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SDC Feature Spotlight
Live Cams!
Check out the SDC Live Cams! For those that love to share their sexy side, this one's for you. Broadcast live to hundreds of SDC members right now!
Just click on Live Cam on the side menu to see the current shows going on or click the Start Streaming button to broadcast your own! Take advantage of the record option, it saves directly to your videos and adds more sexy content to your profile!
SDC Feature Update
Here are the latest improvements over the last month:
For app users we have added more content to the feed for new members/sign ups. Coming in our next app update.
SDC Contests
Congratulations to FUN4US121 for winning the Sexy in Nature Photo Contest and to GAREN for winning A Very Kinky Video Contest!
Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings & Bijoux Indiscrets.
Click the links below to access, enter or vote for the latest contests:
New - Assume the Position Video Contest! New - Shorts Skirts No Undies Photo Contest! Voting Underway - Nudist Adventures Writing Contest
SDC Shop
Personalize your T-shirt, Hoody or Hoodie with zipper!
Hooded mens and ladies sweaters with brushed fleece on the inside and contrast hood. The embroidered logo will give it an extra chic look. Optionally embroidered with SDC logo without letters (small or large), SDC logo with letters and/or (profile)name.
Do you prefer something lighter? Choose our T-shirt!
Ask An Expert: Get Swingers Advice on SDC
“What's the best way to find new playmates?”
“How do I bring up my cuckolding fantasies to my wife?”
“Should we be using condoms during blowjobs at play parties?”
If you have questions about sex and relationships, we have answers!
Get advice about hot topics like the swinger lifestyle, hotwifing, open relationships, BDSM & kink, sexual health tips, and more from our experts.
As our team answers more questions, we’ll put up the answers on the Q&A page.
You’re Invited to ASN Awards & After-Party on SDC
The ASN Awards show has been rescheduled to November 6th at 8 PM ET.
So, if you haven’t RSVPed yet, you can still join the guestlist for our LIVE virtual Watch Party on SDC.com and find out which of your favorite lifestylers will take home the trophies!
Right after the awards show, join the exclusive awards after-party in our SDC chatroom, where you can stream live and share pics with other members, award winners and nominees.
Add yourself to the Watch Party guest list here.PARTNER CONTENT
Erotic Depot - Where Pleasure Begins
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Swinging 101 Series: Get Exclusive Free Access!
Want to ease into the open lifestyle with smooth confidence?
Join Lexi Sylver, sex, relationship and swinging coach and educator, for Season 3 of her LIVE Swinging 101 webinar series!
These events are FREE exclusively for SDC members. Limited space is available, so reserve your free tickets today.
How to Create a Sexy Dating Profile
Oct 5 @ 8 PM ET
Single Men in the Lifestyle
Oct 19 @ 8 PM ET
WTF To Do When Swinging Goes Wrong
Nov 2 @ 8 PM ET
Can’t make these dates? Your ticket also includes access to the video replay.
A Winter Wonderland Awaits!
With pricing starting at a low €1,799 you are in for an experience of a lifetime. With 250 fun-loving couples joining you for non-stop action and party, you simply can’t go wrong!
Book Today to Reserve your Spot!
FEATURED EXPERT
Mizzy Bender
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success so this is one show you won’t want to miss.
Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy's passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded people to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at LS events across the US. Follow the journey to see where she goes next!
Check out Mizzy’s podcasts and learn more about Mizzy here.
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Not Exactly the "Vanilla" Couple We Thought!
The following story was submitted by an SDC member to the “My First Big Cock” Erotic Writing Contest. Sign up today to submit your own swinger stories.
This is the story of the first time my wife ever had sex with another man while I watched and joined in. I know the story is a bit long, but I wanted to give you the sense that “you were there.” I also hope that many people, who are just thinking about trying something like this, might be able to relate to how we felt as we went through this, and maybe they can gain some courage from our experience to try this for themselves.
Immerse yourself in Part 2: Wet With Anticipation, and the finale, Part 3: She Becomes a Hotwife. ...READ MORE
PARTIES AROUND THE WORLD
FANTASY FEST presents Cult Classics & Cartoon Chaos
Oct 21st - 30th, 2022 Key West, FL
Please see the website for ALL Details. www.FantasyFest.com
If you intend on attending, please add your profile to the SDC Guest List. Thank you and enjoy!
Friday Halloween Party @ EDEN DFW
Friday, October 28th, 2022 Euless, TX
Come SEXY, Come SCARY Or Just Come
ADMISSION: Couples - $65 Member Couples - $40 Single Gals - $25 Single Guys - $100
EdenClubs.com 11050 S Pipeline Road Euless, TX. 76040
EdenClubs.com/dallas-fortworth
All Hallow's Eve Weekend Soiree
Oct 28th - 30th, 2022 Baytown, TX
Step into a medieval world as the mansion is transformed into a setting of the gothic macabre. Beguiling vamps, wicked enchantresses, naughty necromancers, and lords of malevolence will charm, disarm, and disrobe for the spectacle and delight of all.
As our sinful appetites are indulged at the tables set forth, the iniquitous desires within shall rise as the witching hour approaches. Join us for a weekend of NeoROMANTIC mystery. Sexy, elegant, mysterious, costumes with a flair of dangerous sex appeal will fill the mansion. The candelabras will light our ways as we traverse the fog and explore the creatures to be found on this night.
Don't wait and be among those left wishing to be inside, make your reservations for this decadent event now. www.SwanMansion.life
Horns of Hell Halloween Party at Caliente Resort
Saturday, October 29th, 2022 Land O Lakes, FL 7pm
One of the biggest parties you’ve been waiting for ALL YEAR will be HORN-Y! Caliente Resort presents Horns of Hell, the resort's official Halloween party. NoFilter takes the stage at 9 PM with a special guest horn section! A limited buffet will be served for all guests. You DEFINITELY don’t want to miss this party.
Tickets can be purchased here.
Combo Halloween/NYE tickets can be purchased here.
Contact us for Day and Evening Passes or to Book a Room Overnight Caliente Club & Resorts 21240 Gran Via Blvd Land O Lakes FL 34637 813-996-3700 x0
Halloween at THE LOFT NYC
Saturday, October 29th, 2022 Brooklyn, NY 9pm - 4am
Join NYs cream of the crop in a naughty, sexy scary night. This is going to be a treat, erotic, we would like to take you into the fantasy world that we created for the night.
Great location Hottest Crowd. Stylish facilities Live DJs Plenty of street parking Door open at 10 pm www.Theloftesl.com for guidance.
Annual Penthouse Halloween Ball
Saturday, 29th October 2022 Dunstable, UK At Penthouse we take Halloween VERY seriously, it's our favourite holiday and we won't cut corners on making it an absolute freak-fest and night of deliciously dark debauchery.
So, sharpen your claws, practice your bedroom magic and mix up your love potions - HALLOWEEN IS BACK AT PENTHOUSE PLAYROOMS
Join us for a creepy cocktail and then see where the darkness leads you. Penthouse is perfect for people new to the alternative lifestyle and being in costume takes the edge off.
Timings: 8pm - 4am Penthouse Members-Only Dirty Hour (2 for 1 Cocktails) 8pm - 9pm Doors close at 1am Bar closes at 3am STRICTLY 21+ ONLY DO NOT BRING YOUR OWN DRINKS ZERO DRUG TOLERANCE
*You will be asked to show your photo ID and you may be subjected to a bag search*
Penthouse is pure luxury! Imagine your favourite premium nightclub combined with a whole labyrinth of erotic playrooms. Hit the dance floor to our DJ's mix of the sexiest club bangers. Grind on our pole, or sip on a cocktail and meet other like-minded hedonistic couples and singles. Relax, chat, laugh and make new friends. Then if the mood takes you it's just a few steps to a whole world of hedonism.
Take a sultry wander through our dark maze of playrooms, lounges and vintage velvet porn cinema. Perfect for those new or shy, with multiple private rooms and secret viewing points. Feeling brave? Explore your kinky side and visit the open, exhibitionist orgy room, or bespoke BDSM dungeons, St. Andrews Cross, swings, restraint bed and more…just don’t get caught by our dungeon master. www.penthouseplayrooms.com
Fright Night - Halloween Party
Saturday, 29th October 2022 London, UK
FRIGHT NIGHT - HALLOWEEN AT LE BOUDOIR BE YOUR GHOULISH BEST AND VAMP UP THE SEXY VAMPIRE LOOK
SATURDAYS ARE COUPLES & LADIES ONLY PARTY NIGHTS
Le Boudoir is the UK's smartest lifestyle venue, where a world of naughtiness, sexual liberation, and debauchery hides in every corner. With a fully licensed bar and sexy tunes, you can go wild with abandon across 3 floors of stylish and playful surroundings.
Central London location Licensed cocktail bar with top brand spirits, wines, prosecco and champagnes Mezzanine with seating and a view of the whole bar Our vaulted ceiling fetish room with couples play cubicles, glory holes, swing, spanking bench, St Andrew’s cross, restraints & more Upstairs - the loft - a seductive little play space with mirrored ceiling The group room, an open plan playroom with large beds and chaise 3 large private playrooms, including the infamous headmaster’s room