Q&A: How Can I Get in the Mood When I'm Just Not into It?
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The scheduled play date with a couple finally arrives, but you're just not into it. Here's what to do.
In this Q&A edition of SexBecause, Charlie and Arienne discuss how to deal with it when you finally get to see a couple for a play date, but you're not in the mood for sex with them — or anybody. There are a lot of factors that could be affecting you, so start by talking with your partner about what you're experiencing.

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