How to Have an Orgy: Pleasure, Consent, and Communication

SDC Lexi Sylver Seek Discover Create Podcast Sex Education Orgy Group Taara Rose James
SDC Lexi Sylver Seek Discover Create Podcast Sex Education Orgy Group Taara Rose James

If you're here reading this, chances are you want to have an orgy. Just a wild guess... And if you are, then definitely read on, and listen to this Lexi Sylver podcast!

Welcome back to my playground, you filthy pervs.

If you're here reading this, chances are you want to have an orgy. Just a wild guess...

And if you are, then definitely read on, and listen to this podcast!

Group sex can be complicated, from finding the perfect partners who are open-minded, who you're attracted to, who are down to play with you and often, with other people in the orgy.

I admit that my first orgy actually came quite naturally. It was spontaneous, and it was a fantastic experience. I wasn't nervous, and there was absolutely no issue with consent with myself nor my partners. We communicated about who we wanted to play with before we went into it, although we had no specific expectations, and once we were all touching each other, we just went with the flow. And everyone had a bangin' good time!

In this special episode of my podcast Seek, Discover, Create, we're going to help you figure out the logistics behind an orgy and answer some popular questions you might have, like:

Are you curious about what it’s like to be part of an orgy?

Are there rules to being in an orgy, or is group sex just a free-for-all?

How do you find the right people for an orgy?

How do you protect yourself sexually when you're in a group sex situation?

How do you establish your boundaries and limits with the other participants? Can you say no to people you don't necessarily want to play with?

Who is an orgy for? Is it just for swingers? Singles? Couples?

And with so many moving parts, how do you keep track of everyone’s pleasure while making sure you have an amazing experience?


If you want to explore all of these in-depth questions about group sex, and turn your fantasy to reality on your own or with your partner, join me tonight with my guests Taara Rose and James, hosts of Sex Uninterrupted podcast on The Sexy Lifestyle Network.

We’re going to get personal with you about our own orgy experiences, give you practical tips and advice for communicating with your partner and your sex group, how to break the ice, and how to make sure everything is running smoothly.

We’ll also explore how to make sure you’re all practicing safe sex so that everyone can have a consensually non-monogamous good time.

Because that's what being in an orgy should be all about — letting yourself go and enjoying all the sensations and stimulation of being with multiple people at once!


Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the Montreal-based erotica author of Mating Season and All the Queen’s Men. She enjoys having a kinky and unconventional lifestyle and sharing her stories and experiences with others. As an entrepreneur, podcaster, advocate, educator, public speaker and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she regularly contributes articles about sexuality and relationships to Pornhub’s Sexual Wellness Center, ASN Lifestyle Magazine, SDC.com and her personal blog. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality. Find out more at LexiSylver.com.
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