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Swingers on a double date at a restaurant
Swinging 101: Virtual Dating Tips, Etiquette & More!
Learn how to create a sexy dating profile, the best ways to seduce swingers, what to do when swinging goes wrong, and more!


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Hysteria: Ariel Andrews' Confessions of The Girl Next Door
Ariel Andrews talks about being "dickpressed" in this cheeky modern take on hysteria.

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Allen's Corner: Sexy Staycation with Mr & Mrs O
Allen tells the hot tale of he and Brandy's full swap hotel room staycation with Mr & Mrs O.

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No Purchase Necessary: Building a Low-Cost Sex Toy Arsenal
Casey Carter shares ideas for how to build an arsenal of sex toys for little to no money.


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Sexual Freedom is Intrinsically Linked to Social Justice
Sex educator Luna Matatas explains how sexual expression, access, and more are tied to privilege and other societal influences in this thought-provoking piece.

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How to Keep Role-Play Spicy — Even When It’s Virtual
Professional sex worker Alice Little shares her kinky tips for virtual role play.

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Blindfolded in a Swingers Club
From the moment they left the house, he blindfolded her. She had no idea what sensory indulgences lie ahead at the lifestyle club.


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Couples’ Guide to Ultimate Anal & P-Spot Play with a Vibrator
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SDC Bella Jase 4OURPLAY Podcast Swingers Lifestyle Stories Bisexual Women Dildo
2 Girls 1 Dildo: 4OURPLAY Podcast Ep 23
We discuss a one of our favorite stories and all its hot details!

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Too Hot? Try Temperature Play
Too hot? Too cold? Let Lexi introduce you to temperature play!


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SDC Bella Jase 4OURPLAY Podcast Swingers Lifestyle Advice Tips Questions FAQs
Surprising Sexual Discoveries & More Q&A #2: 4OURPLAY Ep 20
We answer listener questions about surprising sexual discoveries and swinger gift etiquette!

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SDC Bella Jase 4OURPLAY Podcast Swingers Lifestyle Orgy
A Perfect Orgy: 4OURPLAY Podcast Episode 19
We talk about the story of a perfect orgy!

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My First Threesome Winning Story: The Blindfold
Read SDC’s top-voted threesome member story and see why this couple’s sensory thrill earned them the winning spot.


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Friends Becumming FRIENDS
This July 4th weekend went from wholesome outdoor time with friends to an hours-long, orgasm-filled threesome that spangled everyone's banners!

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My First Kinky Trio
She found the kinky couple to take her threesomes to levels she didn’t even know she craved.

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My First Successful Threesome
After two MFMs that didn’t work out, she finally had an afternoon of lustfully intense sex with two men. One was her lover, and the other she found on a lifestyle site.


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4 Lube Myths Debunked
Lexi Sylver breaks down the 4 biggest myths about lube and shares her tips on living your slipperiest, most Lexual, and pleasurable sex life.

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SDC Bella Jase 4OURPLAY Podcast Swingers Lifestyle Soft Swap Strapon Bisexual
Soft Swap and Strap-On Fun: 4OURPLAY Podcast Episode 17
We talk about a great experience with soft swapping and Bella using a strap-on!


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Mind-Blowing Gangbang
Hannah sought more freeing sexual experiences and found them — and so much more — at a swingers club.

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Lexi Sylver Mating-Season 1st Anniversary Virtual Party
Celebrating 1 Year of Mating Season: Join My Virtual Party!
Get Lexual with swinger and author Lexi Sylver to celebrate the first anniversary of her erotic book, Mating Season! Discover how you can join the Lexuality.

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An Introduction to Swinging at Secrets Hideaway
This newbie couple decided to catch a glimpse of the world of swinging at a swing club and “just watch.” Let’s just say they ended up burying more than secrets...