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Sexual Fantasies: Taboo, Popular, and Surprising Scenarios

Intimate Lesbian Couple Bed Sexual Fantasies Taboo Lexi Sylver SDC
Intimate Lesbian Couple Bed Sexual Fantasies Taboo Lexi Sylver SDC

Do you want to know what kinds of filthy things that people fantasize about?

Welcome back to my playground, my Lexual fiends and friends.

Do you want to know what kinds of filthy things that people fantasize about?

Of course you do, you dirty perverts! I know I do!

In the spirit of understanding more about human sexuality and human behavior, I often visit Dr. Justin Lehmiller’s blog, Sex, and Psychology, to see what’s hot and trending in the world of SEX. There is so much to know about our sexuality and I am fascinated by all the studies and surveys that Dr. Lehmiller has conducted.

Dr. Lehmiller is also the author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life, which is definitely a must-read, especially for those of us who are working in the sexuality field.

That’s why I invited him onto my podcast, so we can finally talk more in-depth about the results of one of his surveys about sexual fantasies.

In this podcast, we talk about the surprising real-life findings from the surveys he’s done with people who have revealed their sexual fantasies.

We have a vivid conversation about the most common / popular sexual fantasies that people reported having, and the gender and sexual orientation differences in the types and frequencies of sexual fantasies.

Dr. Lehmiller tells us all about the sexual fantasies that people consider to be taboo but are actually normal, like ravishment (aka forced sex) fantasies and cuckolding fantasies, and explains why people might have these kinds of fantasies. (Spoiler alert: a high number of women reported having more kink / BDSM fantasies, and there’s a parallel there between BDSM and the fantasy of being ravished).

We also explore how having an active sexual imagination can be beneficial to your mental health, and what do to if you’re having unwanted sexual fantasies.

So listen to this hot new podcast episode in the player above!

Until next time, Stay Lexual!


Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. As an entrepreneur, podcaster, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, and her personal blog. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality. Find out more at
  • Anonymous
Oct 17, 2020
Have lived a taboo for yes now and I can’t stop.