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Redefining Sex in the Digital Age: Part 2

SDC Lexi Sylver Seek Discover Create Podcast Sex Education Workers Dirty Lola Francisco Ramirez
SDC Lexi Sylver Seek Discover Create Podcast Sex Education Workers Dirty Lola Francisco Ramirez
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Guests Dirty Lola and Francisco Ramirez discuss how to maintain body-positivity, sex-positivity, and inclusivity in the highly critical world of social media.

Welcome back to my playground, Lexual folx.

Last week, I aired Part 1 of this fun miniseries with Dirty Lola and Francisco Ramirez, the co-hosts of the awesome new show Sex Probz on New York Magazine’s The Cut. And we had great feedback from all of you about how important it was to cover these exact topics.

This week, get ready for the second part of our awesome and informative conversation, as we focus on a few different subjects that are super relevant, especially in times like these!

In This Episode

We're going to explore what we can do to help people maintain a positive body image and self-confidence in a Photoshop-heavy world where, and where Western society's concept of beauty is unnatural, unattainable and dramatically non-inclusive.

We're also going to talk about how we as sex educators can redefine what sex actually means and how to have a dialogue about sex and the concept of virginity in a way that encompasses all bodies, genders and sexual orientations.

Finally, we'll be examining how we can all remove stigma and shame from the way we feel, talk about and express our sexuality.

Last episode (the first part of this series), we focused more on how and why Dirty Lola and Francisco began their forays into sex education, as well as the added challenges that sex educators, sex workers and activists are facing in light of SESTA FOSTA.

We're going to go deeper and talk about one of my favorite topics — self-confidence and body image — and how we can block out the excessively filtered and curated content that we constantly see inundating our social media feeds. That sounds like an impossibility given the influx of new posts that are bombarding us everywhere, especially on our mobile devices, but it's doable if you understand that people usually post only the best and happiest moments in their lives, the sexiest photos of themselves, and those might not reflect the realities they are actually living. So comparing yourself to the images your social media friends can only do you a disservice, because that's not real life.


So listen to this episode in the player above for the second installment of my first two-part podcast miniseries of what it means to redefine sex and sexuality in the digital age!


Stay Lexual!

Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is an erotic storyteller, coach and educator. Her mission is to help you break down barriers and strip away shame and fear so that you can pursue the fulfilling sex life and relationships you desire — and deserve. Her Swinging 101 webinar series is now in its third season and covers essential tips on ethical non-monogamy and the swinger lifestyle for newbies and experienced open lifestylers alike. Drawing from her real-life experiences and salacious imagination, Lexi has authored erotic works like Mating Season: Erotic Short Stories, with more erotica coming in early 2023. She shares her sex positivity and passionate advocacy for sexual freedom by presenting at events and conferences and contributing articles to a number of resources and publications. Whether you’re indulging in her erotic short stories or transforming your sex life and relationship(s) with her coaching and webinars, Lexi will provoke you to unveil your deepest desires and fantasies and discover how to make them a reality. Dare to explore YOUR Lexuality.
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