Home chevron_right Swingers chevron_right Q&A: What to Do if I Want Separate Room Play But He Doesn't?
Q&A: What to Do if I Want Separate Room Play But He Doesn't?
If you want to see what full-swap swinging is like at the separate-room level but your partner is not interested, you'll need to have discussions with them about it. Here's how.
Separate room play a very common question for Charlie and Arienne, and they share their communication tips in this Q&A edition of SexBecause.
"Dr. Charlie and Dr. Arienne Williams have specialized knowledge and training around the diverse ways in which people choose to explore their sexuality and/or gender. This will enable the person to feel accepted and understood, without judgement, and free from unnecessary questioning to clarify their understanding. As discrimination is sadly still common surrounding sexual diversity, people may find it difficult to come to terms with their choices and preferences, which can lead to deep feelings of shame. These feelings can lead to difficulties in relationships, and internal conflict within self. Seeking support from Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause.com can help explore these feelings without any fear of the therapist being perhaps shocked or not understanding for example terms and/or slang which may be used in non traditional sexual lifestyles. Dr. Charlie and Dr. Arienne have over 27 years clinical direct care experience dealing with PTSD, sexual trauma, relationship and couples therapy as well as grief support and substance abuse. They have trained over 200 therapists in experiential and cognitive behavioral therapy and worked with over 3,000 patients directly and are themselves clinicians. Confidential online therapy, as well as therapy in their Houston Texas office is also available."SHOW MORE ...
Bobby from Open Instincts on LS Events During COVID-19
Event promoters are getting creative in the era of COVID-19 in order to "keep the Lifestyle together while the world keeps us apart."
Part I: Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up
This is the first in a new series that will offer you a practical blueprint for how to protect your relationship while you are spicing it up in the often-uncharted territory of the psycho-emotional-spiritual realm of erotic intimacy.
Q&A: How Will It Feel Seeing My Husband with Someone Else?
Don't just go for it and hope for the best! Try this instead.
Q&A: My Husband Wants Me to Play Separately. Now What?
If he says it's a fantasy of his, why not entertain the idea?
Q&A: We're Afraid to Play in Our Home. Where is a Great Place to Play With a Couple?
Watch this for ways to solve one of the most common lifestyle dilemmas.