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Openlove 101: When Swinging Doesn't Go as Planned

Sometimes it's hard to get things going when you're playing with another couple, and John and Jackie don't just mean connection-wise.

So, what do you do when you’re playing with another couple and it doesn’t go as planned for the guy in the body-part department? When it’s slow going for a male partner to get hard, or maintain his physical "enthusiasm" throughout the session.

Discover what John and Jackie are talking about in this installment of Openlove 101!

Openlove 101

John and Jackie Melfi are swingers in an open relationship. Together they are the driving force behind, a swingers' club brand with locations in Dallas, New Orleans, Houston, and Austin. John has been in the swinger club industry for 20 years, and when he and Jackie met, they expanded the business in order to reach and educate more couples and singles curious about the lifestyle. Their first venture together was the award winning lifestyle blog, Today this swinging powerhouse coach couples on the lifestyle, provide video content, blog weekly on the topic and have been the recipients of numerous industry awards. Visit to sign up for their FREE newsletter and receive updates on their videos and articles.
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