Featured Resource: SDC Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide
John & Jackie Melfi of Colette lifestyle clubs have made a Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide to help you be as prepared as possible so that you can have an amazing time, whether you’ve never been to one before or are a seasoned pro.
A lifestyle club is one of the best places outside of SDC to meet other like-minded people, BUT don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out at the club into a complete DISASTER.
John & Jackie Melfi — educators, and owner-operators of Colette lifestyle clubs — have made a Newbie Lifestyle Club Guide to help you be as prepared as possible so that you can have an amazing time, whether you’ve never been to a lifestyle club before or are a seasoned pro.
Here are some things you'll learn inside the guide:
- What a lifestyle club is (and isn't)
- Who goes to a lifestyle club and if it's right for you too
- All the things you and your partner should talk about BEFORE going
- What to do in certain scenarios and the logistics of it all
- The common club rules
- How to get into a lifestyle club
- What to wear (dress code)
- How to get comfortable inside the club and ways to meet others
- What to do AFTER your club visit (one of my favorites)
- And more!
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URBREEDINGBULL
Jan 22, 2020
In new to SDC but not new to meeting couples with hotwives. Guides like the one above helped me start seeing success when I was new.
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TOPHAT1957
Jan 21, 2020
Good day to all. Reading these numerous articles as a newbie is actually one of the best things I have done so far. I suggest if any newbies are to read and educate before moving on. Very good information and certainly is helping me to get involved in this LS. Keep them coming
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