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Private Parties

The lifestyle is often a private and intimate encounter of like-minded people. You have the right to be as selective as you want to be when it comes to choosing that sexy couple (or couples) you wish to play with. So, with that in mind, we are proud to offer a fun way for you and your lifestyle friends to get together without any added pressure. 

Check out our Private Party calendar, where you can host the next hot event in the comfort of your home or any intimate location of your choosing. Send out invites to just those you wish to play with and have a sexy soirée of your very own! You have the right to be as picky as you want to be, so plan your next party today!

To post your first private party, please go to:

Parties & Events —> +Private Party


Click Here to post one right now!

SDC Feature Update

Here are the latest improvements over the last month:

SDC Contests

Congratulations to ALUSTFULCOUPLE for winning the Licking & Sucking Video Contest and to DVESEM for winning the Naked Summer Fun Photo Contest!

Check out the latest contests with chances to WIN superb prizes! Prizes provided by iCandy Clothing Company, ChiqRet Metal Fashion, Sea Mountain Nude Resort & Lifestyle Swinger Club, DV8 Dare Games, Malibu Strings & Bijoux Indiscrets.

Click the links below to access, enter or vote for the latest contests: New - A Very Kinky Video Contest
New - Sexy in Nature
Voting Underway - Unicorn Sex Stories

SDC Shop

Enjoy your holiday! And remember: You will find the nicest, sexiest toys and awesome SDC merchandise in our shop!


Save the Date For the ASN Awards Show!

Who’s the best entertainer? The best venue / club? The best travel resort? 

Find out who will take home this year’s trophies at the ASN Awards, presented by SDC!

The show will be broadcast LIVE on on September 18th, 2022.

So save the date and join us at our virtual watch party!

Check out the official ASN Awards site — more details to come!

Erotic Art with Alex Manfredini: The Artist Behind The Camera

Meet the multi-award-winning erotic photographer renowned worldwide for his glamorous, star-studded career: Alex Manfredini

His career spans over thirty years, during which time the globetrotting photographer has traveled to many countries for photoshoots with celebrities, high fashion models, and other photo subjects fortunate enough to be captured by Alex’s artistic eye. 

Alex’s iconic work has been featured in art galleries, museums, in publications like Playboy and Hustler, and in private art collections. 

Read our exclusive interview with this influential, passionate man behind the camera.

Sex, Relationship, & Lifestyle Coaching with Lexi Sylver

Strip away shame and fear and confidently pursue the fulfilling sex and relationships you desire — and deserve!

As the host of the popular Swinging 101 series and with 10+ years of experience as an educator and coach, Lexi Sylver will empower you to discover and communicate your needs, desires, and boundaries to your partner(s) and maximize your sex-cess in the open lifestyle. 

She’ll help you break down barriers, uncover your strengths, boost your skills, and guide you to a high standard of sexcellence with her creative advice and strategies.

Book your FREE consultation call with Lexi! 

SDC member Lexclusive: Use code SDCLEX to get 15% off your first coaching session. Offer ends August 31st, 2022.

Adventures of a Lifetime!

We realize you can't always go on holiday during the usual summertime. And hey, let's admit it, it's great if there are other options available. We've got you covered! So, adventure lovers and party animals, if you haven't booked your room for what is going to be a stellar event on Ibiza from 13 – 18 September 2022, or your room at our winter swingers’ holiday event in Sierra Nevada from January 15 – 20, 2023, now is a great time to plan ahead!

Both of these events are going to be super sexy and loaded with swingers' fun! Ibiza will be its gorgeous self with all the right trimmings, and Sierra Nevada will be a true haven for snow and sun lovers alike! Can’t ski? No problem — there is plenty of other sexy stuff on the program to enjoy during the day and, of course, at night!

Book now!


Introducing Leveled Up Love

Let’s all give a warm welcome to Leveled Up Love, the newest contributors to join our team of experts at SDC! Leveled Up Love is an ecosystem that helps you thrive in conscious open relationships.

Here, you can feel safe, seen, loved, and fully expressed while also having the freedom to explore other relationship adventures that lead to fulfilling growth, healing, and service to others.

Join the Leveled Up Love community and try their transformative events for more mindful and sustainable poly relationships.

Check out their articles on open relationships and polyamory here on SDC!