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SDC Lifetime Membership Special!

If you’re not a Lifetime Member yet, don’t miss your chance! For the month of December, you only pay half, and in 30 days, you pay the second half. Once you become a Lifetime Member, you will never pay another membership fee on SDC!! (after Lifetime Upgrade is complete)

Benefits:

As a Lifetime Member, you will have full access to all of the great features with no restrictions. You will enjoy Gold Star status, connect with more couples, benefit from increased visibility (including the Online page), and get top-priority placement on private and public party guest lists. Searching by Lifetime Member is also part of our member search page.

This offer ends December 31st, so don’t miss out!

(Only valid for memberships paid within SDC.com — not paid within the app)


12 Days of Kinkmas Calendar

Duration: 12/12 to 12/24

Your holiday season just got sexier — and kinkier! 

We at SDC love to give our loyal members gifts, too.

Starting December 12, 2023, check out our Kinkmas calendar each day to reveal a new, exclusive promotion from one of our partners.  Open an offer each day and automatically be entered to win some fabulous prizes!

Let's celebrate 12 Days of Kinkmas together!


SDC Book Club

Welcome to the new SDC Book Club, where we feature exciting books recommended by lifestyle-related Authors, Educators, and even SDC Members.

This month, we present the following titles:

Proportional Revenge by David G Williamsson – Claim Your Free Copy Here

Incarcerated, broken, but unbowed — she's ready for her revenge. From tortured youth to a woman in control, Proportional Revenge is a thrilling story of brutal power, relentless retribution, and shadowy political intrigue that’s sure to leave you yearning for more.

Warning: Amazon has banned this book as it contains sensitive subject matter. It is intended for adult audiences and includes depictions of incest, explicit and graphic descriptions of mature sexual content, drug and alcohol use, as well as scenes of violence. Reader discretion is advised.

Her Guilty Confessions by René Moon – Purchase Here

Her Guilty Confessions is a collection of real women’s sexual fantasies from the Western world with its very open, liberating attitude, freedom of thought, action, and a vast array of lifestyle choices — especially when compared to some of the most religiously-oppressed countries in the world, where it is very literally illegal and potentially life-threatening to think outside of the conventional box, so to speak, due to possible religious fortitudes and cultural beliefs. BUT, personal sexual fantasy is every person's natural human right! Her Guilty Confessions allows the reader a very raw and candid insight into the world of female fantasy. I hope you, the reader, enjoys the book as much as I enjoyed writing it… What a ride!

Sex Was God's Idea by Dean Robertson – Purchase Here

A thought-provoking book: Sex Was God's Idea: A Scriptural Look at Sexuality

Well, this is clearly a convincing look at a subject that "differs in opinion from established religious dogma." Lust, marriage, sex, prostitution, concubines, a wandering eye, sin, fornication, church history, and other previously "lustful" taboo topics are bravely and carefully exposed in the light of Bible passages. This timely work is a scriptural look at long-held Christian doctrine that makes good sense. It will stretch your mind and may well bring peace to otherwise troubled and tormented souls. It is backed point by point by considerable scriptures without stretching it, and it may well leave you saying: "I have always suspected that." The author lays out clear, repeated biblical evidence after clear, repeated biblical evidence that the Christian world has rarely had the courage to look at and still not "throw the baby out with the bath water" on this topic. Dive into this well-presented book, and you may well be the recipient of the author's desire to "set men and women free from guilt and bondage" concerning sex and marriage.


SDC Contests

Congratulations to LADYLOVERS for winning the My Hot Body Art Photo Contest!

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resorts & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Bijoux Indiscrets, Swingers’ Paradise & René Moon.

Click the links below to access, enter, or VOTE for the latest contests:

New – Boobs and Baubles – Photo Contest
Voting Underway – My Juiciest Orgasm – Writing Contest
Voting Underway – Your Saucy Sex Tape – Video Contest

SDC Shop

Do you have our SDC merchandise? We have a fan, ideal for parties where it’s getting hot, hot, hot! Or, wear the sarong at the sauna or during your beach holiday. You can even order clothing through our shop, personalized with your profile name.
Check out our merch now!


Our BNB Service Shines Bright!

We are thrilled to share some exciting news about the success of our commission-free BNB service! Since the launch, we’ve already become a game-changer for all kinds of B&B owners on the site by enhancing their online presence — from what was once a small service box on their dating profile to a full page where they can showcase the personalities of their accommodations.
The positive feedback we’ve received reinforces our commitment to continually improving the service to meet hosts' needs and to provide potential guests with the best experiences. The team is, of course, still hard at work getting in touch with all those special BNBs out there that cater to our members, and we are nowhere near done, which is a good thing!

So many of your fellow members have awesome accommodations to share, too, which adds so much to our community as a whole! For those who are still thinking about hosting, know that you’ll enjoy significantly increased visibility, attracting more potential guests to explore and fall in love with what you offer. After all, it’s not just about attracting more guests; it’s about attracting the right guests who truly enjoy and appreciate the experiences you provide.
For those with short-term rental accommodations, if you haven’t joined us yet, now is the perfect time to experience the benefits of having a BNB business profile! Write to SDCBNB inside the site or email bnb@sdcmedia.com for more information.

PARTNER CONTENT

Tantra Tips for Hotter, Deeper Sex

Have you always been curious about tantra but don't know where to start?

If you want deep, fulfilling sex in a way you have never experienced before: keep reading…

Picture this: you can move from 5-second spasm orgasms towards different kinds of so-called “valley” orgasms that last literally for minutes.


Sounds good, right?!


Discover the sexy challenge that The New Tantra has devised for you and your partner to deepen your orgasms and connect in new ways with your partner’s body and your own.

PARTNER CONTENT

Her Guilty Confessions: An Interview with René Moon

Our SDC Media Director, Lexi Sylver, had the pleasure of having an exclusive interview with René Moon, the author of the new book, Her Guilty Confessions. 


The fantasies you’ll read in René Moon’s new book are raw, liberating, edgy, exciting, and above all, REAL, true stories from REAL, “everyday” women — just like René, and you (or for you gents reading this, your girlfriends and your wives)! 


In Lexi’s interview with René, they explored the types of fantasies you’ll find in her new book. They also chatted about the differences between women’s versus men’s sexual fantasies, how to normalize talking about fantasies and female sexuality, the multiple benefits of having fantasies, and much, much more.


Check out the exclusive interview here below to learn more about René Moon and her sizzling new bestseller-to-be.


PARTNER CONTENT

Sex Was God’s Idea: An Interview with Pastor Dean Robertson

“So I look at this whole swinging movement and I see God's handprints all the way through it. I really do.”

Lust, marriage, sex, and other taboo topics… What does the Bible have to say about them? 


Just ask Dean Robertson, a retired evangelical minister and the author of Sex Was God's Idea: An Honest Look At Biblical Sexuality and The Rightful Role of Women. 


With Sex Was God's Idea, Dean's mission was to "set men and women free from guilt and bondage" concerning sex and marriage, and he supports his perspectives with passages from the Bible. 


In this exclusive interview with our Media Director Lexi Sylver, Dean shared his views on marriage, lust, desire, the role of women, nudity, the swinger lifestyle, and much more. 


Read the interview here.

FEATURED EXPERT

Julieta Chiara: Sex, Kink, and Shibari Coach

As a passionate sex and kink coach, Julieta Chiara specializes in empowering both couples and singles to explore the realms of pleasure, confidence, and open sexual dynamics. With her expertise, she skillfully navigates the delicate terrain of BDSM, healthy kink exploration, and intimacy enhancement.


Julieta's unique approach creates a safe and exhilarating pathway for individuals and partners to delve into their desires, emphasizing the crucial elements of consent, communication, and uninhibited exploration. Her mastery extends beyond conventional boundaries as a Japanese-trained Shibari instructor, boasting a prestigious license from the esteemed master Hajime Kinoko.


Her transformative work hasn't gone unnoticed, as she's been prominently featured in publications such as Cosmopolitan, Women's Health, Men's Health, Mashable, and more. Julieta Chiara isn't just a coach — she's a beacon guiding you toward a fulfilling, confident, and liberated sexual journey. 


Dare to explore the heights of pleasure and intimacy under her expert guidance through personalized 1:1 coaching, courses, workshops, and juicy events!


Learn more about Julieta and check out her articles on SDC here.