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Making Sexual Goals for the New Year

And with the New Year comes new changes and new sexual goals!

It’s the New Year! And with the New Year comes new changes and new sexual goals! This is the time to seriously consider what you want for your sexual life, and how you can achieve the goals that you want for yourself. It’s about discovering new pathways to your sexuality and engaging in new sexual experiences that will enhance your love life.

I don’t know about you, but for me, making resolutions for the New Year doesn’t really do much. However, goals are a different story. For me, resolutions are easily broken, but I’m a sucker for goals. I love aiming for goals and creating new steps to make them achievable and great.


For the New Year, I’d like to invite you to think about your new sexual goals for the New Year:


  • Do you want to be celibate?
  • Do you want to discover and/or participate in new sexual things, such as dogging or sploshing?
  • Do you want to discover your lover in new ways or commit to new sexual techniques?
  • Do you want to elevate your understanding of sexuality and foster your spiritual side?

Write Down Your Sexual Goals


Take a moment to write down your sexual goals, save it in your Google Drive and check on it at least once a month to see if you have come a step closer to achieving it. If you’ve achieved it, make a new one and go from there! The more goals you accomplish, the more confidence you gain and with the more confidence you gain, the better you become at realizing your own sexual self. Knowing yourself is one of the sexiest things you can do for yourself!


Don't Just Do It For You


However, it’s not only about you. It’s about connecting to those around you. It’s about being able to exchange sexual energy with those who are susceptible to your confidence and embracing the power within. It’s about engaging in your sexual charisma where you draw in people like a moth to a flame. It’s about being able to divinely come into contact with your sexual power and use it in an influential way towards others.




So with that said, it’s a new year to embrace your best sexual self and achieve new sexual goals! Cheers to your sexual success!

Marla Stewart

Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a professional sex, intimacy and relationship coach and sex educator. Not only is she a lecturer at Clayton State University, she is also the co-founder of the Sex Down South Conference and the Sexual Liberation Collective. Gaining her reputation for being "The Sex Architect", she created Velvet Lips to empower people of all ages to embrace, educate and enjoy their sexuality and their sexual lives. She has studied human sexuality for more than 16 years at San Francisco State University and Georgia State University, respectively, and has expert knowledge in a wide variety of subjects. She has published academic articles and continues to do sexuality research. She has conducted workshops at conferences, not-for-profit and private organizations, as well as universities in the Atlanta area. She has been featured on many radio shows, documentaries, books, magazines and has been invited to speak at Universities around the country. She also sits on the board for the Atlanta Harm Reduction Coalition and SPARK Reproductive Justice Now!
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