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Cap d'Agde Desires, What’s in the Box, and How to Small Talk

blue hat and a white and black striped bikini in the sand
blue hat and a white and black striped bikini in the sand
Do you talk about your desires before going to a swingers club or swingers event? In this episode, Cate and Darrell share what they hope for at Cap d'Agde, a swingers mecca in France.

Cate’s fresh back from Miami (just her this time!), and while we only touch on that wild weekend, we’re diving deep into what’s really heating things up: our return to Cap d’Agde in 2025, a brand new sex toy, and Darrell’s spicy fantasy.

In this episode, Darrell receives a mystery box that leaves Cate both suspicious and very curious. Spoiler alert: it’s a new toy — but it’s not one we’ve ever used before. Unboxing it live kicks off a conversation about impulse sexy buys, techy pleasure, and how this toy might play into fantasy fulfillment.

We’re also answering a great listener question from a hotwife couple in New Zealand: How do you make small talk in the lifestyle when talking about work and kids feels out of place? From flirting in loud clubs to deep connection at weekend events, we’ve got practical tips, sexy one-liners, and a few hilarious fails to share.

And finally — we’re going back to the Naked City! Cap d’Agde 2025 is on the horizon, and we’re already fantasizing about beachside play, group massages, and balcony sex in the hot Mediterranean sun. This isn’t just a trip — it’s a sexual state of mind.

What You’ll Hear in this Episode:

  • Mystery Box Reveal: Darrell’s new toy arrives, and Cate’s imagination runs wild

  • Lifestyle Small Talk: Flirty questions, fun energy, and how to connect without asking about someone’s 9–5

  • Cap d’Agde Desires: Why we’re going back and what (or who) we want to do when we get there

  • Darrell’s Fantasy: How we're fulfilling it without putting anyone at risk

  • Be a Better Swinger Tips: Mindset matters — whether it’s packing for Cap or chatting up couples at a club

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