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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 5
Monogamous Mindset and Norms: Monogamous relationships often conform to societal norms and expectations.

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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 6
Emotional Monogamy: Emotional exclusivity is a common characteristic of monogamous relationships, where partners often seek emotional fulfillment exclusively from each other.

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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 3
Shared Resources and Time: Monogamous couples typically share their resources, time, and responsibilities with one partner.

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6 Monogamous Characteristics Incompatible with ENM Part 4
Relationship Hierarchy: In monogamous relationships, the romantic partner often holds the highest priority in terms of emotional and time investment.

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Seduction, Flirting, and the Art of the Tease
Explore the art of seduction, flirting, teasing, and the power of sexual anticipation in this sexy new podcast called Please Me!

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What is a Swinger Unicorn?
In the sex clubs and swinger lifestyle, there are a ton of single swingers, not just couples. Learn why we call single women "unicorns" and why single men are referred to as "bulls."

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My Journey Into Ethical Non-Monogamy
How Taylor transitioned into ethical non-monogamy, why she wrote the book An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy, and the launch of THE SERIES

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Which is More Intimate: Sleeping Together OR Oral Sex?
In this Ask a Sex Goddess video, Taylor discusses the nuances of intimacy and sex.

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Do Women Want Threesomes with Other Women?
FMF threesomes are not just a fantasy for guys!

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SDC Affiliates Work Smarter, Not Harder by Earning Commission
SDC's Affiliate Program provides businesses the opportunity to earn generous and recurring commission. Here's how.

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How to Maximize the Simple Yet Powerful SDC Partner Dashboard
Curious about how SDC works to reach your preferred audience? Here's a behind-the-scenes glimpse into the tools available to our Partners.

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Want to Make Money & Grow Your Business? Become an SDC Partner!
Learn how SDC Partners have the opportunity to reach open-minded, highly-targeted people around the world.

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From Mild to Wild: Caliente’s Spicy Lifestyle
The bare truth about one of the world’s hottest clothing-optional destinations.