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SDC Feature Spotlight

Live Cams!

Check out the SDC Live Cams! For those that love to share their sexy side, this one's for you. Broadcast live to hundreds of SDC members right now!  

Just click on Live Cam on the side menu to see the current shows going on or click the Start Streaming button to broadcast your own!  Take advantage of the record option, it saves directly to your videos and adds more sexy content to your profile!

SDC Feature Update

Here are the latest improvements over the last month:

SDC Contests

Congratulations to FUN4US121 for winning the Sexy in Nature Photo Contest and to GAREN for winning A Very Kinky Video Contest!

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings & Bijoux Indiscrets.

Click the links below to access, enter or vote for the latest contests:

New - Assume the Position Video Contest! New - Shorts Skirts No Undies Photo Contest! Voting Underway - Nudist Adventures Writing Contest

SDC Shop

Personalize your T-shirt, Hoody or Hoodie with zipper! 

Hooded mens and ladies sweaters with brushed fleece on the inside and contrast hood. The embroidered logo will give it an extra chic look. Optionally embroidered with SDC logo without letters (small or large), SDC logo with letters and/or (profile)name.

Do you prefer something lighter? Choose our T-shirt!

Shop now!

Ask An Expert: Get Swingers Advice on SDC

“What's the best way to find new playmates?”

“How do I bring up my cuckolding fantasies to my wife?”

“Should we be using condoms during blowjobs at play parties?”
If you have questions about sex and relationships, we have answers!

Get advice about hot topics like the swinger lifestyle, hotwifing, open relationships, BDSM & kink, sexual health tips, and more from our experts.

As our team answers more questions, we’ll put up the answers on the Q&A page.

Check out our Q&A section for some recent questions, or ask our experts!

You’re Invited to ASN Awards & After-Party on SDC

The ASN Awards show has been rescheduled to November 6th at 8 PM ET.

So, if you haven’t RSVPed yet, you can still join the guestlist for our LIVE virtual Watch Party on SDC.com and find out which of your favorite lifestylers will take home the trophies!

Right after the awards show, join the exclusive awards after-party in our SDC chatroom, where you can stream live and share pics with other members, award winners and nominees.

Add yourself to the Watch Party guest list here.


Erotic Depot - Where Pleasure Begins

One of the largest selections of Adult Novelty, Couple Play, Clothing and Toys online.  Let us help make all your fantasies cum true. 

Get off even harder with a 15% Discount for your first order using code SDC. Order Today!

Swinging 101 Series: Get Exclusive Free Access!

Want to ease into the open lifestyle with smooth confidence?

Join Lexi Sylver, sex, relationship and swinging coach and educator, for Season 3 of her LIVE Swinging 101 webinar series!

These events are FREE exclusively for SDC members. Limited space is available, so reserve your free tickets today.

How to Create a Sexy Dating Profile

Oct 5 @ 8 PM ET

Single Men in the Lifestyle

Oct 19 @ 8 PM ET

WTF To Do When Swinging Goes Wrong

Nov 2 @ 8 PM ET

Can’t make these dates? Your ticket also includes access to the video replay.

Learn more about Swinging 101 and Lexi Sylver here.

A Winter Wonderland Awaits!

Absolutely nothing is more exciting than an active lifestyle holiday on and off powdered slopes! Après-Ski parties, sunny terraces in a picturesque resort town, a hydrotherapy pool, playshops, hot playroom, sexy themed nights, this is where your dreams come alive!
With pricing starting at a low €1,799 you are in for an experience of a lifetime. With 250 fun-loving couples joining you for non-stop action and party, you simply can’t go wrong!

Book Today to Reserve your Spot!


Mizzy Bender

Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won’t want to miss.

Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded people to love and support one another.

Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at LS events across the US. Follow the journey to see where she goes next!

Check out Mizzy’s podcasts and learn more about Mizzy here.