress to impress and fit the theme, or come as you are and enjoy the party atmosphere.
Don't miss out on a night full of erotic excitement and unforgettable memories at Wicked Club. Whether you're curious or ready to dive in, this is the perfect opportunity to embrace your desires. COME EARLY AND ENJOY OUR CANDLELIGHT DINNER: We offer early dinner from 21:00 for the convenient price of €25 per person includes entree + main course + glass of wine/beer/soft Limited spots, so please message us to reserve your table at +34 697 935 224 Location: Wicked Château | Ctra de Cadiz, N-340, Urb. Pinomar, KM 189, Marbella 20604 Please help us prepare for your visit and not waste time at the door by registering online for your membership card. LIMITED AVAILABILITY, BUY TICKET ONLINE OR GET ON THE GUESTLIST TODAY!
SDC Couples Weekend
London, UK
13th & 14th March, 2026 Couples & Single Ladies Only
No Single Gents or TVs, no exceptions NOW! Every 2nd Friday & Saturday of the month
Friday 9pm-1:30am (Last Entry Midnight)
Saturday 9pm-2:00am (Last Entry Midnight) This party is ideal for Newbie Couples & Ladies WE HAVE TEAMED UP WITH SDC, TO BRING YOU THE CHANCE TO WIN FREE SDC MEMBERSHIPS.
EVERY MONTH
WE ARE GIVING AWAY ONE 6 MONTH MEMBERSHIP
WORTH £85 to The sexiest dressed Single Lady on Saturday.
ONE YEARLY MEMBERSHIP WORTH £125 to the sexiest dressed Couple on Saturday
ONE LIFETIME MEMBERSHIP
WORTH A WHOPPING £240 to the sexiest dressed Couple with a Weekend Pass
To win dress as you would normally, and well choose the sexiest, most striking, or original outfits! Judges: Me, myself and I, Jan, a guest, staff member, or both Popes, if available, Chat GPT said no apostrophe in Popes!
St Pattys Party For Couples and Females
Las Vegas, NV
Saturday, March 14th, 2026 Couples/Females Only Join Us Every Friday & Saturday Night At The PlayhouseLV Ultra Lounge and Saturday & Sunday At PlayhouseLV's Pool Complex We Host The Sexiest Most Exclusive Lifestyle Events in Las Vegas. This is Where the Sexy Play. We require ALL first-time guests to be registered and vetted by our board of members on our website (PlayhouseLV.com ). Everyone can apply but not all will be approved. Everyone must buy a ticket on our site to attend any event. Walk-ins will be turned away. Come Get Together With The Hottest Lifestyle Couples and Females In Las Vegas. All Our Guests Are Hand Picked, Just Like All Our Events! We Have Event Flyers All Over So Don't Worry If You Don't See Anyone On This List Besides You. You Will Not Be The Only One There.
A Speed Connection Soiree for Couples
Chicago, IL
Sunday, March 15th, 2026 from 4:30 pm to 7:30 pm Step into the emerald glow at Dearly Beloved. A sophisticated speed connection soiree for ENM couples. Meet your match in Chicago. The Art of Getting Lucky: A Speed Connection Soiree for Couples
Is luck a matter of chance, or a matter of choice? On Sunday, March 15th, step away from the digital noise and into a world where serendipity is designed, and connection is an art form. Birds of a Feather invites you and your partner to an exclusive social experience at the darkly romantic and avant-garde Dearly Beloved. Forget the traditional, resume-style "dating" rounds. This is a rhythmic exchange of energy. A vibrant afternoon of emerald-hued cocktails, golden laughter, and the electric thrill of meeting your next favorite pair. Whether you are seeking new play partners, a flourishing community, or a sudden spark of synergy, the atmosphere is perfectly set for discovery. The Atmosphere of Connection
Our soiree is designed for the modern couple exploring the expansive world of ENM. Whether you identify as Polyamorous, Open, Swingers, Monogamish, or Kinksters, you’ll find a diverse community sharing a singular spirit of openness and ethical play. Bespoke Speed Connection: A structured, high-energy format (typically 20 rounds of 5-minute sparks) designed to bypass the small talk and find the "spark." The Follow-Up: No awkward rejections. Simply mark your tracker, and we’ll handle the "serendipity." If the feeling is mutual, we’ll facilitate the introduction post-event so your connection can flourish.
Tickets and additional details available HERE
Electric Pleasures
Conyers, GA
Friday - Sunday, March 20 - 22, 2026 Arrive, settle in, and ease into the Electric Pleasures weekend with afternoon Meet & Greets and DJ's spinning electric beats. Mingle with new friends, reconnect with familiar faces, and spark the kind of chemistry that will carry into the evening's festivities. Expect warm vibes, casual conversation, and an inviting atmosphere designed to help everyone feel welcome from the very first moment. **FRIDAY NIGHT: Kobalt Currents After Dark**
Ignite the flames of the phoenix this weekend in a current of neon energy while immersing yourself in waves of cobalt light, pulsing beats, and the magnetic glow of Atlanta's skyline. Dress Vibe: Festival wear inspired by electrical currents - cobalt blues, bright whites, and glowing accents. **SATURDAY DAY: Magenta Flame Rising**
Spend your Saturday enjoying a full lineup of music & fun at the hotel. Lounge with new friends, dance to our all day DJ Lineup, and keep the energy flowing as everyone gears up for the big night.
Later, embark on the Electric Pleasures Room Crawl, where participating hosts transform their rooms into themed micro-party experiences. Sip, sample, explore, and enjoy each unique space as you make your way through a playful, social tour filled with music, laughs, and surprises. **SATURDAY NIGHT: Magenta Flame After Dark**
Rise up with the fire of the phoenix for our final night of Electric Pleasures. Feel the heat of the magenta sky while you dance the night away embracing the passion, power, and rebirth energy that lives in us all. Dress Vibe: Festival wear inspired by the flames of the phoenix - flaming oranges, magical magentas, and fiery blue accents. Event and Check-In Details:
Check-In is 3PM Friday -
Check-Out is 11AM Sunday ALL Guests MUST provide a credit card at the registration desk for incidentals. This event is BYOB!
Swinging in the Rain
Birmingham, AL
Saturday, March 28th, 2026 NOT ABOUT VANILLA PARTIES
Let the rain pour… we’ll make it steam. PHONE/ TEXT 334-318-6399
EMAIL info@notaboutvanilla.com Presents an Exclusive, Adults-Only Indulgence
Birmingham, Alabama — The Magic City Private address revealed upon ticket confirmation This is not your typical party. This is a private playground for the bold, the curious, and the unapologetically adventurous. Whether you're new to the lifestyle, seasoned in your desires, or craving a taste of something forbidden… This night was designed to awaken you. A hand-selected mix of couples, captivating ladies, and a limited number of confident single gentlemen will take over an entire apartment property transformed into a sensual escape featuring: Seductively themed rooms
Massage tables ready for wandering hands
An adult swing waiting to be tested
Pulse-pounding music
Dark corners, soft lighting, and endless temptation Ladies… Indulge Yourself
Slip into our ladies only private dressing room & explore the Mystery Closet — a tantalizing collection of playful, provocative pieces you can borrow anytime you’re ready to turn heads… or drop jaws. Switch it up. Turn it up. Own the room. Our Philosophy
NAV PARTIES is about raw chemistry.
Magnetic connections. Unforgettable memories made after midnight. With the entire property reserved exclusively for us, you’re free to explore, connect, and let your fantasies stretch their legs — all in a respectful, open environment where desire leads the way.