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Featured Resource: SDC Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide
John & Jackie Melfi of Colette lifestyle clubs have made a Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide to help you be as prepared as possible so that you can have an amazing time, whether you’ve never been to one before or are a seasoned pro.
A lifestyle club is one of the best places outside of SDC to meet other like-minded people, BUT don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out at the club into a complete DISASTER.
John & Jackie Melfi — educators, and owner-operators of Colette lifestyle clubs — have made a Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide to help you be as prepared as possible so that you can have an amazing time, whether you’ve never been to a lifestyle club before or are a seasoned pro.
Here are some things you'll learn inside the guide:
- What a lifestyle club is (and isn't)
- Who goes to a lifestyle club and if it's right for you too
- All the things you and your partner should talk about BEFORE going
- What to do in certain scenarios and the logistics of it all
- The common club rules
- How to get into a lifestyle club
- What to wear (dress code)
- How to get comfortable inside the club and ways to meet others
- What to do AFTER your club visit (one of my favorites)
- And more!
John and Jackie Melfi are swingers in an open relationship. Together they are the driving force behind coletteclubs.com, a swingers' club brand with locations in Dallas, New Orleans, Houston, and Austin. John has been in the swinger club industry for 20 years, and when he and Jackie met, they expanded the business in order to reach and educate more couples and singles curious about the lifestyle. Their first venture together was the award winning lifestyle blog, Openlove101.com. Today this swinging powerhouse coach couples on the lifestyle, provide video content, blog weekly on the topic and have been the recipients of numerous industry awards. Visit openlove101.com to sign up for their FREE newsletter and receive updates on their videos and articles.SHOW MORE ...
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