Part I: Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up
This is the first in a new series that will offer you a practical blueprint for how to protect your relationship while you are spicing it up in the often-uncharted territory of the psycho-emotional-spiritual realm of erotic intimacy.
This is the first in a new series that will offer you a practical blueprint for how to protect your relationship while you are spicing it up in the often-uncharted territory of the psycho-emotional-spiritual realm of erotic intimacy.
We have designed a unique assessment tool called the Lifestyle Inventory Check-Up© or LIC that will ask you the right questions so you and your partner will be in the right conversation to best prepare you to design a love map of each other’s erotic world (The full LIC will be the topic of a separate article and you can read it for free!).
This couple went to a few hotel meet-and-greets and finally found the couple that helped them dive into the world of swinging. Worth the wait!
Want to know if a couple is for real? In most cases the earlier you discuss meeting, the quicker 'fakes' stop contacting you since they have no intention of meeting anyone.
The core challenge of modern love is, namely, how to balance and integrate risk within safety, mystery within the familiar, and novelty into the mundane of day-to-day life together. Difficult, yes. Impossible, no.
Many within the erotic lifestyle approach participate in the lifestyle with a — sorry to be critical here — somewhat novice route.