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SDC Feature Spotlight

Featured Members

Our Featured Member option is available to all couples and females that are full members of SDC.

To opt in to this popular feature, be sure to have an app-approved photo ready to go, as profiles with only nude photos cannot be accepted. 

To switch on this feature, go to SETTINGS and then Privacy, where you will be prompted to select a photo from your app-approved photos. Select one, click OK, and you are good to go.

Remember, you can opt out or update your app-approved photo at any time.

Once you become a Featured Member, your profile will appear in rotation on the SDC signup page to give you maximum exposure to potential new members near you.

SDC Feature Update

Here are the latest improvements over the last month:

Here are the options:

SDC Contests

Congratulations to TANDSFWB for winning the Unicorn Sex Stories Writing Contest!

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by
iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings & Bijoux Indiscrets.

Click the links below to access, enter or vote for the latest contests:

New -
Nudist Adventures Writing Contest
Voting Underway - Sexy in Nature Photo Contest
Voting Underway - A Very Kinky Video Contest

SDC Shop

Our women's or men's T-shirt with V-neck and short sleeves is an essential staple for your wardrobe!

Personalize yours as desired by choosing an SDC logo of your choice: with or without the text, and whether you prefer the logo small or large.

Order yours now!

You’re Invited to ASN Awards & After-Party on SDC

The countdown is on for the ASN Awards, presented by SDC!

Join us LIVE for the official virtual Watch Party on, starting at 8 PM ET on September 18th, 2022!

Right after the awards show, join the exclusive awards after-party in our SDC chatroom, where you can stream live and share pics with other members, award winners and nominees!

Add yourself to the Watch Party guest list here.

Connect with us on our NEW Reddit account

We’re excited to announce that you can now join us on Reddit!

Check us out at SDCLifestyle to view our resources, ask questions and get answers, and interact with other members of our growing Reddit community.


Swinging 101 Series: Get Exclusive Free Access!

Want to ease into the open lifestyle with smooth confidence?

Join Lexi Sylver, sex, relationship and swinging coach and educator, for Season 3 of her LIVE Swinging 101 webinar series!

These events are FREE exclusively for SDC members. Limited space available, so reserve your free tickets today.

From Monogamy to Open

Sept 7 @ 8 PM ET

Swinger Essentials

Sept 21 @ 8 PM ET

How to Create a Sexy Dating Profile

Oct 5 @ 8 PM ET

Single Men in the Lifestyle

Oct 19 @ 8 PM ET

WTF To Do When Swinging Goes Wrong

Nov 2 @ 8 PM ET

Last Call for Ibiza!

Don’t miss the unmissable! Our event on party island Ibiza is the wildest ride on the menu of lifestyle holidays! From 13 - 18 September, the hottest couples in the world will come together (in the most literal sense of the word)!

Prepare yourselves for super sexy entertainment day and night throughout the week, world-class DJs, a wonderful team at your beck and call and best of all, more than 500 hotties enjoying the fantasy, the dream and the reality of the lifestyle together with you!

This event has the absolute WOW factor, so don’t miss out and book now!


Bella & Jase - 4OURPLAY

Bella & Jase are hosts of the 4OURPLAY Podcast and creators of the 4OURPLAY Swingers Ice Breaker Games.

Join the journey, experiences, and sexual adventures of two high school sweethearts navigating through the Swinging Lifestyle as millennials! With over seven years of experience in the Lifestyle and still in their 20s, they share their stories in a fresh and transparent way, telling the best parts but not overlooking the embarrassing moments and bumps in the road, too!

Bella and Jase are ready to party with you at our SDC Takeover in Ibiza from September 13-18. The trip is almost sold out, so hurry to score the last few available rooms on this sexy event.