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SDC Feature Update

NEW Lifetime Member Gold Star!

We have recently enhanced our Lifetime Membership status with a Gold Star symbol. 

Lifetime Members will benefit from increased visibility, including the online page, top priority placement on private and public party guest lists, and search by Lifetime Member has been added to our member search page.

We hope you enjoy our latest update.

Interesting Groups to Join!

There are close to 2500 interest groups within the SDC site, and we have highlighted a few below to show the diversity of our groups. If you are interested in finding out more, go to the Groups page and use the filter button to find what you are looking for.

Dirty Martini
Syn Chicago
Swinger Sailing
Exotic Cars
BDSM Lovers

Interested in creating your own group? Click Here to submit your group request.

SDC Contests

Congratulations to FOXYANDRHINO for winning the Nudist Adventures Writing Contest and to SEXXXY69 for winning the Short Skirts no Undies Photo Contest!

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings, Erotic Depot & Bijoux Indiscrets.

Click the links below to access, enter, or vote for the latest contests:

New - Frightfully Sexy Photo Contest! New - Kinkiest Halloween Sex Party Writing Contest! Voting Underway - Assume the Position Video Contest!

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You’re Invited to ASN Awards & After-Party on SDC

The ASN Awards show will be broadcast LIVE on SDC on Sunday, November 6th at 8 PM ET!

So, if you haven’t RSVPed yet, you can still join the guestlist for our LIVE Virtual Watch Party on SDC.com and find out which of your favorite lifestylers will take home the trophies!

Right after the awards show, join the exclusive awards after-party in our SDC chatroom, where you can stream live and share pics with other members, award winners, and nominees.

Add yourself to the Watch Party guest list here.


Naughty November Starts Now!

This month just got even sexier with exclusive deals for our SDC members, brought to you by our amazing partners!

Keep an eye out for decadent deals from:

Kandi Events - $350 discount - coupon SDCErotic

Erotic Depot - 25% discount - coupon SDC

MysteryVibe - 25 - 30% discount - on select collections this month Sea Mountain Nude Lifestyle Resort & Spa - $20 off booking California location

Voyeur X - 50% discount - Nov 11th - Nov 25th

This Vibrator Will Rock Her World — And Yours, Too!

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WTF To Do When Swinging Goes Wrong

**This LIVE webinar is FREE exclusively for SDC members!**

Nearly EVERYONE in the swinging lifestyle has an experience that did not go quite as they hoped or expected… and that’s okay! It doesn't *necessarily* mean the end of your relationship or require halting your open lifestyle adventures.

Join Lexi Sylver, sex, relationship, and swinging coach, for the final webinar of Season 3 of her Swinging 101 webinar series.

In this webinar, we’ll explore:

- Most common swinger mishaps

- Dealing with jealousy and other feelings that arise

- How to handle a scenario that goes awry in the moment

- What to do if your boundaries have been broken or pushed too far for comfort

- What to do in the aftermath of a bad experience

Lexi will answer all your questions at the end during the Q&A segment. If you miss the webinar or want a refresher, registered guests will also get access to the video replay.

These events are FREE exclusively for SDC members. Limited space is available, so reserve your free tickets today!

Sierra Nevada, Spain: An Unforgettable Experience!

It’s coming closer — a full-on lifestyle vacation on the spectacular mountains of beautiful Sierra Nevada, in the most southerly mountain range of Europe. This resort town has everything you could ever wish for, offering a smorgasbord of cozy restaurants, bars, shops, and terraces. Whether you love to ski, snowboard, hike, or perhaps even none of that at all, this is the place to be from January 15 – 20, 2023!

This unique event offers a lot of something for everyone. Our party event delivers you the naughty edge off the slopes. Daily après-ski, evening themed parties, wonderful playroom, international DJs, an erotic cinema, FREE PlayShops to hone your sexy skills, and so many hot couples there with you… it will be impossible to feel the winter cold at any time! Sierra Nevada is known to have the sunniest days in Europe, so getting a tan in the snow is a well-known and much-beloved activity here as well!

Don’t feel like a day in the snow? No problem at all, as we offer a daily program of sexy activities to enjoy, and not only that, the gorgeous surrounding Andalusia areas are perfect for sightseeing, including the world-famous Alhambra! 

Join us for a wonderful time at this winter wonderland event!

Don’t miss it — book today!



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Their coaches, educators, and researchers come from many backgrounds and interests and can help you safely and confidently navigate this amazing world.

Check out their videos and articles here on SDC!