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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 1
Learn the relationship foundations and dynamics to leave behind with monogamy if you're considering ethical non-monogamy.
Monogamous relationships and ethically non-monogamous relationships have different foundations and dynamics. While some characteristics may be applicable to both, there are certain aspects that may not transition well from monogamy to ethical non-monogamy due to the nature of each relationship style.
Exclusive Commitment: Monogamous relationships often involve an exclusive commitment to one partner. In ethical non-monogamy, the commitment may be spread across multiple partners, and exclusivity is not a primary factor. Transitioning from an exclusive commitment mindset to non-monogamy might lead to challenges in managing jealousy and insecurity.
Up next in the series: Part 2, Part 3, Part 4, Part 5, and Part 6.
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Learn how coaching can help individuals and couples embark on a journey of self-discovery, build stronger connections, and cultivate healthier ENM relationships.
Many relationship therapists are trained in monogamy-based frameworks — which means when non-monogamous clients seek support, they often get advice that does more harm than good.