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Happy New Year 2023!

SDC wishes you all a Happy & Healthy 2023! May all your sexy fantasies come true this year.

Kinkmas Ski Holiday Winner!

Congratulations to member HAPPYCOUPLE4851 for winning the SDC Sexy Ski 2023 Trip for 2! Thank you to all that participated in our Kinkmas 2022 Calendar.

If you missed our Kinkmas Calendar, look for our Sexy Valentine’s Calendar in February 2023.

SDC Contests

Congratulations to JAKEANDROBIN for winning the Kinkiest Sexy Party Writing Contest, K2VL for winning the Frightfully Sexy Photo Contest, and to ALL4H for winning the My Pretty Pussy Video Contest!

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Erotic Depot & Bijoux Indiscrets.

Click the links below to access, enter, or vote for the latest contests:

New - Sensual Setting Video Contest! Current - Black & White Photo Contest! Current - Ho-Ho-Horny Holiday Writing Contest!

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3 Orgasmic Must-Have Sex Toys for Sizzling Sex

Kick off the New Year by giving your relationship a spicy twist!

Shared pleasure is key to all healthy relationships, and it’s always trendy to try something new in the bedroom (and beyond). Novelty can infuse a whole new level of passion and excitement in your and your partner’s sex life and endure long after you emerge from between the sheets.

It’s easy to see why we love these couples’ sex toys from MysteryVibe, a renowned, award-winning sexual health and wellness company.
Once you discover the unique features for each of these sex toys, you’ll want to get your hands (and other body parts) on them, too!

Here are three of the hottest sex-cessories that will keep your bed and relationship warm all year 'round.

A Naughty Winter Event? Let’s Go!

Now that the festivities for the New Year are all done, a well-deserved holiday of total relaxation — where it’s all about sun and lifestyle fun — is right around the corner! What better way to ring in 2023? Best of all — it’s not too late to book!

The resort town of Sierra Nevada in the south of Spain is off the beaten path and is well-known for the most sunny days in the winter! We know you could use some of that by now! With lots of nice ski runs, snowboarding, and lovely terraces, there is plenty of stuff to experience!

So, why not join us for five blissfully naughty theme nights, the hottest parties with international DJs, free PlayShops, awesome Playrooms, a world-class spa and hydrotherapy pool, and loads of hotties with whom to enjoy it all?!

This sexy party is from January 15 – 20. Don’t miss it!



John & Angelique Luna – Sex Positive Me

On Sex Positive Me, we explore all aspects of sex and relationships, ranging from Fetishes and BDSM to Ethical Non-Monogamy and LGBTQ issues.

Sex Positive Me destigmatizes sexual practices and relationships while reconciling reality with myths & misconceptions.

Our goal is to educate, entertain, and advocate for sexual freedom. Our services include Podcasting, Workshops, Webinars, Tantra, and Sex & Relationship Coaching.

Listen to Sex Positive Me’s podcasts and watch their videos here on SDC.