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How Did You Get THAT From What I Just Said?
In this video, I’m breaking down why that happens — and what to do about it.
We’ll talk about:
• The interpersonal gap (what you meant vs what they heard)
• The 3 ingredients of every message: words, tone, body language
• The classic breakdown: body 55% • tone 38% • words 7%
• Why trying to resolve big issues over text, DMs, and comments is a recipe for chaos
• How bias (about race, gender, hair, body, ENM, etc.) quietly shapes what people hear
• Why both the speaker and the listener are 100% responsible for clarity
• Simple questions you can use to check understanding on both sides
If you’re navigating ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, or just trying not to argue via paragraph-long texts, this is for you.
I’m Taylor K. Sparks — Ethical Non-Monogamy Coach, Sex Goddess, Certified Human Behavior Specialist, and former corporate trainer in communication, negotiation, conflict resolution, management, and leadership. I help people create more honest, emotionally secure, sexually satisfying relationships with clearer communication and better tools.
Want more? Get exclusive tips on intimacy, pleasure products & ethical non-monogamy — plus 15% off your first order via the link in my profile.
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