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The Best Sex Toys for Couples
Sex tech keeps churning out amazing toys that take pleasure to new levels, and MysteryVibe’s collection is on my must-have list this holiday season. Here’s why!

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Image of SDC on Ibiza 2021 Swingers Vacation Entertainment Performers
Ever Wonder What an SDC Takeover Looks Like? Watch This!
What does it look like when SDC and our swinging lifestyle vacationers take over an island hotel?

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The Only Vibrator for Men Designed with Her in Mind
Discover the award-winning couples sex toy that’s wearable, adaptable, and powerfully pleasurable for him AND her!


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New Book on Open Relationships
This new book could save your open relationship! Available on Amazon now!

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Kitty Chambliss Leigh Montavon Interview Sex Relationships Coach Queer Next Door NonMonogamy Kink
Leigh Montavon, Holistic Sex and Relationship Coach
Kitty's excited to share her latest podcast interview with Leigh Montavon, Holistic Sex and Relationship Coach and co-host of the Queers Next Door podcast.

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Swingers on a double date at a restaurant
Swinging 101: Virtual Dating Tips, Etiquette & More!
Learn how to create a sexy dating profile, the best ways to seduce swingers, what to do when swinging goes wrong, and more!


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Hysteria: Ariel Andrews' Confessions of The Girl Next Door
Ariel Andrews talks about being "dickpressed" in this cheeky modern take on hysteria.

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Hotwives' Club: Size Queens in the Hotwife Lifestyle
Brenna from Front Porch Swingers & Sex on Your Terms shares some insight on size queens within hotwifing communities.

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No Purchase Necessary: Building a Low-Cost Sex Toy Arsenal
Casey Carter shares ideas for how to build an arsenal of sex toys for little to no money.


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SDC Dragonfly Pure Orgasmic Love Non Monogamy Naughty Nawlins
Bonus: My Non-Monogamy @ Naughty N'awlins
Who brought it up first, and what does yours look like?

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How to Keep Role-Play Spicy — Even When It’s Virtual
Professional sex worker Alice Little shares her kinky tips for virtual role play.

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Sexual Freedom is Intrinsically Linked to Social Justice
Sex educator Luna Matatas explains how sexual expression, access, and more are tied to privilege and other societal influences in this thought-provoking piece.


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Blindfolded in a Swingers Club
From the moment they left the house, he blindfolded her. She had no idea what sensory indulgences lie ahead at the lifestyle club.

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Couples’ Guide to Ultimate Anal & P-Spot Play with a Vibrator
Never tried anal play or want to take it to the next level? You need to try this super bendy finger-like vibrator!

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Too Hot? Try Temperature Play
Too hot? Too cold? Let Lexi introduce you to temperature play!


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Secrets Hideaway: Uncovered!
Ready to let your inhibitions go and explore your sexual side?

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Binding Love in a Winding Rope
An excerpt from the book OPEN: Conversations for People Considering an Open Relationship. A story of public bondage and belonging.

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My First Kinky Trio
She found the kinky couple to take her threesomes to levels she didn’t even know she craved.


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My First Threesome Winning Story: The Blindfold
Read SDC’s top-voted threesome member story and see why this couple’s sensory thrill earned them the winning spot.

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The Art of AlexOkami
Here's a glimpse of illustrations by German pin-up, nude, and fetish freelance artist AlexOkami, as featured in ASN Lifestyle Magazine and shared with us here at SDC.com!

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Tub Time
They washed away the stress as he gave her the deep, sensory release she so craved.


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Mind-Blowing Gangbang
Hannah sought more freeing sexual experiences and found them — and so much more — at a swingers club.

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Dark Tantra
Have you ever been curious about the spiritual side of BDSM and Tantra? Yes, there is a spiritual connection with both. We will be exploring them in Dark Tantra.

Lexi Sylver Mating-Season 1st Anniversary Virtual Party
Lexi Sylver Mating-Season 1st Anniversary Virtual Party
Celebrating 1 Year of Mating Season: Join My Virtual Party!
Get Lexual with swinger and author Lexi Sylver to celebrate the first anniversary of her erotic book, Mating Season! Discover how you can join the Lexuality.